This guy I've been hanging out for a couple of months has a pic of his ex on his phone. I did not find it accidentally but he showed it to me. I did not show him that it bothered me but played it off like it was cool. They have a kid together and they were together for 6 years. He says he really likes me and is willing to wait till I'm ready to be in a relationship with him coz he thinks I'm worth it. I have been spending alot of time with this guy not only on regular days but also his bday and xmas and I'm afraid that one day he might realize that he's not over her, but he told me he will never come back to her and his ex knows that I'm talking to him. He respects me alot. Is this a red flag for me that he's not totally over her?
2007-12-25 16:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you have any reason to worry...
He needs to maintain a healthy relationship with her, for his child's sake....
So, there is no reason for him to throw all her pictures away.... or cut her out of his life....
No worries
2007-12-25 16:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Most Argumentative 07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has learned from experience that it is important not to rush you and that honesty is the best policy. I think that if there's a chance that he will get back with his baby's momma, he'd have told you by now.
As long as he has a child with this woman, she will always be a part of his life, but that does not mean that he can't love you and still respect her as the mother of his child. It is actually very good to hear that he has the ability to remain civil during difficult situations.
Take your time and get to know him better. He seems like a nice, level-headed guy. I can't think of anything better. You can have a good future with him.
2007-12-26 00:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by happybujok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he talks about hix ex all of the time, then he's not over her.
A picture? well, i don't know if that means anything or not.... maybe it does?
If you are afraid he might realize he's not over her, then he has likely given you signals and messages that he's not.
take care of YOU first.....
2007-12-26 00:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A picture of the mother of his kid. I don't see anything wrong with that.
2007-12-26 00:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be insecure. they havre a child together. if you not happy or think something is up, leave.
2007-12-26 00:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by leslie b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the kid in the pic?
2007-12-26 00:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋