I have been messing around with a guy that has a girlfriend (he lives with her..NO KIDS) for a couple of months, he says that he loves me but that he also loves his gf is it possible? He says that he feels happy when his with either of us. I know its wrong wat im doing but I really really like him. Some advice please!!!
2007-12-25 02:37:13 · 12 answers · asked by carla_mendoza005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its VERY weird... but maybe it COULD be...
2007-12-25 02:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possoble. Im in love with two guys and the problem is that I see one of them everyday and the other one only two times a year for a few weeks. They both dont really know that i love them so this makes it easier but it still bugs me because I cant admit that im in love and maybe have a relationship with anyone of them because theres still the other one. I think it is wrong what he does because hes cheating on his girlfriend. It is possible to love two persons but you shouldnt "be" with them at the same time. But if he cant decide and you cant stop seeing him you gotta do what you gotta do. I would quit everything if I was you because Im such a jealous person and could never to this to his girlfriend but if you just like him that much theres nothing you can do but see him even though you know its wrong and you could hurt her. I know how it is. Maybe you two can be friends, I guess this would be the best solution but most times things like this dont work to well. Its your life youve got to decide. Good luck
2007-12-25 03:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a bad situation to be in because it will turn messy for somebody. Someone is gonna get hurt and thats the hard truth. You can deeply care for someone but if you really love someone you'll only want that one person. He may love you or her but not be IN love with you...or her for that matter. Its not fair to the girlfriend for you to mess around with him because if the shoe was on the other foot and you really love this guy you'll feel like crap if he cheated on you. You guys need to come to terms with what your gonna do.
2007-12-25 02:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by stormfire_06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it hon- if he is living with her, they are obviously committed. If this has being going on for months and he hasn't left her for you, he probably cares more for her than for you. Give him an ultimatum- if he really does care for you more he will leave her. Think about his gf- it's not fair on her to go behind her back, and you'd be pretty hurt if it happened to you. You can't keep this up, she is going to find out eventually.
And of course he feels happy when he is with both of you- you are both getting his rocks off. He is male and probably randy. Cheating on his gf even though he apparently loves her sounds a bit twisted to me.
2007-12-25 02:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nickytoto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is certainly possible. Some guys even have multiple wives, etc. I guess they love them.
People love their families, etc.
Sure you can love more than one person at a time.
Your only choice is to tell him how you feel. If he insist on having more than one girlfriend, and you do not agree, then you must move on.
Nothing weird about it, just different.
2007-12-25 02:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I guess but I think their is only ONE person that makes your heart skip a beat and takes your breath away. He may love you both under different degrees. Get out of that before you get hurt and hurt the other girl sweetie.
2007-12-25 02:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by In hiding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya it is possible but better watch out tat the other one doesnt find out you like someone else 2
caz then youll be in big trouble n a mess
2007-12-25 02:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by sexy100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good deal for him. He can have his cake and eat it too. I think he will find some more that he loves because the more the merrier.
2007-12-25 02:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Neil 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't thimk so...
As I heve never experienced nor seen.
may be he is trying to use u,
sorry unable to answer u correctly
2007-12-25 02:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by model_1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called infatuation, not love. He's just attracted to you, not in love with you...
2007-12-25 02:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by rkc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the best of both worlds. Well, if you will allow him...
2007-12-25 02:46:38 · answer #11 · answered by MoreOfMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋