I have been widowed almost four years. I have not gone out seriously with anybody. I have gone out a few months with a 53 year old. A few times we have taken my young daughter who is six years old. It has never gotten romantic just being friends. Is it too early to even think of it? He is a gentleman and mature with a sense of humor which I admire.
2007-12-25 08:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its mostly how u feel but because u have a young daughter you should be thinking of her first and then make ur decision but of course include her in telling her even tho she may not understand everything
2007-12-25 08:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. By the way, it's 53.42 not 53' 42". And to what the other person said about 10 year olds having 40's, that's around average.
2016-05-26 05:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by maribel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 year difference? Doesn't matter. You're a 42 year old woman who's seen enough of life to make careful choices that will affect you and those around you. It's not like you're a little girl and he's trying to steal your candy is it? So go with the man if he makes you happy.
EDIT: The truth here is that you've got to know whether you're looking for a partner for yourself or a father figure for your daughter. If you're looking for a partner for yourself primordially, then you're on the right track. If you go into this looking for a father figure for your girl, neither you or him will be happy. It wouldn't be fair for him. You are very responsile and careful to be concerned for your daughter's well-being, make sure you are responsible and careful with your feelings as well as his'.
2007-12-25 09:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by remove me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My condolences on your loss.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you seeing a 53-year-old gentleman. I am 52. At your ages you are both still young enough to enjoy each other's company and yes, even sexual interludes.
2007-12-25 08:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy
2007-12-25 09:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok! dont let age get in the way of a relationship or how you feel. you should keep seeing him and see where it goes. but dont let the age be a problem. if two people connect..then why let a thing like that get in the way. two people connect..then they connect. so if you like him and he likes you. then go for it. keeping going out with him..and who knows what might happen! you might be surprised and even might get really serious. so best of luck
2007-12-25 09:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh i cant see a thing wrong with it --- the age difference is not that big and im surprised he has not got romantic --- im 55 and i want as much romance in my life as i can get ---- have fun
2007-12-25 08:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at an age that compliments a man that age. May and December romance this is not. You compliment him and he compliments you. Keep him.
2007-12-25 09:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 50 and i myself will like to go with any girl from 18-60.nothing wrong as long as you can satisfy your partner mentally and physically.
2007-12-25 09:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big age difference. Go for it if you like the guy: )
2007-12-25 08:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋