I don't even think I'm to the point where I love her yet but I just feel so lonely right now and very depressed. sigh
She wants to remain friends, is that a good idea? ahhh i don't know what to do please help.
2007-12-25 17:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a break from her for a while. No need to torment yourself by seeing her all the time.
Nothing wrong with having an ex on your mind for a while. Make your peace with the break.
Then, meet other people and don't rush into anything. Try to have some fun.
2007-12-25 18:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I chose to break up with my ex because he wasnt what was best for me. It hurt like crazy but I prayed and honestly, that helped more than enough. God gave me strength. I was scared to see my ex in fear of taking him back, or making another stupid decision so I avoided him for a while. However, I saw him tonight and I was fine...even when he cried. We talked about God and we read from the bible. I told him, if God helped me with my pain from losing him, he would get the same help...if not more We even went to the movies and had a great time, we didnt even kiss or act like we were ''together'' at all. My strength and will power was amazing...it even surprised me! Although he said he loves me even more when he left, he took a bible and my copy of the 30 life principles. All you have to do is pray about this and trust God. What you need is right at your finger tips. And, don't dismiss this idea until you try it!
Friendship might not work until you are fully content with the situation.
2007-12-26 01:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She been your won't hurt, but at the end of the day it all depends on what you want. You are lonely, she is there. She wants to remain your friends? I don't know what went down, but if she was good why not.
2007-12-26 01:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by zemie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start getting back to your self. I would start working out and eating right. Listen to Pablo Cruise: love will find a way , and run like crazy!
2007-12-26 01:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals a broken heart. Friends is a good idea.
2007-12-26 01:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to Angie, we only have one life, if i were u id go out somewhere and meet some other women b/c there are billions of fish in the sea buddy
2007-12-26 01:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by gwan4603 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, staying friends is good. If you do not want to thought then do not. Make sure you have boundaries though.
2007-12-26 01:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to depressing music and cry my eyes out
2007-12-26 01:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends. Friendship is not wrong
2007-12-26 01:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Antartica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
random sex...
2007-12-26 01:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Rogue Bagel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋