i have am confused between TWO guys,one is extremely handsome with a cold heart and feelings and the other is a person whose heart is filled with joy and happiness,always makes you see the cosy smile of his,i learned from him a lot,how to be confident.i know have two problems,how to show my love and know who actually loves me,who to CHOOSE?this is my thrid one but not the major,i actually dread love as i have been through a harsh break up,three years ago?!!!!!!! actually,may be they both do not love me and take me just as a bestfriend,how SHALL i know?help plzzzzzzzzzzz
2007-12-25 23:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by skull92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the one whom you know will respect you & love you for who you are. You don't need to prove anything to anyone when it comes to love. Si that means you don't have to try & win anyone's heart because he is handsome but cold.
2007-12-25 23:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose character. This is a decision that will get much easier as you get older. When you're young, you want the pretty face that will make you the envy of all your friends, at least, thats what you think. If you want to be envied, be happy, be treated like a princess, and let someone else learn the lesson that cold-hearted, soulless prettyboy has to teach.
2007-12-26 07:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one with the big heart.
You can't have a healthy relationship if he's got a cold heart but handsome face.
But the one with the big heart is the best choice because he can love you for who you are, not because you're pretty.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-26 08:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone a cold heart and feelings will only bring you grief.
Go for the with a good character. He will bring joy into your life.
A pretty face with age in time (Many of the people I knew years ago where the most handsome have aged badly.)
But a good character last a life time.
2007-12-26 07:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to choose I would say go for the kind heart, that is what will make you happy, at the end of the day looks are worth nothing if there is no goodness inside.
2007-12-26 07:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by khadija k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would choose the one whose heart is filled with joy and happiness...
It will make me feel better if I choose him. So what if the best charcter is not really handsome...
2007-12-26 07:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Devil... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good looking one sounds like a turd. Why would you want to be with a guy with a 'cold heart' who will probably treat you like crap and then cheat on you?
Go for the one that sounds like an interesting and nice guy.
2007-12-26 07:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would choose the guy that would make my heart sing, the guy that would respect me and make me one of his numbers on his priority list..if u choose the PRETTY FACE then it means you don't like him because of his personality, you like him because he's cute..if u choose that kind of guy you're gonna be in a situation where u wished you haven't chosen him at all..u'l regret making that decision..
but if you choose BEST CHARACTER, you'll be happy all your life (just as long as you have feelings for him too, then that relationship would be just perfect).. :)
hope i helped..
2007-12-26 07:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~`Enigma_Chic`~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try never to judge a book by its cover.I always believe in opening the book and looking inside.
2007-12-26 07:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty shallow if you take the one that looks good but you can't relate to. Pick the one that you can realte to.
2007-12-26 07:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by miles c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋