I'm 18 years old and have same year girlfriend. I want to have sex with her soon but first i must know she is virgin or not, then we're gonna decide to have sex or not.
2007-12-25 18:23:16 · 11 answers · asked by z_man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked her about that but she said that she's a virgin, but i doubt. We've been together for 6 months, what is better to know her virginity?
2007-12-25 18:38:24 · update #1
there is no way to tell for sure whether a girl is a virgin or not.. sometimes a girl is born without a hymen(aka cherry or piece of skin that covers vagina and is 'popped' during her first time) and sometimes it breaks by the girl doing sports like gymnastics and horseback riding. also, a girl could also have had sex before but only have the hymen stretched not broken, till she is with a man who has a larger penis. you have to ask her, otherwise there is no sure way to tell..
2007-12-25 18:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the girl a break! You don't love her enough to respect her sexuality. You just want to try it with her. Why would her being a virgin or not matter in your decision to make love with her? Virgin or not, if you love her, you love her.
Shame!
2007-12-25 18:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.. having sex is a decision between the both of u.... if u can't just ask her if she is then u shouldn't be having sex with her
also it doesn't' matter
and if ur planing on having sex she shoudl know so if it is her first time and shes' scared she can tell u her worries
2007-12-25 18:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you can't tell if shes a virgin by having sex with her. (common myth) Why don't you just ask her? Really thats the best way to find out.
2007-12-25 18:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you need to know the status of her virginity to decide to have sex or not? all you need is for both of you to agree on having sex.
2007-12-25 18:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, but why don't you ask ur girlfriend to spent a night with me... definitely let me know you, whether she is virgin or not.
2007-12-25 22:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by LoCo#33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is none of your business, but if you are close enough to have sex, then you should be close enough to discuss whether she is a virgin or not.
2007-12-25 18:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...ask her?
She is your girlfriend after all...and it's always better to discuss these things rather than guessing or assuming.
2007-12-25 18:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else just ask her. If your relationship is really that serious she should have no qualms about telling you. If you can't talk about it then you shouldn't have it, simple as that.
2007-12-25 18:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask?
besides does it matter??
so long she dont hav ne diseases...
sorry to be blunt but better safe than sorry eh?
2007-12-25 18:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by wil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋