Leaving Partner?

Question

After over three years and having had a baby together who is now 10 months old, I have decided that I want to leave my parter. I am a very involved mother and do everything possible with my son, when I am not at work. However, my partner has failed to grow up and is still out doing what he pleases. He is very uninvolved. I just no that this is not what I want but I am finding it so hard to walk out the door. Does anyone have any ideas to make it easier for me to leave. Thanks, xox

Answer 1

go to court for full custody

Answer 2

just keep remembering your initial reason for leaving, uninvolved with your child. immature, not worrying about you or the child. just looka at your son, ans when he smiles at you, that should be incentive enough to find the strength to do whats best. mothers intuition is best!!

Answer 3

This is your decision? Did you go to counseling? You should always try counseling first. If you've made up your mind try moving in with family to take some of the work off for you!!
Good luck!
~V.

Answer 4

if you're finding it that hard to walk out...then maybe you just haven't had enough yet...cuz when you get to that point...trust me..you won't have a problem finding the door and leaving...good luck

Answer 5

You will be ready to leave when you have had enough. Not until. Then you won't have to ask anyone for help. You will just go.

Answer 6

well i would call it guts in leaving and starting a real life over

Answer 7

THINK CAREFULLY AND MAKE A VERY VERY WISE DECISION... HAVE PREPARED A PROPER ANSWER FOR YOUR SON WHEN HE ASK "MUMMY, WHERE IS DADDY?" OR "MUMMY, WHO IS MY DADDY?"