would u get married at 15?

Question

well got just sed yes 2 my bf but im not sure if i want 2 go through wit it

Answer 1

No. Plus if you do decide that you want to your parents will have to sign for you.

Answer 2

Heck no. However, there is such things as long engagements. Give it about 4 or 5 years until you actually take the trip down the aisle.

At 15 you have no idea what it's like in the real world when you have to worry about things like how to pay your bills, who will do the laundry, what to do when you can't run home and hide after a serious fight....etc. Are you capable of love at 15? Sure, but you have no way to tell if that is lasting love. Marriage takes alot of work and you need a good partner and helpmate as much as a lover or it's not going to succeed.

Besides that it's illegal to marry at 15. You have to be 16 and even then you need consent from both of your parents. If they actually agree to that then they are idiots.

Answer 3

Let me just say this....I was 17 when I got married. I was strong willed and thought I knew what I was doing. My mother signed for me because they knew I would do what ever I wanted even if it meant living with him until I could legally get married on my own.
It was a huge mistake! I know everyone tells you that you have no clue what you are getting in to...but to be honest with you...that doesn't even begin to touch all the issues that you have no idea lay ahead of you! There is a rare percent that do make it, especially if they have parents that are willing to help you every step of the way until you are old enough to fully understand what all is going on...but they are few and far between and I really hope that you don't just "think" you are one of those few....because I did too. And I got divorced 3 yrs later with a daughter who paid for my mistake the rest of her life.
Of course we promised to never let her know the anger we had towards each other...but his promise lasted less than the time it took him to get out the door.
It is just too hard.

Answer 4

No. Fifteen is much too young to make a decision like that. The human brain's connections that make judgments and assess consequences are not fully developed until age 20-21. You will see things very differently after that.
No matter how mature, no fifteen-year-old is capable of making a competent judgment about that kind of decision.

Besides, your own heart is obviously not in it, because you yourself aren't sure. That's a big decision, with consequences you can't even imagine now. You'd need to be sure.

And last of all, this is a time in your life when you should be trying out new things, having fun and discovering who you really are, not working, raising a family, arguing with your husband and trying to pay the bills.

Best of luck.

Answer 5

god no, at 15 I though I was MADLY in love with my then boyfriend....at 17 I broke up with him. If you are not sure about it then thats your answer, you don't need to get married. I'm not opposed to getting married young, I got married at 21, my mom got married at 20 and they have been happily married for 27 years, thats not the issue, but 15 is just too much. tell him you'd rather it be a promise ring and that you want to wait a while to get married. no need to break up or anything, just slow it down! Good luck!

Answer 6

Your only 15, why rush the relationship? I know several people who got engaged at 15 and 16. Within one year they were broken up and engaged to other people. Now those people are 21 years old and either married to their true love, dating someone, or single. At 15, your still in high school, depending on your parents, don't have a license, or job. No one will hire you until your at least 16. Most place especially malls and shopping centers wont hire someone unless they are 18.

Here are things to think about:

How would you be able to support yourself?
Where are you going to live?
Your going to stay in high school right?
What about college?
Can you see yourself without him?
Is this real love or just high school puppy love?
Are you ready for a family?
What does your parents think? At 15 they have to sign you over to him. You can't go and get married on your own.

I know this isn't what you want to hear but I just think its best to wait until your able to financially support each other. You don't want to get married have financial problems. 15 is just way to young. Try just being engaged, you are still learning so much about each other.

Answer 7

I wouldn't get married that young. I was a different person when I was 15 to now that I'm 27. Plus there are studies that say teen marriages don't last. My husband got married at 16, and before he was 18 they had a baby and were divorced! There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are older to get married. And if he doesn't understand that, then he wasn't the right one for you.

Answer 8

I'd NEVER get married at 15. NEVER.

I'm 31 now and I'll be 32 before I marry for the first time. It's a HUGE decision even at this age...think of this...

Are you ready to be independent? Are you ready to pay the ...
rent/mortgage
gas
electric
garbage
snow removal (if applicable)
cable
internet
phone
grocery
clothing
supply BILLS?

Again, I'm 31 and my fiance and I have very good jobs and we struggle at times. Make a smart choice and DON'T get married at 15.

Answer 9

Oh my God please NOOOOOOO!!!!

You are far too young and have so much growing as a person to do. If you love eachother have a LONGGGGG engagement - if he is mister right he will be around in your 20's (which is still young but better then 15).

I live in Canada and the average age for a married person is probably 28 years old.....no where near 15.

Good luck

Answer 10

Then why in the world did you say yes?????

You need to let your fiance know you need time to think and time before you get married (like after age 18 to be sure).

If YOU want to, then get engaged!

Depending on what STATE you are in, you may not even be allowed to get married until you are 16 or 18.

Answer 11

Do Not Even Think About IT. You have no idea what you want. Get a promise ring. You are tooooo young.
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