Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

I Have a friend that I've known since my teens. She has two kids.Her parents are well off. She received $3000 for Christmas and a laptop, won $1000 at a casino, had her car note paid for 6 months by friends, gets taken out to dinner,spends $200 on a cellphone, gets money to pay for her rent, has a doctor boyfriend who splurges on her,gets sufficient child support, and only has to work about 2 days per week. Its not fair. She has always been the lucky one when it comes down to finances. She has never once asked me if I need anything?She doesn't have to, but it would be nice. I have a apartment that I must give up because I can't afford the rent, I don't have a car,no cable,internet,used junky furniture, clothes and shoes have holes in them,not alot of food,television screen is now green.She gets everything and doesn' have to work for it. A perfect life. I will be going to college sometime in the future, but I am worried about the loans that will be acquired.Why do the rich get richer?

2007-12-25 06:47:33 · 3 answers · asked by emerald 3 in Friends

and announced that she was your fiance's lawful wife?
And she was, indeed, his wife, and proved it to you with the papers, and he confessed that it was so? And all your guests stared and listened, and you had paid for a grand reception as well?

2007-12-25 06:46:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My GF is a virgin, weve fooled around before and I have fingered her. We decided to go all the way and it just wont happen. I can barely get my middle finger inside her to my second knuckle. To get that far we need to have heated foreplay for close to an half hour to get that far. When we tried going all the way it was too tight for me to come even close to getting inside her. Any ideas on what to do to help? I dont think I could get ger turned on any more and she truely wants it. We tried ever position imaginable and in the shower, we tried lube also with no success. Any ideas?

2007-12-25 06:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by summitlt 1 in Singles & Dating

New York Penpal?
Hi I am after a penpal from New York as we are studying the city at school. I really do not want to meet anyone over the internet as I have heard of some bad incidents from other people. But I was wondering if anyone alse could suggest any ideas of how to get in contact with someone?? I am a 14 year old girl and I live in New Zealand. Maybe through a school or something i'm not sure any ideas???Does anyone living in New York know a good school I could ask???And would the school think it was weird if some random from the other side of the world just emailed them and asked for a penpal?

PS : I have already asked my teacher if she could put me on to someone but she said it was not something our school did or something like that.

2007-12-25 06:44:07 · 1 answers · asked by adg 2 in Friends

i had a one nite fling wit my best guy friend and i just found out i'm 7 weeks along. he would be the father. how would i tell him that i'm expecting. he has a 14 year old daughter already. would it be fair of me to tell him that i won't go after him for child support and that he can walk away if he wants to? how would you handle this. also how do i tell my parents? he is way older then me and by like 7 years.

2007-12-25 06:43:13 · 7 answers · asked by princess.weakling 1 in Singles & Dating

When a family gathering happens, everyone talks about how they bought this, we went on this trip or how much $$$$ they spend. I don't make much $$ only enough to pay the bills with nothing left over to do any fun. They ask me what I have done and my reply is i work all the time just to pay the bills. They end up snubbing me off, I end up leaving and going home in tears. I feel i can't show up unless i have a million dollar check to throw on the table to join the conversation.

2007-12-25 06:42:12 · 25 answers · asked by shandy1212 2 in Family

All the married adults talk to us kids saying "Don't get married!" etc. Several have told me that. So is marriage really that bad?

2007-12-25 06:40:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im 17 and i have a boyfriend weve been together almost 2 years and hes going to be 25 years old i used to love him sooo much like id do almost anything and now is like when i kiss him it dont feel the same or when i hug him and i dont even feel like seeing him i always have an excuse for not seeing him a certain day..hes has cheated on me twice and i couldnt forget it and always reminded him about it and later on i cheated on him and flirting with guys and kissing he just dont know about it the other thing is i dont know if hes the one for me is like i want to have other relationships to determine my soulmate is that wrong? and i also feel so bad for him because i know he loves me despite the age diffrence ive seen him mature greatly but is just that i dont want to settle down..and sometimes i feel i wont ever find a guy thats like him every other guy i will be with will be worse then him so i rather stay with him then to go to bad other relationships and regret what to do here!!

2007-12-25 06:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by claudia g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what age would be a good age to get married by?

2007-12-25 06:37:43 · 29 answers · asked by . 5 in Singles & Dating

their is a girl in my class..who was disscussing about me with her friend..about me..i noticed her doing that...and on the same day during the recess ..she approached me personally to say that...i am looking so cute today..and she even asked my small brother about me..that where i am ..and why i didnt atteneded the party...( is she interested in me)

2007-12-25 06:35:43 · 10 answers · asked by andy 1 in Singles & Dating

how could a guy remain a virgin that long without a strong urge to have sex? If a guy of that age is a virgin and not too interested in sex would you say he's gay? What are the odds that a 30 year old guy who is a virgin is gay?

2007-12-25 06:33:52 · 7 answers · asked by . 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband had an affair with a bit more experienced person than me. He admitted to it and ended the affair. It has only been a week but everytime I try to get intimate with him he pulls away saying he feels bad and can't have sex with me until he deals with what happened. Is it because he enjoyed her more? Am I too boring? I love sex with him and want to reconnect with him on that level how can I do it?

2007-12-25 06:32:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 6 years now. We have a son and daughter together. But lately I have been feeling so distant from him. Like we have no connection. He is deployed right now, but I still feel like I don't love him anymore. I talk to him everyday so I feel like I dont' miss him at all. Everytime I talk to him on messenger or on the phone I just feel weird. I don't know why or what, I just feel horrible. He has lied to me in the past about a few stuff, nothing big like cheating, but on other topics. I would never dream of leaving my husband while he is fighting for our country, but I am so tired of fighting and dealing with the same stuff. We fight weekly and then we are in a good mood with one another for a couple of days before we are fighting again. Then we fight about the same stuff over and over again. I'm just tired of fighting and don't know if I love him anymore. How do you know if you love your spouse? How do you know when it is time to leave them?

2007-12-25 06:28:17 · 29 answers · asked by sleepyincarolina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 06:18:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, here's the situation. my X bf (which is the father of my 11month old baby)got mad at me after he knew that he was not the first guy i had sex with. actually, he's not even my first bf! and he knows it. he wanted me to be honest so i told him that he was the 8 person i had slept with... is it really a big deal??? i mean, i was thinking that if i only knew that he'll came into my life and be the father of my kid, i shouldnt have slept with other guys...

just want to know what's your opinion on this...

2007-12-25 06:10:40 · 29 answers · asked by gOtHiC pRiNcEsS 2 in Singles & Dating

your style or comfortable, what does that say about him?
To funny or too wierd??
I mean he even put on the silky bikini undies that go with it so I was dieing laughing

2007-12-25 06:08:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Not the country of your choice, but any safe country, rememebr you return home with the rest of the money you have left.

2007-12-25 06:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Hey 4 in Friends

I have been divorced a few years now, when I would go out with someone my family would make such a big deal out of it and call and tell everyone in the area. If there is a family get together the first thing they always ask is when are you going to get married. I have since not attended any family get togethers as this is the only thing they gossip about. Frankly it is none of there business what i do in my life.

2007-12-25 06:04:02 · 9 answers · asked by shandy1212 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everytime i metion an event or to meet my family, he wont go. He always makes up excuses. Iam getting really upset because my family is very important to me. My brother and father have know started a bet if hes going to come or not?? What do i do?

2007-12-25 06:02:42 · 15 answers · asked by Jackie H 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes,it seems that black people tend to put each other down,more than people of the opposite races.Not all black people,but some.If you are an articulate individual,have a college degree,or perhaps,look a little bit different,you're suddenly not black enough or acting white.Why is that some black people tend to accept the darker skinned black folks,and sometimes alienate the lighter skinned?

I realize black folks have been treated wrongfully for so many years by other races,but sometimes,we do it to our own.Nobody has ever been able to explain to me why is it that just because you are a certain color,you have to act,or talk a certain way.Why can't you just be you?What is "Being Black",or "Acting White"?

2007-12-25 06:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will be going to NY in about 2 weeks and I want our childeren to be able to remember it. Besides taking pictures what are ways to make the experiance more memorable for them. It will be tough to do cause they are 3 and 2 years old?

2007-12-25 05:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by trey6z 3 in Family

2007-12-25 05:54:34 · 23 answers · asked by yawn 1 in Weddings

There's this girl who looks like Aishwarya Rai (Indian model/actress), has an innocent way to talking, has an unbelievable sex appeal, and God I'm hopelessly attracted to her. She asked me for career advice when we were both in grad school, and flirted with me but told me in passing that she has a BF in another city. She asked me to dinner and drinks - we went out, we were both flirty throughout, but she turned kinda cold all of a sudden. Then, after a week or so, I tried to get her attention, asked her for dinner, she didn't even respond. We were taking the same class, but she wouldn't even look in my direction. I finally gave in and said hi, we went to a school event together, she flirted with me, and asked me to dance. We danced sensually, rubbed up against the dance flr, but she was again aloof the next day. I thought she was playing me, so ignored her for 2 months of summer. She contacted me finally, we went out for coffee, but she again gave mixed signals. I feel obsessed. Help!

2007-12-25 05:51:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I separated due to his infidelity along with alcohol and anger issues. Divorce was my own decision, but i met this guy during the process. We really hit it off and have mostly talked and went on one date. The guy wanted to wait until I was divorced to see if it would lead anywhere. I've filed already and am in the process of moving. Should I see where this can lead? I'm afraid he wont wait and i dont want to get hurt again.

2007-12-25 05:51:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you can see the impression from a women's nipples through her shirt what is your thought??
My sister and I had a discussion on this, she said men think it is classy, I said it gives men the impression the women is a slut.?
Please be honest.?

2007-12-25 05:50:02 · 11 answers · asked by liitlebitt_03 2 in Singles & Dating

Do bisexual girls like girls more than men, or do they like men more than girls? I'm just curious to know. If they do like girls more than guys, why so? Or if they like guys more than girls, why so?

2007-12-25 05:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if she broke up with you for another guy, then you later found out(from some else) that she cheated on you while you two were together!! would you ever consider taking her back??? Even if she begged and cried??
Lets say this girl may get around, not judging her i think she has some self esteem problems

She goes for these bad guys who do EVERYTHING they want with her then, drop her after a week or so!!! then she wants to run back to this nice guy who treated her VERY well. Is he just a fall back for her??? Will she cheat again??

2007-12-25 05:46:54 · 29 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

That is a girl you really liked.

2007-12-25 05:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

From past questions i've decided to tell the person ive liked FOR OVER A YEAR i like her. She may have a clue i like her Shes like the "Pretty girl" of the school but i like her, alot. Any tips to tell her in a way?

2007-12-25 05:41:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 05:40:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating