I have a best friend that I really like. We are always together and really touchy feely, and I like that. I want to move further sometime when we are alone together, but he has a gf. They have only been together a month and its a really weird relationship....everyone expects they will break up soon. But would it be ok for us to do anything and not mention it publicly until they break up?
2007-12-25 15:48:20 · 13 answers · asked by notcrazyunwell 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sex changes everything.I think your in love with him.And if he agrees to have sex with you then maybe he loves you too.When friends want to have sex with each other,it's more then friends already.I've not have sex with my friend but we hugged and kissed only once and everything has changed.We are now aware that how we love each other has gone more than just love between friends.
2007-12-26 05:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by andy13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very strange question. Of course friendship changes when you have sex. It sounds as if you want more than a friend. How does he feel about all this? Why wouldn't he just go ahead and break up with this girl? Why would he want to sneak around and have sex with a friend behind her back if he intends to break it off eventually, anyway?
2007-12-25 23:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex complicates everything! Regardless of who you're dealing with. Once you all have sex then what? Are you going to go back to being buddies? You might not like that cause it sounds like you want more. Don't expect things to be the same, because having sex is definitely crossing the line.
2007-12-25 23:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by fingerprint 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the friendship relationship will totally change. You could become more attached to that person or you could be really grossed out.
You know, sex is a fun thing to do. But as time goes on deeper feelings will result.
2007-12-25 23:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It changes when u take it to that step. It will feel awkward when ur hanging out as "friends" and it won't be as fun and exciting when ur flirting or goofin around b/c then u both know where its gonna end up(sex). I rather keep the friendship and the hot intense flirting, it's never the same feeling after the fact!
2007-12-26 00:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by nadiagyrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
generally having sex with someone changes things, sometimes it can make you better friends, and there are people that make honest agreements and they are out in the open and everyone is happy and when things change they talk about it openly that way no one is confused, that is not considered cheating, you sound very young though so that is probably not for you, no offense, perhaps you should wait.
2007-12-26 00:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never go back to what you have now.
I have never ever ever ever known a "just friends" after lovers that worked. Lying backstabbers yes. Affairs yes. Lovers then functional friends.. nope, not once ever ever.
Things cant stay the same.
2007-12-25 23:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by Curly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dear,
nowadays it is common with all teenagers. many have the same problem. you must have the guts to do any thing you wish. there is nothing harmful in that.
2007-12-26 00:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by duke of raikhad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want that done to you? You = your character decisions. Do the right thing. You'll never regret doing the right thing.
2007-12-25 23:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by angieblossom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1) it's called cheating hon...but i'm sure you thought of that right?
2) once you screw, you can't redo...in other words, it'll change your whole friendship...sex ***** things up, so to speak...it does...
You either can pick the friendship or the sex, but you cannot have both
2007-12-25 23:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋