do i still love him? i think about my ex bf everyday of my life.?

Question

but we broke up 2 years ago. i don't want him back, i already told him that. and that is what i also want to tell myself.. when i saw him with a girl last christmas eve, i was jealous coz i thought it was her new girl only to find out that it was a common friend. why cant i get him out my mind.?. do i dtill love him? why i am feeling this way.

Answer 1

You have to work at getting him out of your mind.

It's been two years.

Let go and move onward and forward with your life.

Trust me, he's gone on with his. So why not go on with yours?

Answer 2

Two years is a long time, but sometimes it takes even longer! The important thing to keep in mind is that you will get over him eventually; it may take three years, or five, or seven, but there will come a time when you won't think about him every day anymore. Meeting new guys may help speed up the process, but don't try to force it or to use anyone as a 'rebound'.

I'd recommend getting counseling to help deal with it.

Also, based on personal experience, it might help to remind yourself, whenever you catch yourself thinking about him, of why you don't want him back, why you broke up, why he's not good for you.

Best wishes. I know it's easier to say 'let go' than to actually do it, but time heals all wounds, even if a little scarring remains.

Answer 3

That sound like most normal girl's problem. They chase what they can't have. When you saw your ex bf with some girl you don't know. It hit you in reality, that you guys are really broken up.

I'm sure you have some feelings for him still, how can you not, you known this person for a while. Feeling would always be there.

But if your here questioning of you love him, then most likely your not. It is just the fact that you want what you can't have ever again with your ex bf.

Answer 4

i would say that u still liked him.

IF YOUR STILL SINGLE AND HE IS STILL SINGLE
CONTINUE READING IF NOT DON'T BOTHER I'M GOING OFF THE POINT HERE

the qns now is y the break up in the first place? think it over

Were you were thinking properly when you wanted to break up with him back then? Was the argument or problem was really that big for u to say such thing?

Did u say such words in the middle of an arguement? If yes, then you might just have say it in the heat of the moment. You might have regretted saying those words. But u couldn't take them back during that moment.

talk to him abt the breakup but don't do it directly. be friends, be casual, starts things over.

i apologised in advance if i make you angry in any way

Answer 5

I know what you are going through and I am sorry you are. It is easy to be told time heals the broken heart but the important thing is what you do with that time. I have no doubt in my mind that you will heal. There will always be a place in your heart for him, but you will move on and at some point you will be able to talk about him and even see him and it won't bother you. I know it doesn't seem that way now, but it will. Good luck to you!

Answer 6

You probably like him. Jelousy is normal with exes but if you think about him that much & stuff chances are you still like OR maybe love him. maybe going out and hanging out also talking putting fresh new ideas about him in your head might make the feeling go away. see him as a friend, you might just have the memory of what it used to be and you never had closure. your still in that epizode were you love him. Talking to him and hanging out would be the best thing to do to figure out things. Maybe he still loves you and it can work out.

Answer 7

You are obviously still in love with your ex otherwise, why would you be feeling jealous when you saw him with another girl.

It is also possible that you are irked since his new girl was a common friend. Since she was a common friend (and obviously you know her), subconsciously you might be thinking "what did she find it her?"

Answer 8

You still love him. Perhaps you aren't ready to admit it to yourself or to him or to anybody else, but you do. I'll sum this up in a conversation I had recently:

"Time heals all wounds...eventually"
"Wounds by love do not heal that easily"

Eventually you may be able forget, but while you are not able to, take it as a sign. Perhaps you have yet to finish your reationship with him, however that may work out. Love is odd, and seems to come out of the weirdest moments to surprise us, and all you can to is grab hold of it and hold on tight on the rollercoaster ride we like to call life.

Answer 9

Obviously you still love and care for him you just aren't in love with him the way you once was. Some people that you date, you'll naturally have feelings for as years pass. Not the kind that you want to be with them, just the kind that makes you wonder what happened/what went wrong/how are they doing/etc.

Answer 10

it doesn't neccesarily mean you still love him..u could still be getting over him..and sometimes it really does take a while...its quite normal for u to think of him, when you love someone..its not easy for them to stop being a part of your everyday life...maybe you do still love him..or maybe ur just making it harder for urself because u really dont wanna be over him..otherwise y would it have taken over a year to do this..do some soul searching because noone but u can really answer this question

Answer 11

Honey, you need to get a little backbone here... get some confidence and go forward in your life. You've been thinking about your ex for two years??? That party is long over... you are wasting precious time in your life.....