2007-12-25 05:54:34 · 23 answers · asked by yawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Say "will you marry me?"
2007-12-25 05:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Terri!
Since he's a bit slow, go ahead and ask him, don't be afraid. Depending on your age...You don't want to wait...you could wait forever, that would suck. There goes your life! You shouldn't pressure him or nag...just ask him in the most honest and best way you can. I can't tell you exactly how...this game called life has all kinds of obstacules only YOU can try and figure out. Good luck!
2007-12-25 18:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by HotpinkKitties 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Ask him how he feels about the relationship, if he feels that what you two have is enough for now. Ask him if he ever thinks of having more with you. Be specific, men can be obvious sometimes. But before you ask him to marry you, think about if he is the kind of man that is secure enough to comfortably say..."She asked me, and i said yes"
2007-12-25 14:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Third_Eye_Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your bf have been together for long enough to think about marriage... If I were you, I would come out straight and ask him Honey, you think when is the best time for us to get married ...and see what he answers you ... If he acts like he doesnt care about it, it means that he is not really serious with you .
2007-12-25 13:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him because he may then feel pressured. Although bringing the subject up isn't againest the rules. Simply ask him what he wants to do with his life and where he pictures your relationship going. If the answer is what you want it to be then tell him that you see your self with him as well. He will more than likey ask you soon after.
2007-12-25 13:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-26 13:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by lovehealer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally pretty much popped the question to my boyfriend, I began bringing it up and told him that we've been together for almost 3 yrs...I don't want to spend the rest of my life being his gf, and if he felt the same then let's start talking about marriage and we began looking at rings and now we're planning our wedding so I suggest you start bringing it up with him and tell him that you can't spend your life being his gf, if you have to, than leave cuz its a waste of time...thats what I think
2007-12-25 15:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rameesa M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly we men are our responsibility , ask for it.
Me and my wife before married had more than 4 years together then finally married and that was because there was money.
O at least start giving him hints that you want ton married him
If not just for get it , keep waiting more time.
2007-12-25 15:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by HUGO M & GABY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You open your mouth and ask!!!!
Don't ever ever try to pressure him into marrying you. Do you REALLY want to go through with "did he ask me because I pressured him, or did he ask me because HE WANTS TO???"
Really, either wait, or ask him!
Have you even TALKED marriage? Don't expect a "yes" OR a proposal if you haven't even talked about it before.
If you have, then he may be waiting for the perfect moment.
2007-12-25 17:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take him to a romantic candle light dinner...tell him how wonderful ur life has been with him so far and explain how good it ll be if you both are together forever..extend a cute ring and then yeah, "will you marry me?"
sounds a bit too dramatic though..
goodluck!
2007-12-25 14:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should he marry you?
he has everything he wants with no ties.
Maybe have a nice dinner, flowers, candles andTell him how you feel, you want to know where he is going with the relationship.Give him a deadline, then move out or decide to stay without thinking of your future.
2007-12-25 23:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋