may recent bf is married and my parents did not know about that and im trying to keep it between me and my bf and now my bf leave to work abroad.He's ok with my parent and my mom are arranging our wedding.what should i do my bf always telling me that it is ok because he is separated(but not yet annulled)and his wedding is just civil and we are going to have church wedding...
im confused..I love him and i don't want to lose him.....
2007-12-25 21:24:13 · 15 answers · asked by silence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Leave him , I am sure..you will find a better one...
2007-12-25 21:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Aparytai 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Till he is not divorced officially you must not deal even with the idea of the wedding. Till that day he is in marriage, and telling you anything about marriage he is justa marriage swindle. And tell your mother that he is married as soon as possible, because each day you keep her in deception the scandal which certainly comes just grows and grows. Now he is going to abroad and there he may offer an other marriage also. So be careful in every respects.
2007-12-25 21:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, what if your bf doesn't end his other marriage before your parents plan your wedding? If you marry the bf when he already has a wife, you will be breaking the law.You won't lose him by waiting if he really loves you.Wait till you know his first marriage is over!
2007-12-25 22:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you have him. He is already married. To some
one else. It's a secret. And he is leaving the country. Your con-
fused. I would see the divorce papers before this goes much farther. Slow down a little and talk to a friend, about whats going on. Good Luck to you.
2007-12-25 21:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bob Dylan ♪ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...U'll be a whore if u sleep with a married man....Just let him go....if its hard for u then just wait till he get divorce. But as for me.....if its a true love, than a gal or guy will think that his/her love should always be happy with their married life....so hoping n waitin for his divorce will wont be a gentleman's thinking....U'll definitely get a better guy....maybe God has better plans for u....just hold on to this saying...."God delays, but won't denies" and also "human plans but God decides"....Maybe God didnt mean him for u.....Just wait patiently. Dont forget that the Faith is written by U, The way is given by God....I'm tellin u all this sayings bcz it always works wit me....Hope this help to ease n enlighten u.....Best of luck.
2007-12-25 22:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Needy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is: how long has your boyfriend been separated from his wife? Does your boyfriend's wife know that you are about to marry her husband? In order to avoid future chaos, you need to get the honest answers to those questions first before you even think about telling your parents that he's married or getting married to him!
2007-12-25 21:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by AK17 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are seeing a married man.
if i were you i would tell him i will see him when he has the anullment and not sooner.where is he from?I know Mexicans think that a civil marriage does not matter as much as a church marriage.the woman he marries by church gets any property and rights when he will pass away even if it is the first wife.it is strange.
why do you think you will lose him?
2007-12-25 21:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Alwaysright 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him dear. If you love him, tell him how you feel ... if he loves you, he will sacrify anything for you. But if he can't , I don't think it's a wise choice to marry him. Marriage is a big step in life ... he has proven that he has failed before in his marriage ... so you got to be extra careful ! Nothing in this world is permanent. If you really love him, tell him how you feel and see what he will do ....
2007-12-26 02:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please.
You need to establish some boundaries right now. He needs to be DIVORCED or ANNULLED before you get married or he's breaking the law.
If he's not willing to do this, how are you gonna trust him to be your partner for life?
2007-12-25 21:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by sean24seven 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why the hell do you want to destroy your life.....
if your bf loved you so much then why did he marry the other girl.
maybe you are having an affair ...
then he should divorce his wife first then marry you...]
because if not the wife can launch a case on you
2007-12-25 21:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by yash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you bf is married and now your marrying him.. is that what your saying?
*if you go into a situation it being dirty, you will live in bullshit. and the outcome will be very hurtful*
2007-12-25 21:29:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋