Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

I don't even think I'm to the point where I love her yet but I just feel so lonely right now and very depressed. sigh
She wants to remain friends, is that a good idea? ahhh i don't know what to do please help.

2007-12-25 17:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to prepare a divorce agreement.
Is there a certain format I should follow?
Where can I find template or sample of divorce agreement?

2007-12-25 17:07:48 · 4 answers · asked by Ying J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 and I have been dating my g/f who is 29 for about 2 years. In early November, I told her I wanted to end the relationship because I didn't feel it was going anywhere and I though I was falling out of love with her. She took it REAL hard and so after a lot of begging, pleading, crying, promising, etc, I agreed to give it another chance. Well, things havn't really changed much. It's nothing with her personally, she's a nice girl, I just don't feel the love that I once did and I don't want to keep going in a relationship that I don't think has a future. Anyway, today she dropped a bombshell on me. She told me she's 12 weeks preg accedently and she's keeping it. I was planning on breaking up again but after New Years (I was gonna spare her the heartbreak over the holidays) but now I don't know what to do! She's been on the pill the whole time we've been dating so I never thought to wear a condom. Should I stay with her now or not? I can't see myself ever loving her.

2007-12-25 17:05:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1) He tells you that you are sweet.
2) He tells you that the only difference between you and a flower is that you are more beautiful.
3) He gives you a rose (puts it in your hair) and tells you that you are so beautiful that an otherwise beautiful rose looks ugly when seen with you.
4) He tells that he loves you and wants to make love to you.
5) He tells you that he wishes that he could kiss you from now until forever.
6) He hugs you.
7) He tickles you.
8) He tells you that you look like a princess only you are sweeter.
9) He offers to carry your school bag/luggage.
10) He asks you to close your eyes and then brings forward an apple and aks you to open your eyes. He then gives you the apple.
11) He says "I love you".
12) He gets you pregnant.
13) He tells you that he wants to have 12 children, 8 little girls like you and 4 little boys like him.
14) He buys for you a doll.
15) He tells that he likes you.

This question is for adult females only. Please state your age.

2007-12-25 17:04:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like can a woman tell just by talking to a virgin that he is a virgin. Or while they are having intercourse or afterwards can a woman tell if he is/was a virgin if so how??

ALso do girls like guys that are more experienced so they know exactly how to do it. I mean I dont think many girls would want some one who has no experience in that area

I am 19 and a virgin btw so probably a little late for me

2007-12-25 17:04:22 · 8 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like can a woman tell just by talking to a virgin that he is a virgin. Or while they are having intercourse or afterwards can a woman tell if he is/was a virgin if so how??

ALso do girls like guys that are more experienced so they know exactly how to do it. I mean I dont think many girls would want some one who has no experience in that area

I am 19 and a virgin btw so probably a little late for me.

2007-12-25 17:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl has been off and on with her ex for the better part of 2 years now. as her friend prior to them getting together I was always there for her to help her through him screwing up and them fighting. during an off period, recently, we started dating, (kind of unexpectedly) for about 4 months. things were great. when she started to have feelings for him again I decided it was time to call it off and let her figure things out. she's back together with this idiot AGAIN and wonders why we can't talk anymore (I think she feels like we should still have that friendship we had before we got together) I told her I had to make a clean break and not be in her way, and that I need time to move on. I'm in the process of moving on, but she keeps texting, and messenging me, and wonders why I can't talk to her or see her anymore. What's the deal? Am I doing the right thing by avoiding her? Why is she so concerned about me now?

2007-12-25 17:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well what if I just get under her shirt and feel her up... do I have to take off her bra? I'm sure it would be alot better with the bra off, but I am getting to second in a movie theater so it would be weird with her bra off in there. Does it still count as second though as long as I'm under her shirt??

2007-12-25 17:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not real good wit women so instead of asking other men what they think ill try womens opinion



im currently single and not lovin it
any advice on how to ask out a girl and keep them happy basically wat women apreciate in a man

2007-12-25 16:58:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a nut shell...My wife of 10 years had an affair and left me for him last year...I took some time and in the process met a wonderful woman. There is a possibility of starting kinda over in life at 34 and moving 2000 miles to a completely new region..Has anyone done this??? I'm very excited and nervous about this possible new venture in life but I'm willing and wanting to just go for it..Did you start a whole new life after your divorce?...thanks and merry X-mas!!

2007-12-25 16:54:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Live in Ca. Married 3 years. I am half way in to finalizing divorce. I groossed $170k this year. She said she had no income at all. How much would be my alimaony paymanet to her. No children. Thank You.

2007-12-25 16:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by allem a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I broke up recently. He still wanted me around to be his friend but I refused - too painful being around him knowing that I've been demoted from the love of his life to someone he randomly messages when he feels like it.

To stop this from happening, I enforced no contact and I haven't heard from him since, that was over 2 weeks ago. I am so lonely and miserable and desperate and I'm fighting the urge to contact him.

I know that keeping busy will make me feel better, but now the holidays are here and I'm not working I'm going crazy with grief. My family live interstate and my friends are on holidays. Suggestions?

2007-12-25 16:54:01 · 18 answers · asked by Lochie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a big wedding or a small family gathering? How many guests are you planning to/did you invite?

2007-12-25 16:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Weddings

more for a few years I want to grow old with both if not just one... ok Ive loved this girl for 10 years that kind of remembers me yet the other one known for 4 years and Im told she wants babies with me and wants to be my wife I want both of their children but am afraid of losing either one of them over time and I am wondering if a marrage of 3 people could or would last untill old age

2007-12-25 16:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked a question about my husband telling his mom he was thinking about giving my car to her and she descided that meant she could pick it up the next day. finding out i was losing my car before our new one was picked upset me. some one told me to obeymy husband! i care for our 3 kids. clean our house, cook all our meals, wait on him hand and foot, i take the money he earns and pay all the bills and buy all the food we need! then i give him what is left and if i feel i want or need something more i ask him because i respect him. i have more than earned my car and the van he is buying to make room for our 4th baby. mark and i discussed what to do with the car when i get the van and he expressed a desire to keep the car for himself to drive back and forth to work while he rebuilds his truck.....something he has wanted to for a while. i agreed with that because he loves that truck and wants it to look awsome! i think i have done well in my efforts to obey and respect him.....

2007-12-25 16:46:27 · 6 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband told me on the 22nd that he had to go away on business and wouldnt be back till the 28 and we would have christmas then.this morning i couldnt dissapoint my 3yo or my 7mo (its her first christmas) so i let them each open a present.he called and asked so i told him and he blew up on the phone.was i wrong

2007-12-25 16:45:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am tired&sick of him...
im a working mom,we have 2work in order to survive especially we now have a 2years old daughter.
i was assigned in our place so i lived w/ my parents. my daughter is w/ me because my sisters & my mom r the 1 who takes care of her...no one will take care in my husbands place so my daughter is w/ me...
anyway, back to my husband... he gets jealous w/ no reason, whenever i eat lunch or merienda he keeps on asking who is with me during those later&that is everyday...! he will find reason to get mad at me always... and i keep on texting him as long as i am not busy in the office, unfortunately, he get mad whenever i didnt reply, w/out thinking i have no time or i am busy.
every weekend i stay in our house,i do all d household chores&spend time w/ him as much as possible.he is not appreciating my effort although i am very2x tired.I dont hve time 2 rest for that day. all i want is for me to feel that he love&cares 4 me but he kips on nagging!it really upsets me!

2007-12-25 16:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by luna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, what was the reason??

2007-12-25 16:42:24 · 13 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am tired&sick of him...
im a working mom,we have 2work in order to survive especially we now have a 2years old daughter.
i was assigned in our place so i lived w/ my parents. my daughter is w/ me because my sisters & my mom r the 1 who takes care of her...no one will take care in my husbands place so my daughter is w/ me...
anyway, back to my husband... he gets jealous w/ no reason, whenever i eat lunch or merienda he keeps on asking who is with me during those later&that is everyday...! he will find reason to get mad at me always... and i keep on texting him as long as i am not busy in the office, unfortunately, he get mad whenever i didnt reply, w/out thinking i have no time or i am busy.
every weekend i stay in our house,i do all d household chores&spend time w/ him as mush as possible.he is not appreciating my effort although i am very2x tired.I dont hve time 2 rest for that day. all i want is for me to feel that he love&cares 4 me but he kips on nagging!it really upsets me!

2007-12-25 16:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by luna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

been with this girl now for about 6 months, going good for the most part, but there is one part about her that bothers me. She is a major attention freak. She has all these guys who chase her, ex's, guy friends, and I can just tell that she leads them on just enough so they'll keep chasing, but not enough to actually do anything wrong to me. Another example, shes switched jobs a few times, and has male coworkers chasing her, and instead of acting like she has a b/f, shes giving her number out, getting numbers, has guys from working calling her at all hours of the day. Like I said, nothing crossing the line yet, but enough to bother me and know she is leading them on to entertain her ego. Shes also the type who, before we were going out, completely surrounded herself with guys who liked her and that was it, had 1 or 2 female friend and that was it. So....should I be cautious dating someone like her? Is it a matter of time before I get played? Why are some girls like this? Thanks!!

2007-12-25 16:42:02 · 4 answers · asked by Jack B 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a very loving grandmother who has always showed her grandchildren with kindness, respect and love.

she lives a few hours drive from all of her grandchildren. My brother lives 5hrs drive away from her, and works 7 days a week as well as doing uni for the past 5 years. So he hasn't visited anyone (friends or family) for a few years. He hasn't got much money, and doesn't call anyone very often either. And he hates writing letters.
He's a guy who loves his family and will do anything to help out when he can, but doesn't have regular contact with anyone.
this year, grandmother has told my mother that my brother is not "part of the family" because he didn't visit her this year.
mum explained my brothers life to her, and grandmother said that it wasn't good enough.
Grandmother has not contacted my brother since he left home in 02.. so it goes both ways.
my brother is a little bit hurt, but understands where she is coming from. My mother and father are really struggling with it

2007-12-25 16:39:08 · 10 answers · asked by chilly 5 in Family

I love her so much, but yet, I can't stop talking to woman online for the purposes of sex....I love my wife more than anything in the world. She hasn't caught me, but I want to stop before something bad happens. Please help me... I don't want her hurt.

2007-12-25 16:37:17 · 29 answers · asked by Echowave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Not to long ago... i was helping my mom get the groceries out of the car and i saw a box of condoms! i just went along while my mind was racing, and acted like i didnt see anything. then i was putting them on the counter when my mom's bf walks in and takes the bag with the box in it and takes it into the bed room. he then comes back a few seconds later and i asked him what he was doing. he played stupid ofcourse. i let it go. then the next morning i found a condom wrapper on the couch. so i went in my moms room where she was and confronted her. shes like 'do you know what that is?' and i started crying because just the thought of my mom...ugh..the worst part is, it was oviously with her boyfriend-(mom and dad split up 2 yrs ago) and he JUST moved in. then we both calmed down and i helped her put her bed sheets on and i glanced over, and in the nightstand drawer, and a rainbow of condoms. so im basicaly scarred. Please, PLEASE dont make fun of me. help or dont help.. thanks everyone

2007-12-25 16:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by ineedhelp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know...
When you're seriously start dating someone when you're like sixteen or something or older, what are the probabilities of having sex?

2007-12-25 16:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ Xite ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how that works, not for me, but just trying to find out information on how that works.

2007-12-25 16:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by baby_girl_clover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where you pleasantly surprised, or terribly dissapointed??

2007-12-25 16:33:00 · 9 answers · asked by Miz Peaches 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I can appreciate an attractive guy, andI sometimes think a man's body looks good. I am also attracted to a guy's physique.

But, I'm not really turned on by d*cks. When a guy comes near me, he doesn't smell as good as a girl, and I easily get turned off. But, seeing a women naked turns me on.

I can't imagine having sex with a guy. It looks too painful and unsatisfying. Guys are so rough!

But, I can imagine having sex with a women, because they are so soft, conforting, and compassionate.

Watching men has sex with women doesn't make me feel as good as watching women have sex with other women. I get off on watching girl-on-girl action!

Is this some twisted kind of bisexuality, or are my feelings trying to tell me something about myself?

Be honest. Not necessarily rude, but honest!

2007-12-25 16:31:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not to long ago... i was helping my mom get the groceries out of the car and i saw a box of condoms! i just went along while my mind was racing, and acted like i didnt see anything. then i was putting them on the counter when my mom's bf walks in and takes the bag with the box in it and takes it into the bed room. he then comes back a few seconds later and i asked him what he was doing. he played stupid ofcourse. i let it go. then the next morning i found a condom wrapper on the couch. so i went in my moms room where she was and confronted her. shes like 'do you know what that is?' and i started crying because just the thought of my mom...ugh..the worst part is, it was oviously with her boyfriend-(mom and dad split up 2 yrs ago) and he JUST moved in. then we both calmed down and i helped her put her bed sheets on and i glanced over, and in the nightstand drawer, and a rainbow of condoms. so im basicaly scarred. Please, PLEASE dont make fun of me. help or dont help.. thanks everyone

2007-12-25 16:30:44 · 10 answers · asked by ineedhelp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Folks, a little background. I am a semi professional hypnotist and at times I get called on to do some hypnosis for parties and just for fun. Anyway...the other day I was giving a Christmas party for some coworkers at my school (about 20 in all) and I was asked to do a little hypnotism for them.I asked for volunteers and I hypnotized about 5 of them and had them do some really cool stuff (freezing hands, feeling hot, forgetting thier name) and one of the folks I hpnotized was this girl who I work with that I have had a crush on for awhile. We are just friends but she went under really deeply and was a great subject. One of the routines I did was I had her (and others on stage) have an orgasm from a handshake. She was one of the best. After the show she was really out of it and didn't remember anything but was upset when the orgasm was mentioned. I feel really badly. The question is, should I feel guilty and what should I do?

2007-12-25 16:30:14 · 4 answers · asked by cosmiccantinacowboy 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I've been hanging out for a couple of months has a pic of his ex on his phone. I did not find it accidentally but he showed it to me. I did not show him that it bothered me but played it off like it was cool. They have a kid together and they were together for 6 years. He says he really likes me and is willing to wait till I'm ready to be in a relationship with him coz he thinks I'm worth it. I have been spending alot of time with this guy not only on regular days but also his bday and xmas and I'm afraid that one day he might realize that he's not over her, but he told me he will never come back to her and his ex knows that I'm talking to him. He respects me alot. Is this a red flag for me that he's not totally over her?

2007-12-25 16:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by elle 1 in Singles & Dating