What do you think and suggest from your past? Do they really change if they confess.
My 2 years bf started cheating on me and he was sleeping around with that horrible girl. I really feel awful, but after I found, I said I am going to call her to find the truth.
He broke up with me that night. I was mentally depressed, not yet recovered, a year now. He still calls me and says, what a terrible mistake he did.
He broke up with that girl because the girl turned out to be a bad girl, sleeping around with many guys before..etc
What do you think about this person?
2007-12-25 18:31:32 · 20 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had given so much in that relationship that it hurts me all the time. I had been a ideal loyal and loving gf/partner to him. Still he dumped me like trash.
He said I would be the last person he want to be with and said I am ugly and a very very bad person.
I am not able to forget those words, which really tear me apart.
2007-12-25 18:51:48 · update #1
i believe when a man wants out of a relationship he will say and do things that totally wounds u to the point u can never forget the unkind words. they do it because they really feel this way at the time and they want out of the relationship. they are also immature and have no conscience to talk to someone like this. i would say not to ever get back into any kind of relationship with him no matter how sorry he says he is, its just who he is, he feels he has to bash someone to get rid of them. unfortunately even if they confess, its not going to change what they said to u, or the comments they made and it will never be the same. what he did was totally unnecessary and could have been avoided.
2007-12-25 22:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it very wrong and you better learn this now. It isn't "once a cheater always a cheater" it is "once a man always a cheater" You need to learn the facts of life NOW:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. I don't lie.
2007-12-26 10:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and yes again. The first time a person cheats is the hardest time, after that every affair is easier for them to pull off.
Once a cheater always a cheater is very true.
My friend cheated on his wife and was very sorry, and went crawling back to her swearing he was insane and would never ever do it again. Since then he has had FOUR other affairs. He has been caught twice now with his pants down and each time he swears he will NEVER do it again and within a very short time he is cheating again.
The man should be thrown off his boat and left for the whales.
Cheaters are the lowest of the low. Think of the diseases he is exposing you to.
2007-12-26 03:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its once a cheater always a cheater. He left you for a girl that turned out to be just like him. Now that she didn't want him he wants you back. after he left you all depressed and emotionally ill he wants you. Life isn't like a movie. Happy endings never occur. if you give him another chance he will do the same thing all over again. honey start a new chapter in you book. he was just the chapter before this new one. get to meet new guys. don't look for love because if its true love love will find you.
2007-12-26 02:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that people can change. My BF has never cheated on me hopefully he never will. but Once a cheater, isnt necessarily a cheater for life. some people do learn from mistakes, some people can actually change!
if you plan to take him back just make sure he gets an STD test along with HIV test cuz it seems like he's literally been around the block or at least the girl he slept with.
2007-12-26 02:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by love with your heart and mind. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, Run, Run....... what it takes to rebuild a relationship is more work and heartache than he's worth. Once your partner has done this to you it will never be the same and do you really want to live with the ??????'s for the rest of your life. Chances are his character flaws will only multiply in time, I wouldn't take the odds he'll change. Move on and make yourself happy and keep your standard high ~ guys with integrity are the only ones worth your time and affections.
2007-12-26 02:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never encountered a cheater who didn't cheat again. I'm sure they are out there, but I have to say in my own experience and the experiences of the people I know, once a cheater always a cheater...
2007-12-26 02:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by midwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't say that he'll be a cheater forever.
You can give him a chance but it's really up to you. Trust is gained by time and experience not just by the words "sorry, I've done wrong".
2007-12-26 02:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOO
DONT GET BACK WITH HIM
HE LEFT YOU FOR THAT GIRL NOW THAT HE FOUNDS OUT SHE WAS A WHORE(WHICH IN THIS CASE I WOULD SAY IS SUCH A NICE WORD FOR HER) HE WANTS TO COME BACK FOR YOU WELL IS REALLY UP TO YOU BUT FROM MY OPINION I SAY YOU SHOULD TOTALLY SAY NO
IN THE OTHER HAND PPL DO CHANGE BUT IN THIS CASE, I'D SAY HE AINT WORTH IT SINCE HE CHEATED THE FIRST TIME PLUS HE LEFT YOU AND GOT WITH HER AND WELL THE REST IS IN THE FIRST PART OF MY ANSWER SO GOOD LUCK
TAKE A GOOD REASONABLE DECICION
n_n
2007-12-26 02:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jussiie Fresita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a person cheats on their partner and gets away with it they will always know that they can get away with it. It's only a matter of time before they will do it again.
2007-12-26 02:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by Soylent Green 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋