Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

So me and this girl were very very tight, (lets have her name be jill) but she lives in a different town, we were thinking about going out when a girl that ive been seeing for over a year (lets say her name is sally) that lives here asked me back out after we had been broken up because of me and jill getting tight. so i said yes to sally but the only condition was i couldnt talk to jill anymore, now its 1 year later and ive still talked to jill off and on but never much and im still with sally, but im getting this feeling where i want 2 know what would've happened between me and jill and ive started talking 2 her more and telling her my feelings about her cause i still care 4 her very much. Me and sallys relationship is great but i still wonder what couldve been. Jill hasnt really told me how she feels, but she has said that she kinda wonders what could've been but i dont know what to do. i want 2 b with sally but i want to know about jill but im not really suppost 2 b talking w jill

2007-12-30 17:59:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i leave my present girlfriend or should i go with bobogirly i need help

2007-12-30 17:59:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you have a crush on someone and let say never did anything about it and then something happens like you move away or whatever you just dont see them, how long before you forget?

when i say crush i dont mean lust, i mean you like that person becasue of who they are inside and out.
do you still have feeling of your 1st crush? how long?

the way i see it if they are never more than just a crush then that person in your mind will always be perfect.
okay i think i ramble on to much...i will stop now :D

2007-12-30 17:59:06 · 7 answers · asked by Momo 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 17:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my best friends is Nikki! We've been through so much together, but I'm starting to question our friendship and see if we really were ever friends. Let's start from the beginning.So when I was in 1st grade I met Susie and we became close. Well in 7th grade Susie started dating Rob and he had a daughter my age. We became really good friends. Well Susie had a brother named Mike and Nikki had a huge cruch on him. Over the years Nikki and I grew closer than ever and now we r in the middle of our jr year.Well last year (my sophmore year) Mike started hanging out at my house. When I would talk to Nikki on the phone he would call her a fat *****, whore, ect. He was always putting her down and he made the statement "I don't know why that fat *** ***** likes me I would never date the fat whore." After that I told Mike I hated him because he had no right saying that. Now Nikki is dating him. Well I told her all the stuff he said and she dumped him, but now she is with again. What do I do

2007-12-30 17:57:26 · 2 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Friends

2007-12-30 17:56:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to an all-guys high school so I didn't have much of an opportunity to meet girls. I've been in college for a semester and I haven't really met any girls since I don't drink so I haven't been out to the bars, parties, etc. I've joined a couple clubs but they really don't present the opportunity to meet peope. I'm going to be in Army ROTC so will girls like it when i'm wearing my uniform. Also, i've decided to make a New Year's resolution to be more outgoing and to talk to people like making conversations with people in my classes. I'm a nice guy and I respect girls so I can improve the shy thing will girls want to date me. What will they think about the military thing?

2007-12-30 17:54:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I pulled it off.. I did three girls in one night (individually, old flings, hit & quit it) and now I don't want them around me. How do I get them to leave me alone for good?? God I'm so hot. Sometimes I wish I was ugly

2007-12-30 17:52:49 · 18 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so this boy up in one of ma classes flirts with me all the time,he always talking to me touching me ,"tries" to hold ma hand wen im not paying attention and he sits rite infront of me so he always turning around to tlk to me asking if im going to his games nd stuff.Also out of class wen we see each other in the hallways he tries to tlk to me then or sumtimes he just stares at me passing by him (which is creepy),but everybody always asks if were going out or if he likes me or if i like him.Nd after school he wuld want to hang out with me b4 he goes to practice iono does he like me ,dares more for me to tell bout how he always wants ma attention on him nd ect. iono does he or am i clueless .

2007-12-30 17:50:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever i have sex with my girlfriend she screams a lot, i know a lot of girls fake it. and i was wondering how do i know it's for real?

2007-12-30 17:50:22 · 15 answers · asked by broseph gibbles 1 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to hit a girl who hit u frist ?
and if it is we should change the crap because the women think they can step all over us.

2007-12-30 17:49:48 · 9 answers · asked by nick b 2 in Friends

Hey...if your gf or bf kept on an online journal and a paper one and would never let you ready any of it.....would that bother you at all? Even after they say they trust you, love you, and want to spend the rest of their lives with you?

2007-12-30 17:45:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many pairs of shoes do u own?

2007-12-30 17:43:04 · 21 answers · asked by Annie 5 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing a man, great looking, romantic, good job, is totally into me, but as soon as we started dating, a close male friend told me he had feelings for me, and now I'm confused, I keep finding myself thinking about my friend instead of my boyfriend, weird thing is I'm not physically attracted to my friend, my boyfriend is much hotter, but I can really talk to my friend about anything, we are really close. I even had a sexual dream about my friend, I don't understand , I should be completely happy with my new boyfriend, why do I keep thinking about my friend, am I with the wrong guy?

2007-12-30 17:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Chris TM 1 in Singles & Dating

I went through a tough time with a guy friend, and I want to know that he has hurt me. I want to say that I've cried alot, but should I leave this part out? My friends always say never to tell a guy you've cried over him b/c it just gives him power.. I don't know how I feel about this statement.

2007-12-30 17:40:25 · 23 answers · asked by mellei 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont know why but ive always had an infactuation with girls with green eyes. I dont know what this says about me and I even feel that if I met a girl with green eyes we would have a romantic, long, loving relationship and possibly even grow old together.

I am so sure of this ive pushed girls and women away that want to get close with me just because of the colour of there eyes. Am I vain? Does anyone believe that you could want something and feel very very strongly about something and get it. (Maybe I should think about winning the lottery lol.)

Please let me know what you think.

This is a serious question and I would like honest answers.

Thank you.

2007-12-30 17:40:24 · 12 answers · asked by DJ Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

my nieces and nephews are coming to visit, aged between 10 and 16, and i would like to take them somewhere fun. other than museums where else could i take them. i would rather not just let them stay at my house and watch t.v. all day.

2007-12-30 17:39:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just found out my exwife and my kids cant come down.
they live in ok i live in tx so some please tell me why dose it hurt so bad when I cant see them
you would think after awhile i would be easy but it not
i all ways look forward to seeing them

2007-12-30 17:38:04 · 27 answers · asked by Bobby T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother-in-law is in trouble. He is the sweetest person in the world. He has done a lot to help other people out of the kindness of his own heart. It's time that he got somthing in return at this time in which he is the one who needs help. It would be the greatest thing if you could please pray for him. This is a man who fed hungry children and a homeless man out on the street and bought an old lady he barely knew an air-conditioner when it was a hundred and three degrees outside and she could barely afford a fan. Please.........God bless all those who help someone who has helped so many others. Just pray for him and God will know what he needs and who he is. Thank you and have a blessed new year.

2007-12-30 17:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by ☠princess_gabrielle... 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-30 17:35:46 · 37 answers · asked by Love, S. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I actually did IT with my x's best friend. It was great and all but now he's mad at me and so is my x. How could his best friend be mad at me when right after, he was smilin at me. I'm 15. My friends dared me to do it so I did it and got 500$ from my friend danika. Do you think he's mad because he found out about the bet? He didn't say anything about it.What should i do now? i'm clueless

2007-12-30 17:34:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My really good friend has been dating this girl for 3 yrs. He bought a ring 5 months ago and still nothing. He says he's been waiting for the right time. Do you think he's really just waiting or do you think he's rethinking it?

2007-12-30 17:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by halo1633 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We;ve been together for for almost 7 years. He has violated me in the worst way. Now he says he's changed and he shows it. He's going to church now, got baptized and it appears that he is working hard to start a new life. He says and shows me he loves me and I care about him but I refuse to be hurt by him again. Sometimes, I except his love and give him my love in return. Sometimes, I am mean and cruel because I refuse to be betrayed by him again. Our past haunts us. I've worked hard to forgive him. But trusting is the problem. When you allow yourself to get close to a person, that's when they can hurt you the most. I am scared of loving him, but yet I do. but when those past thoughts creep up and the thought of feeling betrayed again come to me again, I shut down.
I don't want to hurt him because I am hurt. I don't want to be cruel. But I can't help it.
I love him. But I don't want to. But yet I enjoy his presence.But yet I push him away.
Help. What do I do?

2007-12-30 17:28:15 · 20 answers · asked by just curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl at college that I like. She's a few years younger than me, but we have the same circle of friends, and the same clubs.

I got her number at a meeting. I asked her a while ago to go to this Christmas tree festival, and she never returned my call. I asked her another time if she wanted to have lunch. She said yes, so we met up on campus and had lunch. We flirted a little bit.

The topic came up of relationships. She said she was single, but that she didn't have time to date, because it was the end of the semester. I asked if she had as many hours next semester. She said she had more. I was like "Oh". But then she said she will manage her time better, because they are easier classes.

I talk to her online a little. I asked her if she wanted to get together and do something when school is back in session. She said that it sounds like fun.

I want to take her some place a little nicer, and maybe rent a movie or something.

From what I have said, might she like me?

2007-12-30 17:26:20 · 8 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 17:21:44 · 24 answers · asked by david p 2 in Friends

i never had sex' i never drink' i never smoke, But now i want start every thing in in early 2008... how do you look at this?

2007-12-30 17:21:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are all boys bi polar? husbands boyfriends men bi polar?

2007-12-30 17:21:05 · 6 answers · asked by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 17:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to a girl recently and she told me she was coming to see her parents on the 23rd of Dec. She told me shed call as soon as she got home. Well obviously she didnt, in fact i called her 2x's since then telling her i hoped that she was doing ok and please call me (heck i was worried i thought the plane had crashed or something). yep, no call from her. My question is this: If you are NOT interested in a guy why do some women just decide to not call anymore? At least give the decency of telling me our not interested. Am I asking to much or is this a viable concern?

2007-12-30 17:15:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have problems. We argue about everything. I know thats not health for a marriage. We only been married a year and a half. We had problems before marriage but try to work them out but seems like the same problems are continuing. He has a problem with trust. I've never cheated. We complain about everything and anything. Is this love or what? Im really stressed about it. We have also talked to the pastor about our problems, it work for a while then it goes back to the same thing all over again. He wasn't like this before we got married. What should I do? Should I stay or should I leave?(We dont have any kids)

2007-12-30 17:15:28 · 17 answers · asked by Gin Aliza 1 in Marriage & Divorce