Do you feel that it would be a sin to view pornography with your spouse if it causes no lust and only feelings for one another?
2007-12-25 14:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by GodsGrl4Real 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you really want to get technical just read the bible "to look opon a women in lust is to have committed adultery in your heart". Your husband is sinning by watching porn even with you there because it definitely causes lust which is a form of adultery in Jesus's eyes. Don't believe it doesn't cause lust for your husband because he wouldn't be watching it if he didn't get something out of it. Plus if he is weak in that area it will set him up to have a bigger appetite and lust which can hurt him in life with temptations like a affairs because he has let the devil get a foothold or given a place to the devil in his life. Then ask him that is someones daughter would he want some man lusting after his daughter that way as a sex object.The devil is in the bussiness of making things seem innocent when they are not.
2007-12-25 14:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by poo~poo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having to even ask this question, then it is obviously a cause for concern with YOU and your God. Do you really have to view pornography to make you have feelings for your spouse? Why not just look at your spouse naked? I have to admit, your question is one of the stranger ones I've seen.
2007-12-25 22:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not! It's perfectly natural. Humans are born with the ability to explore their sexualities for a reason. If this bonds you and your partner, that's all the reason to do it. Of course, it depends on what religion you subscribe to and how religious you are - some faiths would consider this a sin, others might be more lenient. In my opinion, it is not only natural, we would all be fooling ourselves if we said that it's unnatural to think about, look at, or otherwise engage in sexual materials like pornography.
2007-12-25 22:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can still respect yourself, your spouse, and the people you see in the pornography, then have at it.
Good luck.
2007-12-25 22:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a sin, but one that shares intimacy between the two of you. Normal in today's society.
2007-12-25 22:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by SWEETYPI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its your spouse, I believe it would be o.k. That is my own conviction. Its really up to how you both feel about it. You'll know by that gut feeling you get while watching it. You either will feel o.k. with it or you won't.
2007-12-25 22:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't believe in "sin" my answer would have to be no
2007-12-25 23:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a sin, we are only human, it is in our animal instinct.
2007-12-26 00:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in sin, so my answer would be no.
2007-12-25 22:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you're sure your partner doesn't mind. sometimes women go along with stuff that their pea-brained men want because they're afraid to speak up.
2007-12-25 22:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by wendy.bryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋