So... I had this boyfriend. Things weren't the best, so I broke up with him, and now we're just good friends! But he's dating the one girl that I hate! Suddenly, my feelings are just rushing back! : [ I know I don't want to date him again, but I still kinda like him.
Help!
2007-12-25 13:39:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand.
me and my boyfriend also broke up
and now hes seeing one of my friends
and it feels as if hes treating her better
it kinda hurts
but then eventually you will get over it.
I also didn't want him back either
you know for the fact that when you guys get back together
it won't be the same.
Go out and have fun.
be positive [like i do] and try to forget.
Eventually you can do it. Its just up to you
if you really want to give him up.
Theres also plenty other guys
the world isn't going to to end
so don't you worry!
And just to see if he cares try to flirt with his friends or something.
or when you had a anniversary date say
" happy __ months, but i guess its not necessary "
it might just crush him =)
2007-12-25 13:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by babyobscure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...
Being good friends after breaking up is sure something hard to cope up with. If you have really loved him in that "while", it's too fanciful (though i'm not saying it's impossible) to recover from you're emotions and reflect you're true feelings to yourself - which eventually will get you affected on what's going on with "his" life while both of you are still in contact, like what occured just now.
I suggest it would be helpful to step away from him (and from the friendship) for a while - at least until you have finally move on.
Ain't no easy to "let go" gurl, but then again, if we don't, we'll never move on. Yep, it's depressing... time heals though.
Be strong.
2007-12-25 14:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by J.a.c.q.© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's that age old - you want what you can't have. Now that he's off the market -you are starting to reconsider. But the good thing is, you recognize what's going on and that ya'll are better as friends. Just keep reminding yourself - that although he's a good guy-he's not the right guy for you and he's your ex for a reason.
2007-12-25 13:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Boots 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason and that was because you weren't happy. Remember that and you will do better. It's hard right now but stay true to yourself and you will be happier.
2007-12-25 13:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by ro 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand..isn't it selfish humans try to get something even though we know it's wrong...but still can't stop thinking about it...referring to me
2016-09-08 16:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aah i had that too. Just plan a day out with your friends to get your mind off of him!
2007-12-25 13:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
girl u got it baddd. if he knows u hte this girl get revenge date someone he hates and try to win him back. If it is fate....
2007-12-25 13:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by skittles 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IDK. TIME TO GET URSELF A HOOK-UP PARTNER.
2007-12-25 13:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋