i went out with this guy
were only 14.
after i dumped him his best friend told me how he was talking about me, and how he said
"im nothing without her" and
"id rather kill himself then spend another moment without her"
after i found out, i told him i didnt feel the same and that we should stay friends
his best friend [who is also my friends]
told me that i should go out with him before he does anything drastic..
one day we hung out for the first time as "friends"
and his cousin told me how afterward he kept on ranting about how pretty i looked and how much he wanted to kiss me.
when i confronted the guy and asked him if all of it was true
and he said it was... at the time, but he changed his feelings
and now he likes a new girl and she likes him and they want to go out or something
is he lying and using that as a cover story
or has he really moved on?
2007-12-25 18:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by DinoxxLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i doubt that he's moved on because i've had that same situation and i know that he was trying to make me jelous (spelling error) . i think he's also up for attention.. because if someone says that they will do something drastic its to get your attention! i think that you should not even react to what he's doing with his new girl... and if the topic comes up say that "i'm soo happy you've found someone... or you guys are a match made in heaven".. lifting up stuff.! but i hope this helps! and i hope that he's moved on and that he's not so ubsessed anymore!
2007-12-25 18:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by hales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dumped him, then that means you should let go of all emotions attatched to the guy. Just think of him as another one of your guy friends. Yes, he is being a bit of a "drama queen" but you should still respect him and give him his space. If he says he's moved on, he's moved on and if you keep bothering him about it, its just going to bring it up again and hurt him more. Even if he's not over it, he's at least trying to move on. So give him his space and forget about the friend, just listen to what the actual guy has to say for himself. Be friends with him and nothing more.
2007-12-26 02:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pancake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you as much as he claimed to, then it wouldn't be humanly possible to move on that fast. You both still have a long life ahead of you. Enjoy your life and don't let boys get in your way.
2007-12-26 02:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by just that gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really quick answer, boys at this age are indecisive. If you gave him a second chance and he is talking about someone else. He has moved on, but don't worry, he'll eventually move on from her to.
2007-12-26 02:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dianasaurus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so concerned? You did not want him anyway. Let the poor guy move on with his life.
2007-12-26 02:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? He could have moved on, but he might just be trying to make you jealous.
2007-12-26 02:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Krystal H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him to kill himself to find out if he really liked you..
2007-12-26 02:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well he could like this girl... But then again if he is really that desperately obssesed with you then he could be trying to get back at you... but who knows....
2007-12-26 02:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both 14, ur hormones are all over the place and at 14, no-one knows what they want.
2007-12-26 02:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by cloclo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, it is a teen age love.is it ?
2007-12-26 02:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋