So there's a guy who I was dating for 3 months and he said that he actually wasn't looking for a girlfriend. It hurt me. I can't forget. After a month I texted him, I still like him and he replied he did too, but he just didn't want a relationship. I said I can't handle that..He asked what he should do then. Nad I replied what would you like? And he said: Don't be bold, I'd like to stay friends but I'd want to take your clothes off all the time, so that wouldn't work...What should I think about him?
2007-12-25 22:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by Luiza D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he only wants you for sex, not a girl friend. Maybe you should move on and find some one else.
2007-12-25 22:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Janada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Listen hon, I know that's easy to say but a little harder in practice! But you can do it. You deserve better, but you want to be with him because you still feel some attraction to him. That's a very powerful feeling, but it's just a feeling, and it WILL fade in time. While you get over him, try to avoid him as much as possible and spend time with good, trustworthy friends. Sooner or later, you'll meet a great guy who'll treat you right, and you'll be so glad you let this one get away!
Good luck.
2007-12-26 07:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Gemma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so this guy likes you, sort of. But doesnt want a relationship? He says he wants to take your clothes of, im pretty sure I can see where this is going...All he wants to do is jump in your pants. Nothing More. Move on and find someone who will treat you right.
2007-12-26 06:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Monica. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he is healthy, honest, and not ready for a commitment. And he is a good man for being all of the above - no wonder you like him. Just be yourself, enjoy him for who he is, and maybe some day you both will be in the right place at the right time. In the meantime, give yourself credit for surrounding yourself with genuinely respectful people, and enjoy finding out who else is out there waiting for you.
2007-12-26 06:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by roadrunner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is being as honest as he can be! He's giving you a hint ot walk away while you can, if you keep pushing him for a realtionship he is simply going to tap your *** a couple of times and you still won't be his GF and then you will be coming back here crying about how he used you!!!
2007-12-26 06:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like the type of guy you'll regret having a relationship with. Sorry.
2007-12-26 06:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by The Law Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a no good man. Move on ! You can find a good man who wants a relationship. This guy sounds no good!
2007-12-26 06:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nessie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He only wants to sleep with you. Guys say things like that to see if you will go along with it. Quit contacting him, and find someone that will feel differently about you!! He does not respect you.
2007-12-26 06:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to be with him better start getting your clothes are re-rigged with velcro. It will definitly cut down of dress repairs.
2007-12-26 06:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by De Deuce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your best off as friends cause
he just will hurt u i reckon
2007-12-26 06:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by [dan] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋