ight well theres 3 guyz i like a lot.
but only one i live near by and me and him donot tlk at all though i want to.
then the 2cd one he has lied to me about him and i feel like he is a stalker now.
the 3rd one would be perfect but he lives like 4 states away and i really donot want a long distance relationship.
ik they donot work at all.
i am tired of being single and i am so confused.
ppl say i am gorgeous but no one cares to go out wit me i just donot get it.!
i need help/advise plz
thnks =)
2007-12-25 12:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, at this point I wouldn't go looking for someone. They'll come to you when the time's right. Perhaps the one 4 states away will move closer. The stalker you should avoid, and the other one may or may not be interested. As far as you being gorgeous, you probably are. But sometimes pretty girls are intimidating to guys, so smile a lot and be friendly to everyone. They'll see your likeable personality and be much more inclined to talk to you. :)
2007-12-25 12:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say hold old you are, but I'm guessing you are a teenager. You might be a bit boy crazy. I'm not making fun of you -- I was quite boy crazy when I was younger and I wish I knew then what I knew now. It is ok for you to make the first move. Guys can be a bit clueless sometimes. But after you've approached him a couple times, wait and let him approach you. If he doesn't then move on. Don't "chase" him.
One thing that got me good results is to already have a boyfriend. Easier said than done, but once a guy realizes you are a normal likeable girl who can get a guy, it's more attractive to him. You say you are physically attractive but maybe you give off a desperate vibe or something. Try to be very casual about things, like you don't care. One thing I do is smile alot like I have something to hide. People pay attention to that.
Or maybe nothing is wrong with you but guys get intimidated and assume you wouldn't go out with them because you're pretty. So again, it's ok to make the first move.
Good luck and try to remember, you need to be truly happy with yourself before you can love someone else.
2007-12-25 20:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by cheezfri1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,this one is pretty easy if you know that one is probably a stalker maybe that really isn't the person for you but the one that lives far away should be more like a friend then a partner.Yet, the boy do the street if you like him then make your move.If your gorgeous then he won't say No!
2007-12-25 20:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all when you make a question make sure it is readable to people so that we can understand and help you out. "2cd one he has lied to me about him and i feel like he is a stalker now." What are trying to say here he lied to you and became a stalker? Well to answer your question don't go out with someone just for the heck of it you have to be sure.
2007-12-25 20:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by Daryl M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the same thing with me people say i am so beautiful but i have not had a boyfriend since 1st grade. yeah i know.
boys will just stare at me or flirt but nothing ever happens.
i say be brave and go for the first boy. if you guys never talk nothing can ever happen right. some other girl will probably come and take him
2007-12-25 20:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nne O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you are looking at boys. The thing you need is a man. Men know how to treat a lady. If you are to young for a man wait till you are old enough. You sound way to young.
2007-12-25 20:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound a lot like a friend of mine. Why not be single for a while. You won't attract the really good guys if you sound really needy (this question).. Just let it go. If none of them work, you can't do anything about that.
2007-12-25 20:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are more fish in the sea. wait until you find a great guy.
you are tired of being single? I think that means you are too dependent on relationships. Learn to be with yourself before you can be serious with another. and if you are not looking to be serious why not try dating?
2007-12-25 20:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one nearest will be the best try. If you are as georgeous as they say then most are scared to ask so ask others that you see that you like. It is ok for you to make the first move.
2007-12-25 20:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after 1, and make a effort
2 sounds like a werido
3 u cant make a long distance relationship work. many people have failed
2007-12-25 20:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋