i am tired&sick of him...
im a working mom,we have 2work in order to survive especially we now have a 2years old daughter.
i was assigned in our place so i lived w/ my parents. my daughter is w/ me because my sisters & my mom r the 1 who takes care of her...no one will take care in my husbands place so my daughter is w/ me...
anyway, back to my husband... he gets jealous w/ no reason, whenever i eat lunch or merienda he keeps on asking who is with me during those later&that is everyday...! he will find reason to get mad at me always... and i keep on texting him as long as i am not busy in the office, unfortunately, he get mad whenever i didnt reply, w/out thinking i have no time or i am busy.
every weekend i stay in our house,i do all d household chores&spend time w/ him as much as possible.he is not appreciating my effort although i am very2x tired.I dont hve time 2 rest for that day. all i want is for me to feel that he love&cares 4 me but he kips on nagging!it really upsets me!
2007-12-25 16:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by luna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is working also but he live with her mother... he keeps in controlling me and i am so stress that i find hard to relax.
2007-12-25 17:01:46 · update #1
i think hes guilty because he has many girls before we get married. he even had a textmate tho we are married. i dont know what to do with him, i love him but its like he dont trust me...
2007-12-25 17:17:41 · update #2
Maybe he feels like you don't care about him either because you're not around. I know you HAVE to work and stay away from him in order to make things go more smoothly with your finances, but you might want to ask him what would make him 100% happy with you. He might be picking fights but not realizing that he's doing it. He probably just misses you so much that he doesn't know how to handle it. Ask him if he thinks it would be worth you quitting your job. Sit down and work out the specifics of the finances with him before you pose this option. It just might be that you both realize that this job is killing your relationship, and if its only purpose is to make you money, then you might want to choose a different job so that you can both be happy.
2007-12-25 17:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you wait for a time when you're both in a good mood - when no complaints or worries are going on. At that happy and calm moment tell your husband how he makes you feel. Tell him reasons why and be prepared to give specific examples if he asks. Important:: Do NOT attack him and say "you never help me...." "you always call me...." etc. Never use "never" and "always". Don't focus on the negative times and don't tell him that he's a problem. That will push him away. Just explain what his actions make you feel. Then offer some positive solutions. And end on a happy note, like "I appreciate what you do for me aside from these issues"
2016-05-26 06:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is that overprotective and accuses you of everything then you might need to take a better look at HIS actions.Because usually when do something like that they are guilty.You have done everyting to assure him of your faithfulness and i don't really think there is more you can do if he doesn't trust you, except move on to someone who will trust you.
2007-12-25 16:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think??? Would you move on without fully understand the reasons...Have you really done everything in your power to understand why? How your life would be without him? A lot of questions to answer...You two need to talk with pure hart...
2007-12-25 19:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by TOXOTIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband it might be time he gets a job and works all day instead of texting you.
and if he's smothering you and controlling you, tell him it has to stop.
if it doesn't, and if you can't stand it, then release yourself from the misery. i wouldn't put up with a man like that for 25 minutes.. ugh
2007-12-25 16:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men complain even though they know you're trying your best.
I think yours misses you alot and is jealous he can't be with you all the time.
I would write a nice letter explaining my feelings and how it feels and your needs and see how he feels,I don't think that he even feels it because he just feels he needs you.
2007-12-25 16:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to email me yogi4091@aol
2007-12-25 17:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get a job and shut up.
2007-12-25 16:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sinister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋