Like can a woman tell just by talking to a virgin that he is a virgin. Or while they are having intercourse or afterwards can a woman tell if he is/was a virgin if so how??
ALso do girls like guys that are more experienced so they know exactly how to do it. I mean I dont think many girls would want some one who has no experience in that area
I am 19 and a virgin btw so probably a little late for me.
2007-12-25 17:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
since I'm one too
I would want the guy to be a virgin too
but thats just me
2007-12-25 17:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by bianca 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl
I have a friend who's 26 and she's still a virgin. She believes in no sex (of any kind) before marriage. She wants a virgin likewise, because she wants sex to be synonymous with the love they share.
I fully respect that perspective, and her dedication.
I know other women who call me up when they've gone 4 weeks without a good lay. And because I'm shallow, weak willed, and good in bed, I often appease them. These women are obviously interested in sexual prowess, and don't want you taking the time to learn the tricks.
On the whole, sex with multiple women is not the experience you should want. If you want to learn to have sex, long term relationships are best, expecially if she knows herself well (two virgins will often take a while to hammer out what goes where).
On the whole, the best advice I can give (and I mean this supremely) is twofold:
Your first time should be with someone you are passionately in love with, and who is really in love with you. You can tramp it up as much as you want after, but if you don't have that, you'll regret it.
Secondly, being good is not about knowing things at the beginning (every girl's a little different anyway), but 3 things:
1.) Be willing to learn. Don't think you know what you're doing or that you're "all that." You can always be better, especially in the beginning, don't worry about not knowing what you're doing, focus on learning how to do it.
2.) Be experimental. Try different angles, motions, rhythms, positions, and tricks (butt smacking, dirty talk, nibbling/licking/biting ears/breasts)... see what works and what doesn't.
3.) Be attentive. She's not always going to say "Yes, do THAT!" (though she might). be aware of the faces, breaths, and noises she makes when she likes what you're doing.
If you can do these things, your first time may not be the greatest, but within a week or so of semi-frequent sex, you'll be doing well in no time.
2007-12-25 17:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Your Weapons Are Useless Against Us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. You will here those that want an experienced man because they know what to do. Then you will here others say a virgin because they don't have a history.
There is no way for a woman to just look at your genitals and say you are a virgin. There are however certain reactions that may lead a woman to believe that a guy is a virgin. It is never 100% but it can be a pretty good predictor.
2007-12-25 17:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jurrassikk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late! Just be honest with the woman. Sometimes we prefer you to be free of any experience because then we can "train" you the way that we want you to perform! Keep in mind that every woman likes different things, so not knowing what some other woman wanted might be a big plus :-)
2007-12-25 17:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your first time with a woman will probably be pretty quick since you ARE a virgin...
i think most women want you to know what you're doing (unless she's a virgin too), but it's a little tacky if the guys been around TOO much.
Make your first time on equal ground, find another virgin girl, date her (be decent to her) and go from there...
2007-12-25 17:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't, boys are clumsy as sex and don't know anything until after a few tries. My friend and her husband were "virgins "on their wedding night and they blushed horribly the following morning at the breakfast. ( We laughed so much at the 2 of them, but it was sweet ) Only we found out it was not his 1st time, he has been with someone in Jr High ( supposedly only 2 time ) But it was brief and they never did "it " again. Who would have known...
2016-05-26 06:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a blessed man. Be what you are , just wait for the right woman. Being pure is great. Save yourself . once you lose it that somemething you can't get back. Wait until marriage with virgin, then you and her share something that will last alife time. Patience is a virtue.
2007-12-26 01:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by middyiv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a woman can't tell a man is a virgin just from having sex with him, but if you fumble around a lot she'll probably figure it out. I wouldn't say that we want a guy with a lot of experince (that just means he had lots of sex with other women), but some helps.
2007-12-25 17:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by kelleylu 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say that its usually pretty easy to tell. most women do want someone with a bit of experience, but that doesnt mean u should lose ur virginity. u should do whatever u think is right. im sure u can find a girl who will appreciate u and who shares ur values.
2007-12-25 17:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends, sometimes its good to have the guy be a virgin (when the girl is also) so they can take it slow and figure everything out together. Also, then the other person doesn't feel inexperienced!
2007-12-25 17:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Erka 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually, but from my experience, if you show enough confidence in yourself, and do a little research beforehand, you won't be fiddling around and indecisive, which is what tips them off in the first place. Without these clues, they'd have to read your mind...
2007-12-25 17:10:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋