Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

if a man cheats on his girlfren/wife 9 times out of 10 the woman would forgive him & try 2 work it out, but if a woman cheats on a man then its asta la vista *****.... why is this? it seems like 1 rule apply for the mens & another apply 4 the woman.... why is this?

2007-12-25 07:55:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this stupid guy keeps IMing me and I absolutley HATE HIM! I told him multiple times that i hate him and i even made a new email address to get away from him. I am in 8th grade and he is in 10th, he calls me sweetie and gorgeous and hes a total dumb***, i told him i was a lesbian, even though im not and he says "i like you too much to leave you alone" thinking about him makes me wanna shoot myself. I made a new email address and he found it out and kept Iming me, i told him i made it to get away from him and he STILL DOSENT UNDERSTAND I HATE HIM! i told him to get a life and stop wasting mine and build a bridge and get over it, and he doesnt understand I HATE HIM!!!!!
what should i do that will really get to him and make him VERY SORRY for pissing me off??? i need sometihng HARSH!

2007-12-25 07:51:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ginger or Mary Ann?

The question of which one men prefer, and to a lesser extent, who women view themselves to be more like. .
,The wholesome, low-maintenance Mary Ann or the glamorous but demanding Ginger?

2007-12-25 07:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-25 07:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just curious


i think i am.
& i know thats all that matters but im just wondering what you think :]






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2007-12-25 07:46:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 07:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by vanillaspice 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 07:41:31 · 1 answers · asked by izzi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 14 years old and last night i went to a christmas party and got VERY drunk ! i met a really cute guy and we spent the whole evening together and got with each other - dancing, talking , eating, drinking ect... then we went into the bathroom locked ourselves in a room and he started stripping me till we were both naked ... then we started grinding together laying ontop of each other and then having sex ! i was soo drunk and stupid that i didnt even realise we werent using a condom ! im only 14 and thats the first time ive really had proper sex. i woke up this morning feeling really sick .. i think its mourning sickness even though i havent had a preganncy test yet ! what do i do .. HELLPPP !! how do u tell my parents .. and i wouldnt want my child not to have a father how do u find this guy again and tell him im pregnant !!! PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE ... what kind of birth should i have .. how should i bring my baby up !! ???????

2007-12-25 07:41:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think she enjoyed her marriage life?

2007-12-25 07:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do??
i love her to death,
i'm 13, she's 5,
but its kind of awkward.
i am her favorite uncle.
HELP

2007-12-25 07:36:04 · 13 answers · asked by T.M. 6 in Family

2007-12-25 07:28:27 · 18 answers · asked by alliesha12 1 in Singles & Dating

...get married? I realize it depends on when each person is ready but what would you say is too early? I ask because I have 3 friends that all recently just got engaged. They are all right out of high school and I know for a fact that two of them were only dating the guys they plan to marry for 4-6 months (max.). I personally feel they are making big mistakes taking such a big step so soon in a relationship but realize it is their choice to do so. Any way, I am just wondering what do you think is the earliest a couple should consider getting married? :)

2007-12-25 07:27:04 · 15 answers · asked by . 5 in Marriage & Divorce

undies, and stockings?

2007-12-25 07:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for the past few months i've just been really down..i don't really eat anymore, i sleep all the time, i don't enjoy doing the things i used to. i cry all the time over absolutely EVERYTHING...i'm only 18 but i just feel like the entire world is against me. i have a great boyfriend who's always there for me but even he can't do much.

basically this whole year has kinda sucked..i've lost a lot friendships that i thought were genuine but a lot of people are shady and two faced, so whats new. i don't know what i should do. i don't know where to get help or even how to...i don't want to tell my parents because my mom lives in scotland of all places, she can't do much, and my dad is literally useless..he doesn't care about me that much. i feel worthless all the time and i've had thoughts of suicide, which scares me because i'm so against that. if you're going to be rude about this then really, don't answer. anyway, i'm NOT looking for pity, it's just that i don't know what to do..

2007-12-25 07:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

got all the proof right in front of her.

2007-12-25 07:16:19 · 3 answers · asked by Pixy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 07:15:05 · 18 answers · asked by Janet ♥(YFFL) 7 in Friends

She likes a lot different fragrances, but I'd like some ideas as to what's most popular now. Something that isn't overpowering though because I'll have to smell it too :)

2007-12-25 07:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by airborneapb1 2 in Singles & Dating

plzz i already know about the whole breath in and out, or count to 10. mabey another tecnequie would help. thanx

2007-12-25 07:12:38 · 25 answers · asked by annoyed! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-25 07:11:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 3 weeks ago we started going to marriage counseling and is on our 5th session. So far the counseling has been useful, but I do want her to return back home. She said that she is only going to therapy to help me but she still wants a divorce, but she has not file or mention anything about the divorce since our 3rd MC session. The MC thinks that she is calling out divorce as a defense mechanism. We have been together for 8yrs and married for 1 year. No infidelity ,physical abuse, or drug use. Just BAD communication between us.

My wife was the one that wants the divorce because she was "fed up". Even though she thinks that divorce is the best out, she starting to see that going to MC might not be too bad. Again nothing is guaranteed, it seems like she is giving a shot to work on our marriage. How do I get her to come back home? Or should I just give up?

8 yrs is a long time to throw away just because we have bad communications.

2007-12-25 07:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by DMa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering what everybodies opinions is on this topic.

2007-12-25 07:05:58 · 8 answers · asked by joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend and I sit next to him in one of our classes…..and he always does these things, which I think are him flirting, but I’m not sure……like once he was “clearing” his throat and I thought he was trying to point something out, and so he made fun of me for that, so every time I come and sit by him he clears his throat….and when I tell him to stop making fun of me(in a playful way), he’s always like “I’m not making fun of you, I was just ________(it varies)” and he gets very defensive when saying it too….and he always asks me what I’m going to do over the weekend/break…..and when we were doing this thing in class where we had to choose between 2 packets, and he chose 1(the last one) and I wanted it and he could tell I guess, so he was like “we can work together on it if you want, but only do it if you want to, I don’t want to push you into anything”…..so ya, what do you think??? Does he want to be friends or more than that???

2007-12-25 07:04:34 · 9 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

i had small friendly chats with a boy i've barely known for 2 weeks and i started to fancy him, now he's asked me out and i said yes, he's bought me expensive gifts and is like stupidly in love with me, i do like him but he likes me too much when we don't even know eachother that well, he bought me a pink sapphire ring and i don't like pink! what do i do?

2007-12-25 07:03:35 · 9 answers · asked by groovybug 2 in Singles & Dating

and i like him.
and he was talking to my guyfriend about me and the guy i like said he has "sexual desires" about me and talks about me a lot to my guyfriend but my guyfriend wont tell me what he said or anything except that he probably likes me. except he doesnt know if he should ask me out cuz he thinks im prude but im REALLY NOT. ive done a lot of stuff...i mean not a lot but anyways. so anyways i really like him how do i prove im not prude?
thanks!
<3

2007-12-25 07:00:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is NOT over a guy, no men were involved.My best friend is Bipolar, and she is on meds.I don't believe that can be used as an excuse for her behaviour, but then again I don't live with the disorder.We have been Bff's for years and it's mostly been because of my forgiving and understanding nature.But I feel the betrayal has gone too far this time,and her subconcious attempts to destroy herself and everything she loves is finally comming true. I don't want to say what she did,but I knew she would do it.I wasn't suprised at all when she betrayed me.I expected it.And I don't know if thats what I want in a frienship, to expect betrayal.But after realizing that she finally crossed the line she started desperatly trying to appoligize in her own way.She wrote me a long apology letter,blaming everything on herself and admiting that she did betrayed me on purpose to prove that she was **** and to show others that she is ****,and that she doesn't deserve my forgivness but I deserve the truth.

2007-12-25 07:00:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can they enforce it legally? just wondering

2007-12-25 06:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just turned 21, years old/ ive been married to my husband for a year now as of dec 23 2007, we are having a child in just a couple of weeks, however im always afraid my husband is going to hurt me, or ceat on me, even though he hasnt , but i just have this anxiety all the time tht i have to watch him and make sure where he is at all the time, and with who, it drives me insane, especially cause ive done pagents, and am considered so pretty, and im considered to be out of his league, and he is not very good looking but he has a peronality tht attracts women to him, and i get very jealous and envious, and im always telling him he is hurting me, i want him to chase after me, i want him to worry about what im doing like i do of him what should i do to make him chase after me? please help me, i really need advise?

2007-12-25 06:55:02 · 17 answers · asked by sarasham1220 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother is out of control; he's tearing my family apart. he's 14...he only has one friend who he's known for about 5 or 6 years. the only time they hang out is when they go to his friend's dad's house every other weekend & i'm surprised his friend still puts up with him, my brother is really mean to him and tries to boss him around all the time & yells at him. he's never had a girlfriend, & all he does is sit around all day on xbox live talking to a bunch of random people he's never even met. he cannot go more than 30 seconds without screaming or cussing. already today, on christmas, he called me a G D f***ing b****. everything was fine until he got home today. as soon as he got here, he opened his presents & stared pitching a fit b/c it wasnt what he wanted. he never said thank you or anything. he claims to be atheist yet still expects to get presents for christmas & that alone bothers me... he didnt used to be like this, what can i do to turn things around?

2007-12-25 06:54:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-25 06:50:18 · 2 answers · asked by Lauren b 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's the story.. My boy and I have been together for a year and in two days we are flying to hawaii for my birthday together. About a month ago, we got back together after being broken up for 2 weeks, and we got in a fight we were yelling at one another and the next thing I know he comes over and kicks the chair I am sitting in over, next he grabs me and pulls me inside and everytime I tried to leave he would grab my arms, the next day my elbow was scrabbed and I had bruises up and down both my arms, he started crying the next day when I showed him and promised it would never happen again, and I don't know if I can trust him???? Can a guy really change his temper or will the nice guy only last for awhile and things will continue to happen

2007-12-25 06:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by brittany k 1 in Singles & Dating