Is it possible for a man to know wether his wife is a virgin or not apart from any physical signs?

Answer 1

that whole virginity thing is such a farce. in modern society women's hyman can rupture from sports and daily life. if your wife is worth loving isnt she worth trusting? if she says she is a virgin, and you can't believe her, what are you doing marrying her? without trust and openness, you're marriage wont last anyway.

Answer 2

Virgin is a person who has not had sexual intercourse. The term refers mostly to a woman, but should apply to both the sexes. On the first wedding night when the husband inserts his penis in his wife’s vagina, she is supposed to bleed due to the tear of the hymen situated at the entrance of vagina. The myth is that if she does not bleed, she is not supposed to be a virgin.

There is invariably a double standard about virginity. Those men who make sure that their brides are virgin, are usually the same men who make sure that their girl friends do not remain virgin and they themselves do not remain virgin. There is no sign of virginity either in the males or in the females. Tear of hymen causing bleeding is not the sure test of virginity. If a woman bleeds on the first wedding night, she may be a virgin, but if she does not bleed, it does not mean that she is not a virgin. There are several reasons for not bleeding on the first wedding night, other than the previous intercourse. The hymen may be very lax, or it might have been torn by fingers or by vigorous sports or by the use of tampon during the menstruation. There is a saying, “It is difficult to prove a girl to be a virgin, and it is more difficult to prove that she is not a virgin.” Purity should be in the mind and not in the vagina. Man or woman should not ask the spouse about the sexual experiences prior to their marriage. Even if she/he asks, you need not tell the truth (never in this matter at least). Still better would be to think that virginity is between two ears and not between the two thighs. Boys also feel that sex with virgin girl is more pleasure. It is not so. Do wearing brand new shoes or shirt give you more comfort? (New shoes may give you blisters.) Some girls are afraid of profuge bleeding and pain at the first intercourse due to tear of hymen. The bleeding is not more than a few drops and the pain is not more than a prick of a needle. Anticipation of pain is more disturbing than the pain itself. There are certain other reasons for not bleeding on the first wedding night. The man ignorantly may try to insert his penis at urethra or at clitoris of the woman when she will not bleed inspite of having intact hymen. The hymen may be thick and tough where it is not possible to penetrate by the penis. In that case she may need a surgical incision to cut open the hymen. A woman with a very lax hymen also does not bleed on the first wedding night. One more thing about hymen. Some girls do not have perforations on the hymen and therefore, the menstrual flow, instead of coming out, accumulates in the vagina. She gets pain and retention of urine. This condition is called “Haematocolpos.” A simple surgical incision relieves the problem.

Answer 3

In marriage, you want to be totally honest sexually with your spouse. Sex is a big issue to men. Start the marriage off right.

If being a virgin is a dealbreaker to getting married, he is going to have far less options of a mate.

That is what engagement is for so that we can get to know each other before we choose to marry. Honesty is always the best policy, or else the lies and untruths will make for an unpleasant marriage.

Answer 4

I guess its possible for a man to know.
The next question would be how does he know if he is also a virgin.

If virginity is that important to both of you, I think some discussion is in order.

It is so sad that virginity is valued more than all of a woman's other attributes. It is as if the only thing important is her unsoiled vagina. Were I a woman, I would not want to be with any man who made that a deal breaker regarding our marriage.

Answer 5

Since it is generally customary to have sex on a wedding night, it would be rare for a wife to be a virgin once she is a wife.

But frankly, who cares? If you already married her, what you going to do divorce her again because she was not a virgin? Seriously, it is a complete non-issue.

Answer 6

Why you want to know this answer. What is the benifit of it. If you both really love each other then this question does not arises. Change your mind and accept her past forgetting what ever her past is. My dear friend the only thing in life you cant get with load of money is love.......dont miss that thing.

Answer 7

provide me a wreck the male double criteria kill me. You have been married till now and he knew this previous. it extremely is going to be a non subject or it extremely is going to of been labored out previous to marriage. It kills me whilst muslim men have intercourse till now marriage and it extremely is okay through fact at some point they elect they choose to be non secular and improve a beard. Then they decide others whilst for sure they should no longer. you probably did no longer something incorrect fairly being a unknowing revert (besides you have been married). He grew to become into born a muslim and constantly knew what he grew to become into doing grew to become into incorrect.

Answer 8

Uhm I believe if she is your wife than it is too late...No?

Physical sighns are not always acurate. My first husband (decessed now) was uhm...lets say smaller not tiny just smaller and I never bled. We had no children. When I was remarried then I did bleed. My first husband and I had plenty of sex, but my second husband was thicker and it made a diffrence.

Answer 9

She is your wife. you have any children? When did you marry her? Have you had sex relation with her. If yes is your answer she is not a virgin.

Answer 10

If that is what you are wondering, you should leave and let her be. The past is the past, a relationship is about the future and trust not about prodding the past.