My GF is a virgin, weve fooled around before and I have fingered her. We decided to go all the way and it just wont happen. I can barely get my middle finger inside her to my second knuckle. To get that far we need to have heated foreplay for close to an half hour to get that far. When we tried going all the way it was too tight for me to come even close to getting inside her. Any ideas on what to do to help? I dont think I could get ger turned on any more and she truely wants it. We tried ever position imaginable and in the shower, we tried lube also with no success. Any ideas?
2007-12-25 06:45:07 · 6 answers · asked by summitlt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank for the answers, but I cant even begin to get inside her with my penis. I can with a finger but even that is pretty tight on my finger. theres no way I could get two in and my penis is bigger than that. Im not anything above average I dont thing. She has masterbated before but never boyond two of her fingers and she is a small girl.
2007-12-25 07:01:38 · update #1
Lay her on her back, after a lot of fore play when she's all wet. Put a lot of lube on your penis and slowly start pushing in. When it starts to hurt her stop, slide back a little and slide in some more. It'll take you about a half hour just to work it in and yeah she'll be uncomfortable. After you get it all the way in stop for a little bit and play with her clit and kiss her. She'll start to relax a little bit and that's when you start to slowly thrust and build up to a better speed. The speed will be dictated with her comfort and pleasure. She'll be sore for awhile, but ensure her that it'll get better with time.
2007-12-25 06:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. We never did make it until someone else busted her hymen. Have her go to the doctor and have him cut it. Easiest, less painful way to go. And then use lube and let her be on top and control the action. AND you both better be 17+ or you can go to jail, sometimes for several years.
2007-12-25 14:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem. It may be something that only a Dr can remedy. I can't think of the name of the disorder and I know of only one other woman that had it.
2007-12-25 14:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by Gary B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never heard of this in my years....usually you need a few clothes pins or stitches in that baby...Listen it takes time build up to more fingers..dildo...if you bust her all at once its going to hurt.......try some of that super sex lube or axle grease(kidding) sex lube is good...if you need my help let me know:)
2007-12-25 15:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by 2A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can get dilators from the GYN
2007-12-27 02:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
roll her over!!
2007-12-25 14:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋