i had sex with a stranger !?

Question

im 14 years old and last night i went to a christmas party and got VERY drunk ! i met a really cute guy and we spent the whole evening together and got with each other - dancing, talking , eating, drinking ect... then we went into the bathroom locked ourselves in a room and he started stripping me till we were both naked ... then we started grinding together laying ontop of each other and then having sex ! i was soo drunk and stupid that i didnt even realise we werent using a condom ! im only 14 and thats the first time ive really had proper sex. i woke up this morning feeling really sick .. i think its mourning sickness even though i havent had a preganncy test yet ! what do i do .. HELLPPP !! how do u tell my parents .. and i wouldnt want my child not to have a father how do u find this guy again and tell him im pregnant !!! PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE ... what kind of birth should i have .. how should i bring my baby up !! ???????

i had sex last night at the party and i was expecting my period last night and its tuesday evening and i still havent gotten it .... ive got mourning sickness im throwing up and i feel really sickk ...
AHH I THINK IM PREGNANT WITH A STRANGER !! AND IM ONLY 14 YEARS OLD !

Answer 1

Um.

14 and getting drunk.
Having sex.

You need help.
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Answer 2

If I had to guess what you were experiencing was not morning sickness. The sickness is probably panic. This will surprise you, but most people don't make a baby--meaning the sperm does not meet the egg--WHILE the couple is having sex. The sperm usually finds the egg several days AFTER sex. In other words, you may not be pregnant yet. But you could become pregnant later on today or tomorrow or even if the guy is nowhere near you. Because his sperm is still in you.....if his sperm finds your egg before you take my advice, you will become pregnant.

Now for the GOOD news. If you go to the emergency room, they can give you a pill that will *greatly* reduce your chances of becming pregnant. But the sooner you take it, the better. You *must* take it within three days of having sex. But like I said, if you wait 3 days, there is a larger chance of it not working. Take this pill as soon as possible. It only costs about $60.

But don't worry, this pill is *not* abortion. With abortion, the zygote (the sperm and the egg together, which becomes a person) is destroyed. But all this pill does is stop the sperm from finding the egg. So there is no baby to destroy because no baby is made.

Okay, now hop off the computer and tell your parents. Just say, "I had sex last night. I need the morning-after-pill *now*." There's no way to make the conversation easy, but you've gotta act soon.

P.S.--Did you know that you can only become pregnant on certain days of the month? If you weren't ovulating (or a week before ovulating), you can't get pregnant. But take the pill anyway.....

Answer 3

First of all DON'T PANIC. Women usually don't get morning sickness the day after ( don't forget you had a lot to drink last night). Now sit down and look at the situation realistically. You made a mistake, you are going to pay (fact of life, not a judgement). An EPT probably won't give a good result for at least two weeks. Positive is positive, negative could just be to early. If it comes out positive. Tell your parents. The will panic, but will come down (I hope). Your father can do a better job of handling the legal situation better than you can. Trust him. It will be a long shot to get any involvement from the father of the baby. Accept that, and if it turns out better good for you. If you are pregnant, you have sometime to consider the options. Take parenting classes and birthing classes. Sort out the pros and cons of 1)abortion (your religion and upbringing may have already eliminated that.) 2) Adoption (at 14 I have to go with this one. 3) keeping the baby. You and your parents will have to be calm in sorting out the financial possibilities. Emotions are obviously allowed, but let them be realistic.

If you decide to keep the baby, you'll have 9 months to make decisions on type of delivery, baby furniture and all that.

Above all DON'T PANIC this will lead to even more irrational decisions.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

First, calm down, then go get a pregnancy test. If it's negative, then you should go get a std test. If you get positive results back from either the pregnancy test, or the std tests, talk to your parents. Yes they might be mad and disappointed, but they love you and will help. Other than yourself, nobody wants a better life for you than your parents. They are there to help guide you through times like this. It might suck to face the music, but a little ways down the road, you will be glad you took your parents guidance and advice, as opposed to a stranger on Yahoo Answers. Also, alcohol can make people do silly things, next time try to pace yourself with the drinking, so that you will be in more control next time and can make sure that you have protection, or that you want to do it at all. Hope everything works out ok for you.

Answer 5

You are probably sick from a hang over! You don't find out that you are pregnant having morning sickness so soon! How can you spend the whole evening and not know anything about this guy? Why were you drinking at age 14??? Tell your parents you were date raped!

Answer 6

I would go to a local councilor and then take a test to see if so and if u r pregnant then raise him the best get a job at 14 i am 14 i can work at a store as a bag boy an will soon with good pay. u should also ask around to get this guys name.

Answer 7

Honey, you're too young you think when a couple don't use protection girl gets pregnant. It is a high possibility but doesn't mean you'll get pregnant FOR SURE when you have unprotected sex. You're too yound to know these things, and you're getting drunk and have sex?

You are a kid. Take a lesson from that event and never do something like that. Never! I'm 22, work in entertainment industry, am definetely not a conservative and even I don't get drunk and have sex with strangers.

Answer 8

First, you may or may not be pregnant. You can't tell until you missed your period. Second, go to a women's clinic and get checked out. STDs should be your biggest worry for now. And third, if you didn't know that unprotected sex can lead to STDs or that you MAYBE pregnant, you shouldn't be having underage sex.

And lastly, your morning sickness could be from all the underage drinking, yes?

Answer 9

u shouldnt of been at a chrimbo party with alcohol anyway if ur 14, and that wasnt morning sickness, it was the 1st stages of a hangover....ur biggest fear right now should be that u may have an std, but if u miss a period, starting worrying about an unwanted pregnancy as well.

Answer 10

What a fun story! Go back to playing your video games or reading Teen People. There is no adult at a party that is going to serve liquor to a 14 year old. And then let her get so drunk she has sex in a bathroom with a stranger. Nice try. Like I said, go play your video games and stay out of Yahoo Answers.

Answer 11

You won't be having morning sickness if you're sick the morning after you had sex. You have a hangover is all since you drank so much. But don't ever have unprotected sex like that again!