i had beentalkng to dis guy for 2 yrs nw we wer frds .istarted loving him share lot of things sometimes i got various hints wen i knew dt he loves me too but dnt know wt holds him back to say that.he sys nw dt he is gettng married after 2 months nd he wud like me to be in his life as a frd coz he dsnt wnt to loose me but when i said i love you he said i never felt dt for u ever...wt does he meant by all dis shud i keep dis frdship for ever .i know i wnt be able to coz i love him so much nd wud like him to be wid me forever.he said dis is d last time hes taklkng to me nd tc when i tld him i cnt continue d frship as i wnt mre..
2007-12-25 18:16:39 · 20 answers · asked by SUNNY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
srry for the short words, was feeling like nuts when i asked it...
2007-12-25 18:26:28 · update #1
in the long run you would only hurt yourself if you remained friends with him b/c it would hurt you to love someone and know that they are with someone else. Just tell him thanks for the time you and him shared and wish him the best of luck with his new wife. Trust me it will hurt when you do this now but you will hurt more if you drag a friendship out that is a onesided love. Just be realistic and look at it ...could you really only be his friend and be okay with that, If so then remain his friend but i think that, it would hurt you too much in the long run.....best of luck to you
2007-12-26 05:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Positive side:
Romantic relationships tends to have more arguements and disagreements because your actions are magnified and that you feel pressured to be somewhat perfect for your partner.
On the other hand, Friendly relationship tends to be comfortable and relaxing with no pressures since it doesn't scare you that much to be that comitted to your friend.
Besides, I think when society looks at a person who has lost his/her romantic partner it tends to be negative while when someone lost his/her bestfriend it oughts to be more balanced with no malice.
He probably wants to keep your relationship in the comfort zone so it can and most likely to last forever than the other one.
Negative side:
You're probably being used as an alternative or reserve if something goes wrong with his marriage.
He's probably just playing you to his enjoyment and entertainment.
2007-12-25 18:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Random Lurker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to be married, and he wants the same thing he is getting now with just being friends, thats the old question of why buy a cow if the milk is free? why get married if you get all of the same things as a married person but have none of the commentments?
Get rid of the looser and learn not to be so quick next time in seting up house in your mind and not in real life.
2007-12-25 18:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by John M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frame the question better..
Well,its clear he dn't want a relation with u...so u better keep out of him..dn't continue being his frnd bcos you loved him lot and it may remain in ur heart and with that feeling in you,if u continue to be his friend,his wife amy feel bad and that may lead to rift between them...so better stay out of their life..
Why worry,you'll soon find a true love who will love you more than u do..
good luck
2007-12-25 18:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Nimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to read. Maybe he has always liked you for a friend. I'm sorry his feeling weren't mutual. If you can still be his FRIEND then perhaps you should. If it is going to be too painful for you then I would say... cut ties.
2007-12-25 18:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of there is a few form of fee calculation in touch. isn't that nasty? All existence is priceless, yet i ought to take this existence to stay to tell the tale (eating, defeating threats), through fact my existence is greater priceless than this different existence. and then it turns right into a skill equation - who has the skill to take existence?
2016-10-19 22:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by vukcevic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got tired of trying to read your question after the first sentence. Use complete words, good spelling, and grammar, and you will get more and better answers.
2007-12-25 18:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. WD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh? Are you drunk or just really that bad a speller? Maybe you should pay attention in class instead of chasing after boys!
2007-12-25 18:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
good luck
you trusted the man didnt you
dont trust anyone blindly
think before you take each step
watch your steps in future
better luk in future
hpy new year
2007-12-25 18:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by mr_cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just from the use of words, it seems that you are not mature enough to share his life with him...i mean what if he wants to home school his children...using words like..dt..nw...come on...what would you do
2007-12-25 18:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋