PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! ex boyfriend problem??!?!?!?
my ex has ignored me since september because
i moved away.. and now im back for a week seeing
my other relatives and he writes me after months
of silence he wrote an e-mail saying "merry christmas"
and that was it!!!! what should i do?? should i write him back?
what should i say?????
.. i kinda have feelings 4 him, but im hurt that he ignored me..
& if i write him back saying merry christmas to you too..
well.. what if he doesn't write me back?? then i will be hurt
again.. but i rele do miss him.. so what should i write??
2007-12-25 12:32:02 · 14 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he has written to you, it's only polite that you write back.
And before you start typing, hypnotise yourself that you are writing to an old friend.
And if you are brave enough, allow your email to show your true feelings/let him know of your feelings(you don't have to use email)
Protecting yourself isn't always the right way of life and sometimes may causes people to lose what they really wanted.
2007-12-25 13:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by LifeWon'tWait4U2GetBack2Feet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write merry Christmas to you too if he does reply back move on which is something you should have done when he started ignoring you.
2007-12-25 12:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex.. don't worry about it.
Just reply saying Merry Christmas to you too, and maybe ask how are you or something. Don't worry too much if he doesn't reply back. Move on, and he's an ex for a reason!
2007-12-25 12:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by MOVED! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still have feelings for your ex? If you dont have feelings, dont worry/feel guilty too much! He's your ex boyfriend, you're bound to always think some things he does are sweet. Ive gotta say though....... If your boyfriend finds out I don't think he'll be happy! Maybe it would be best if you told him yourself, I think he'd understand more if you heard it from you and he might even be able to help if youre confused about it all! :) I hope it turns out okay!
2016-04-11 00:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
merry christmas means merry christmas. you're way overcomplicating the matter. kinda feelings are no basis for a relationship, and anyway he did break it off, so what's to wonder about?
try stopping being so hurt and maybe you can have a friend in this guy. and by the way, you're the one who moved away. don't blame him for that.
2007-12-25 12:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by wendy.bryan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just write Merry Christmas back and see what he said after that.
-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-25 13:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply say,
Hey there old friend,
why havnt we spoken to each other lately? I guess i didnt write you either but then again you didnt write me....anyways i wanted to see if would be ok to come visit you cause im staying for about a week to visit relitives... if it seems to unconfertable i wont... i really missed you.
- MERRYY CHRISTMAS
2007-12-25 12:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by emy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would write him back and say merry christmas to you too! and if he askes you out say no thx
2007-12-25 12:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by x..Audrie.X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is...what if you do write and he responds in kind? Are you going to wonder what if or are you going to take this opportunity to find out once and for all if there's anything?
2007-12-25 12:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by ro 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if this relationship is really over, then let it run it's course
send him back a message saying " thanks you too" if he wants to ignore you then it already shows your better then him, let him lay in the bed he made, and if he comes back rethink EVERYTHING.. like him ignoring you and then make you decision.. number one thing a guy wants to do is play mind games * wither you think they will or not* so don't feed into this bs... TRUST ME, i've done this, failed at this to many times for you not to trust me on this.. what is meant to be will be, just let it run it course and let him come to you
2007-12-25 12:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋