She called to tell him she was planning to come pick it up tommorow! i havent even had a chance to get my van yet to accomadate for our growing family. i am so angry i want to scream and am having serious doubts about whether i realy want to give my car to my mother in law......regaurdless of whether i get my van or not! what if i dont get a van for a while how will i get to my doctor appointments to check on our unborn son? am just being selfish or do i have a right to be upset?
2007-12-25 15:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He bought it for me as a gift. both of our names are on it in case something happens to one of us the car cannot be taken from the other. it is still my car.
2007-12-25 15:55:59 · update #1
obeying my husband has nothing to with my car! i care for our kids. clean our house, cook all our meals, wait on him hand and foot, i take the money he earns and pay all the bills and buy all the food we need! then i give him what is left and if i feel i want or need something more i ask him because i respect him. i have more than earned my car and the van he is buying to make room for our 4th baby. mark and i discussed what to do with the car when i get the van and he expressed a desire to keep the car for himself to drive back and forth to work while he rebuilds his truck.....something he has wanted to for a while. i agreed with that because he loves that truck and wants it to look awsome! i obey my husband better than most could or would! false assumptions can get you in trouble!
2007-12-25 16:39:35 · update #2
Talk to your husband calmly. Tell him his mother called, and you need to understand why he's giving the car to his mom. Listen to him. Then tell him you need to have a car to get to doctor's appointments, so you need it until you get another one. Also, frankly, you need to communicate better as a couple. If he doesn't understand this, try counseling, maybe with a minister if you can find one to talk to. Because you really need to be able to talk when the baby comes, and his doing this without consulting you makes it seem like he thinks he's the boss, and he needs to treat the two of you like a team.
2007-12-25 15:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is the worst your husband has done JUMP UP AND DOWN!!!! Be really happy because you obviously don't know the facts of life:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. I don't lie.
2007-12-26 14:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call up your mother in law right now before it goes any further, and tell her that there has been some sort of mistake, that you were not informed that the car was to be given to her, nor do you want that, and that you need it to get back and forth to the doctor and other places. Tell your husband this as well.
If it goes through anyway, go and get another car for yourself, in your name only.
2007-12-26 00:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the car's registration states U 'AND' Ur husband. He can not sign it over 2 her without Ur signature. If the registration states 'OR' then he can legally sign it over 2 her. I'd check it out and if U R an 'AND' don't do it unless U have transportation 2 the doctor. Good Luck and Congratulations on Ur baby.
2007-12-26 00:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does the title read: Mr AND Mrs or does it read Mr OR Mrs?
It does make a difference. If it reads AND, then you do not have to sign it over to her. If it reads OR, then you have no choice, but make sure the title to the van is in YOUR name. Just to interject this. Check on the title of the house also. Same rule applies. If it reads OR, you need to get it changed to read Mr AND Mrs. This is called: Cover your butt. Good luck
2007-12-26 00:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Bill P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear who is the car titled too ??
Who its titled to is the lawful owner with the State also.
Besides if he is giving u a van, Tell him up front
DEAR WE CANT GIVE MOM THE CAR UNTIL I HAVE THE VAN !!!
END OF STORY LP
2007-12-26 01:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Law Professor 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him NO WAY !!!!
And .. I would be SOOOOO mad at him for making this decision without me.
AND .. I would tell him that no one is getting my car now .. and maybe not ever ... and that you need your car.
Tell him that you are giving away his vehicle - if he gives yours away. I know, I know - this is not the way to be ... but! .. what he is doing to you is just not right ... tell him so.
2007-12-26 00:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take his car and he can be in the position you are in. Dont take it back if he already gave it to her, I believe in taking care of your elders, but he should be genorous with his own belongings not yours
2007-12-26 00:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by christin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How can he not include you in major decisions? You should be upset. Since it is yours, you are going to have to sign it over not him.
2007-12-25 23:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is it you car by him letting you use his car and he told you it's yours
or is it your car in that it under your name and registration ?
2007-12-25 23:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋