This is someone who has been digging me for a while and vice versa. Last month he came over and one thing led to another. We had oral relations then. He lives out of town. So last week he calls me up to tell me he's coming for Xmas and to explain why he has been too busy to respond to my latest emails. And that I shouldn't feel that he's ignoring me. Anyway he called up me last night to invite me to a movie. No physical contact during the movie and afterwards he didn't try to kiss me. He just took my hand and shook it. While still holding my hand I leaned over to kiss his cheek and he sort of leaned away. I was very embarrassed and confused. I know he is an aquarius and they tend to act strangely towards females they like and even act meanly towards them. Example: he called me a whore and a heffer at the consession stand! lol....We use to work together about 5 yrs ago (thats how we met). Back then he would flirt with me a lot and touch me too. Now he's giving me a handshake?
2007-12-25 09:16:43 · 19 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was JOKING when he called me those names, lol. He's really a sweetheart.
2007-12-25 09:33:24 · update #1
Most of a time, he's a gentleman.
2007-12-25 09:40:27 · update #2
Rhonda T-- I've known this guy for five years, if waiting that long to have any form of sex with him is still too soon, I don't know what to say. I disagree.
2007-12-25 09:46:48 · update #3
First of all I'm just gonna say... wow. Was he just kidding around when he called you those names because I know some guys can be total idiots when talking to girls they feel nervous around. I think he still feels some affection towards you because if not he wouldn't have asked you to the movies. The one thing I can't understand is the handshake. That is the stupidest thing for a guy to do gah it makes me mad just thinking about it. If you guys are definitely at the "dating" level or almost there confront him. Ask him what what's up, and why is he treating you that way.
Hope I helped!
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
~abbie
2007-12-25 09:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by XohbabyX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the problem. Define to yourself what your "oral relations" did for your "digging" each other. He called you a whore and a heifer. He previously liked to flirt and touch you...yet now, he's resorting to handshakes. Would having "oral relations" with him have anything to do with any of this. Undoubtedly.
I'm here to tell you Clinton was wrong..."oral relations" is still sex and most men do not respect a woman that will engage too quickly in sex with them. I personally say, get the paper and the ring...then sex can be introduced.
CLINK CLINK!!!
2007-12-25 17:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by RT 66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange
2007-12-25 17:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by tina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't worth your time. He called you a whore and a heifer. I'm married to an aquarius, and sometimes he needs his space, but the actions you described are quite cold and name-calling isn't acceptable even if it's meant as a joke. It's disrespectful, and you deserve better.
2007-12-25 17:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by mnpto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy would not get another date if I were you.
I had ONE date with a guy who shook hands. That was more than enough because his head was so far up his arrogant A*S*S I couldn't wait to get home. First and last blind date for me!!!!!
2007-12-25 17:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is afraid of where your mouth has been in the interim. He figures you for a quick bit, but is awkward about how to express the fact that he is just looking for a job.
2007-12-25 17:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just forget about him and move on... handshake and moving away when you tried to give him a kiss on the cheek?? Can someone say "Rejected" louder??? Sorry, but you should move on...dont waste any time or thoughts on that guy... not worth it!!
2007-12-25 17:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by tramimaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesnt sound like he is still interested in you if he hasnt made the effort to respond to your emails or even touch you.
2007-12-25 17:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only into it for the sex part. Anyway, you should dump any guy who calls you names like that.
2007-12-25 17:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by gwhillikers2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the creep. No one should feel like they can call you names. And it sounds that you were just a hook up. Let it go... he's not worth it.
2007-12-25 17:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by EmiRoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋