2007-12-25 22:09:33 · 8 answers · asked by meix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you write her a letter. In that way,, you can express what you wanted to tell her safely and consicely without having her yelling at you..And she would also be touched for you've taken time to write her a letter...hope this helps!!
2007-12-25 22:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by seventeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch her in a good mood. I don't know what you're trying to ask her, or if it's a matter of asking her anything. I'm a mom, and I don't have a high temper, but I do get excited and I guess that can be viewed by some as high temper. But even when I am mad about something and any of my girls comes to me and tells me they really have something they need to talk to me about, I drop everything.
On the other side, my mother was very high tempered and major mood swings, I never found a way to approach her. Even to this day I can't, but I've found over time that even though deep inside I want a picture perfect mom, I still love the one I have. :)
Good luck with this one. If you still find you can't approach her, maybe bring your dad, or grandmother, or aunts into it and explain it.
2007-12-26 06:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Keekers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come fully loaded. Make sure you have done everything you're supposed to do. Make sure you approach her in a kind and respectful manner. When you make your approach and initial contact take notice of her mood and reaction, any sign of anger/frustration retreat and engage her again later. If she's in a normal state of mind then procede with a short direct and simple statement/request. If need be offer a compromise or negotiate to try to get what you want. Then respect her answer. If it's something you really want, keep your responsibilities in order and then approach her in the same fashion on another day.
2007-12-26 06:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom has a bad/fast temper, then she's the one that needs a little help here.... no child should be afraid to talk or approach their parent about anything... that's sad. The only thing I can offer is to try to approach her when you know she's in a good mood...and it will depend on what you have to say to her too.... good luck.
2007-12-26 06:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reasoning instead of just asking or yelling about things.
Mom, there is something that I would like to discuss with you, but you need to let me know that we can sit and discuss this instead of arguing and yelling before I begin.
2007-12-26 06:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice and clear tone
2007-12-26 06:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by asuoonline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one!!
2007-12-26 06:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crouching Tiger - wtf are you asking?
2007-12-26 06:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋