Which is better?

Question

Is it better to be alone and therefore avoid being eventually disappointed by people or is it better to start yet another relationship with someone (romantic or otherwise) and run the risk of being disappointed for the billionth time?

I can't decide.

Am I the only one who is tired of being hurt by others? Someone asked "who cares if you get hurt" - I do, is that weird?

Answer 1

never be alone.reconsider your expectations of other people. you may be thinking about someone that doesn't exist. all people are flawed to some extent. no on is perfect.hope this helps you

Answer 2

there's a quote.. it goes something like this

"It's better to love then never to love at all'

to be alive is to experience the Ups and Downs of life. if u afraid to love again or anything else for that matter. y bother living?? Life is all about experincing.

Yes you may think "Why would i want to experince dissapointment again?" True no1 wants to feel it. However if u don't start another relationship then yes u avoid disappointment but u also avoid the good things in the relationship.

One can only try and try again and hope for the best if one is not afraid to failed. Therefore one will continue living with the brighter hope of tomorrow.

Answer 3

thats whats life is all about ..ur emotional rollacoster ride.. i just think about the most happest times i have with a guy and the feeling of love. thats how i get back into the swing of things. however i did take a year off from the serious dating scene to get my head in the right place. but i rekon its better to try and love than not to.. who cares if u will eventually get hurt again...

Answer 4

being alone or together is not an issue at all. coz its individual perception either to be together or alone. and if u r always getting hurt, then it also seems that there could be the mistake from you the most. probably ur communication or expectation from ur person. or probably ur attracting the people by ur actions to take an advantage of you. so think before you do any act.

Answer 5

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. How will you ever know when the right one comes along, if you refuse to try again? Just be cautious and don't get attached or in bed with them too easily. That way the ones that are only interested in sleeping with you will lose interest in a couple of dates instead of stringing you along for the piece of as#!!

Remember that guys will tell you anything, including that they want to marry you, in order to get some when they are horny.

Answer 6

Starting a relationship and looking for love is always a risk. You risk heartbreak and total devistation. But if you think about it, that's the whole reason why love is so rare and exquisite when you find it. It's the one thing that's worth the risk.

Answer 7

there are three factors to why you get disappointed. one main factor is your look on the relationship. You've been through many, and your mindset is... i've been through so many relationships its not funny, is this really the one? another is your not learning from your mistakes and the third and final factor is that you haven't met your...match...astrologically. people behave differently when they are born under different signs. they have different behaviors different looks on life, and different personalities. keep trying. try to learn from your past experiences and gain what you have learned to your next relationship and keep a positive outlook. "I'm going to meet Mr. right"

another point to tie in with one of the factors. even though we are all human...at least to my knowledge, different people under different signs communicate differently. and dont forget about maturity.

Answer 8

It's better to focus on you and doing what makes you happy and not relying on a man or anyone else to make you happy. People will disappoint you, that's life.