this guy that im pursuing as a boyfriend is a big brother to a guy i hook-up(meaning intercourse with no attachments) with and i had no idea. I dont no if we should talk about or i should jus forget it. Also b/c i dont like telling pple about how i did what with cuz it kinda breaks the code. If you have any suggestions or comments fell free to do so. Thx!
2007-12-25 09:12:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hooked-up with not still
2007-12-25 09:15:29 · update #1
Hey there's no need to tell anyone how you feel... Even they guy you wish to pursue.
Make a point of spending some time with the guy you want.... That way you can both figure out if you want things to progress into more than just friends or just forget it.
It's nice to hear that you don't like to kiss and tell.
So what if the guy you want is a big brother to the other guy ~ He'll get over it eventually so don't waste time feeling awkward about it. Since you have kept things private by not talking about your relationships he shouldn't feel awkward either.
Take care and go after what you want!
2007-12-25 09:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by ezxqz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be a deal breaker. On the one hand, starting out any relationship with honesty is putting your best foot forward, but being with you after you've been with his brother may weird him out a bit. (See, whether you were emotionally vested in him or not, that's still his brother.) Sorry, I wish I had better news.
2007-12-25 09:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋