Besides hide in the closet?
2007-12-25 15:35:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Funny how so many of y'all jump to conclusions on this question...
2007-12-26 01:53:08 · update #1
sleep in another room where you can lock the door, so he can't come in.
2007-12-25 15:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Amarante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar issue were sometimes I pretended I was asleep so that he'd eventually leave me alone, but truthfully that does ruin relationships so please talk to him. Do you want a divorce? If not then that's what you need to do, communicate, I had to. I've only been married for 1 year. I didn't know what was going on with me, I was pretending I was asleep, acting like I didn't feel good; I just wasn't in the mood like I used to be. I had to think about it. I love my husband with all my heart and would do just about anything to remain his wife. No one is going to take my place because "I wasn't in the mood". Last night my husband and I made love in the cold in the park last night. I was freezing my *** off, but it was fun, adventurous, and wild. I just needed a relapse of how adventurous we still were.. Maybe that's what you need. If not you might need to try couples therapy or if it's just not there anymore, just let it go....Good Luck! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year
2007-12-26 00:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by Love Angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a part of marriage so if you are having problems with that you should be honest with him and not hide in the closet.
2007-12-25 23:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ana C pisces1976 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No lie - why are you avoiding him?
Are you just not in the mood? Tired? Is he not doing it for you anymore?
Tell him so you can work it out... men aren't mind readers, they aren't even good at hints... spell it out, and then tell him what you spelled - or move his hands to the right spot ;)
I know I'm often tired, but we work around that - I'll wake him up in the morning, or we'll go at it as soon as he gets home... talk to him about it, and then work around it - figure it out! Marriage is work, and a LOT of it - but it's better when you do it together!
2007-12-25 23:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoiding sex with your husband will only cause major damage to the relationship...I am guessing that you may be feeling unloved/unappreciated because I know that a womans sex drive and desire for husband is directly connected to these things. I would suggest that you both read "The Five Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman. It helped my husband and I immensely, and what was once miserable marriage with occasional viloence is well on its way to being a happy and loving marriage in which we are both fulfilled.
2007-12-25 23:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by GodsGrl4Real 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Analize why you don't want to and then maybye you two should have a little talk. NOT making love kinda sets the tone for the whole relationship. Careful, there are very real feelings at stake here...
2007-12-25 23:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't avoid my husband if I could have sex. I have a condition where I can't and I would do anything to have sex with him. Do not take having sex for granted seriously. You never know what you have till its gone.
2007-12-26 00:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would I do that? I love 2 have sex with my hubby, anytime anyplace and we have been married 4 8 years now.
2007-12-25 23:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How selfish. Why did you get married? There was a question I answered a few minutes ago asking for opinions on why the divorce rate was so high? BINGO! I guess you can get a divorce and not have to worry about it anymore.
2007-12-25 23:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why would I avoid having sex with my husband?
2007-12-25 23:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Susan M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need professional help.
Why aren't you being honest with him?
Why no interest in sex?
Why playing games instead of being honest?
I was married to a major game-mind-playing man. I have no patience for it. Get honest with yourself, then with him.
2007-12-25 23:48:55 · answer #11 · answered by Gliowien R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋