this is NOT over a guy, no men were involved.My best friend is Bipolar, and she is on meds.I don't believe that can be used as an excuse for her behaviour, but then again I don't live with the disorder.We have been Bff's for years and it's mostly been because of my forgiving and understanding nature.But I feel the betrayal has gone too far this time,and her subconcious attempts to destroy herself and everything she loves is finally comming true. I don't want to say what she did,but I knew she would do it.I wasn't suprised at all when she betrayed me.I expected it.And I don't know if thats what I want in a frienship, to expect betrayal.But after realizing that she finally crossed the line she started desperatly trying to appoligize in her own way.She wrote me a long apology letter,blaming everything on herself and admiting that she did betrayed me on purpose to prove that she was **** and to show others that she is ****,and that she doesn't deserve my forgivness but I deserve the truth.
2007-12-25
07:00:10
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she has hurt me so much in the past, humilated me infront of people.Ruined whole days and weekends. but this was the worst betrayal,this is what finally crossed the line in my capacity to be understanding and forgive. But then I remember the good times, how this girl is my BFF,of how I can talk to her about anything, the little adventures we had together,the guys that came and went, the crying from laughter, the fun,but it's always shadowed with this hateful side of her.I don't know if all bi-polar people are like this,but it hurts to expect and get betrayal from a BF.I can't forgive what she did, it was so utturly hurtful,but I can't forget the good times either.I don't know what I should do,all I know is I feel a bridge has been crossed,but I'm not sure I want to burn it.Also that she is desperate for my forgivness.I know that if I don't forgive her she will go into a deep manic depression and be suicidal.but the betrayal was too deep 4 a simple, your forgiven.what should i do?
2007-12-25
07:02:32 ·
update #1
P.S-I'm not religious so please no"pray on it" or "ask god" answers please.
2007-12-25
07:03:08 ·
update #2