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i've been seeing this guy i really liked for less than two months. the thing is, he's trying to move the relationship really quickly (no sex, but everything before it). he talks about still being together in the future and such but when he describes what he likes about me, it's only physical characteristics. is this guy actually a keeper, or is he only interested in being physical?

2007-12-25 18:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Girl, you gotta realize something. Guys will tell you they want to spend their life with you and have a family with you, a bunch of children and a picked fence. They all do that in the beginning of a relationship. At least the ones that are serious in something more then just a one night stand. It's called infatuation.

That means nothing more then just they want to take the next step toward exploring where this relationship could possibly go. Don't take it is a desire to be intimate right away, no as a desire to get married. That is just a normal stage for any relationship. Do not read into it.

2007-12-25 23:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 0 0

He is talking about physical characteristics but not physically-perhaps he knows only your physical characteristics. Let him know more about your personality-perhaps he will be waiting for this information before talking physically. He appears to be a prudent person.

2007-12-25 19:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by moon 1 · 0 0

He doesn't sound like a keeper. If he only likes the physical then he will leave as soon as something changes. He seems like he may be shallow and materialistic. Be careful.

2007-12-25 18:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0 0

well...my ex was the same..he always talked bout my butt or boobs n stuff like that...never said anythin bout my smile or my personality..things like that...and yes he did talk bout everything before sx and we'd only been datin for ten days!! some guys are just like that..and do really like you..and some just want a piece of ***...i told him that im not ever gonna have sex with him..and a cuple days later..her broke up with me..you need to sit him down and tell him your boundries right now and see how he racts..if he gets mad..he jsut in it for ***...if he understands..give him a chance
good luckk!

2007-12-25 18:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by ~?????~ 2 · 1 0

its better to quit those fantasy dreamings..better seek a good one...physical aspect is not the basic rules of love and to be love...

2007-12-25 18:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by sweety 2000 2 · 0 0

sounds physical

2007-12-25 18:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 1 0

he could just be non to bright...physical is the easiest to compliment, and a lot of girls like that anyway.

2007-12-25 18:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

ask him to make sure. ask him something like what if u started to act differently, would he still like u. something like that. and maybe that would lead to him talking about your personality.

2007-12-25 18:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes

2007-12-25 18:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 1 0

HE IS CHEETING
I THINK HE IS ( GAY )

2007-12-25 21:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by ali A 1 · 0 0

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