There's this girl who looks like Aishwarya Rai (Indian model/actress), has an innocent way to talking, has an unbelievable sex appeal, and God I'm hopelessly attracted to her. She asked me for career advice when we were both in grad school, and flirted with me but told me in passing that she has a BF in another city. She asked me to dinner and drinks - we went out, we were both flirty throughout, but she turned kinda cold all of a sudden. Then, after a week or so, I tried to get her attention, asked her for dinner, she didn't even respond. We were taking the same class, but she wouldn't even look in my direction. I finally gave in and said hi, we went to a school event together, she flirted with me, and asked me to dance. We danced sensually, rubbed up against the dance flr, but she was again aloof the next day. I thought she was playing me, so ignored her for 2 months of summer. She contacted me finally, we went out for coffee, but she again gave mixed signals. I feel obsessed. Help!
2007-12-25 05:51:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me put it to you plainly, she wants nothng more than a little flirting w/ you. she becomes aloof when she feels that you're feelings are beginning to get involved so that you wont think that there can be more than what she's given you (flirting). possibly, something you're doing is comming on a little too strong & it scares her away. i personally get a little scared off when a guy shows way to much interest in me right away. really give her space.my honest opinion is that she's not romantically interested in you yet. if she were, nothing would stop her from taking it all the way w/ you. something always makes her stop, & that is the lack of interest there. stop chasing her. i personally fell for a guy who dismissed me, after i initially rejected his advances. the biggest turn on & it made me take a 2nd look @ him & appreciate him.i knew he still liked me, but he his pride & self respect wouldnt allow it. it was too late b/c he brushed me off & is now getting married to someone he met. the moral of the story: stop the chase. completely. you may have to brush her off or ignore her even when she comes around. she will gain more respect & appreciation b/c it will show that you are a man w/ self worth who isnt sucker for a pretty face.
2007-12-25 06:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as the guys aren't doing stuff with the girls, like making out with them, why be jealous? But, it seems you like to like girls. Maybe, if you got a girlfriend, you wouldn't get jealous.Then you can find time to focus and your girlfriend.
2016-04-11 00:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple hundred songs out there about love - country music songs probably have better tips than we do. Try a little tenderness. All you need is love. Meet in the middle.
Think about her as much as you want. If she has qualities you like and admire, emulate them. Respect her, respect her fidelity to her BF - her fidelity to him means she is someone who keeps promises. It's okay to love someone without being loved in return. It happens. Be her friend if you can, which means forgiving her mistakes and her love for another. Treat her like a normal human being and be interested in her for her and not as a potential GF. See what happens when you back off and treat her like a person. She may feel ready to treat you like a human being in return.
2007-12-25 06:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by enn 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest. Tell her you have feelings with her and you can't stand that she's hot one minute and cold the next. Tell her you are not a toy and you want to get serious with her. Even tell her to save the baby games for her boyfriend and if she wants a real man that he is right infront of her. Make her choose and what to see what she decides.
2007-12-25 05:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by "Foolishness" 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if she has a boyfriend, what CAN you do? Just hang tight and be her friend. Yeah, that probably sucks for you. If you like her that much though . . . give her time. If she was that into her boyfriend she wouldn't be flirting with you. But that doesn't mean she's ready to dump him!!! She might get mad if you force her into choosing now.
2007-12-25 05:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kevy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may talk like she is all-so-innocent, but she's certainly not!! No woman is(or girl, the age doesn't matter, it's true for even 3 year-old girls!) !!! Well, there is this saying, do not forget this, it's EXTREMELY true!!! Here goes:
Every woman is a whore, some know how to hide it, some don't.
2007-12-25 06:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
**** that *****! Looks like Aishwarya or whatever..... that's a piece of unwanted **** in a relationship.
do you want to be with someone who is not even true to you or be with someone who understands you?
2007-12-25 06:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by non conformist 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're into her go up to her and tell her how you feel about her then wait and see how it plays out.
2007-12-25 06:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by H_E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she realizes that she has a boyfriend and its wrong. You should do the same and leave her alone, how would it feel if someone constantly try to get in your girl friends pants?
2007-12-25 05:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Being open is the best choice, just talk to her and tell her how you feel about everything. she seems like she is just playing you though.
2007-12-25 05:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋