Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

the real 2wolfs is hispanic male 58yrs,married,1boy 30yrs, in jail,1girl 32yrs married & working. i need hip replacement.retired service tech. for copiers.one time habitual traffic violator,ex hippy,recovering alcholic,still get chinese eyes, self taught westsider,army vet.intermidiate computer user,light traveler,layed back,grandfather,limp,need dentures,ishine my shoes,natural hair style ala mel gibson,on meds , ex home owner,renting,always broke,honest except to myself,give money away when ihave it,enjoy life,early bird,few real friends,surprize surprize,where are you going to end up?

2007-12-30 02:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im leaving guys, what should I do there is a lot of things I need to sort out, thats gonna take some time. It was really nice here, I met some really cool friends... had little fun. Im gonna miss ya all... :( I hope everything going to be fine??

2007-12-30 02:21:40 · 19 answers · asked by Beautiful Disgrace 3 in Friends

2007-12-30 02:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by mohmma n 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, my mom does NOT trust me and my boyfriend. We've lost all trust to her. My mom is always being so horrible! I admit, I do hang out with my boyfriend a lot alot a lot and she always tells me that she would rather me be miserable than be with him, but it's not like he's a criminal! He's a great guy with straight A's. I need to make her realize it, but he's sort of shy. And everytime I come back rom his house, she complains that I spell like an ash tray because his parents smoke.. what can I do to make her happier and make her understand? I've told her how much I like him, but she just rolls her eyes.

2007-12-30 02:16:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going out to new years with a bunch of people to a party and i kno this guy is going to be there who is hot and single .. how could i get a new years kiss from him that is only a new years kiss and nothing more like i dont want to date him or hav things be awkward afterwards i just have always wanted a new years kiss and hes a cool guy
should i go for it or might it be weird afterwards. .oh and also my big crush is kinda friends with him but he is out of the country for new years i really like him and things are going well with us will hooking up with this guy change things?

2007-12-30 02:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a crush on agirl i started staring her....... but when i talked to her she did nt respond well .and told me about her boyfreind......but still now she stare me like anything........

2007-12-30 02:08:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to move back to florida were my family resides and to get away from my soon to be ex husband ,he is verbal abusive and controlling i am sure he will not let me take our daughter at the same time i am not going to stay here for another 12 years while he watches her grow ,i did tell him he can have her in the summers and holidays i am not trying to take her awayfrom him just want a better life, and i feel me being away from him will make me be more sain for my child i am very stressed he will be my black shadow ..Has anyone been thru this and what was the out come

2007-12-30 02:07:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been wondering. I mean I dropped not so subtle hints that I was interested in this gentlemen who have been liking me for some time. However, it took me awhile to realize this was the case.

I smiled at him all the time, went out of my way to speak to him and say high every time I saw him. I even would purposely call him over to ask him questions just, so I could talk to him. I went so far as to give him my business card and told him he could call if he ever wanted to talk. I sent him a letter congratulating him on his promotion. I went to congratulate him in person, because his new office is right across the street from my office. He still didn't get it. I followed up with a letter informing him that I found him to be kind and pleasant and would welcome the opportunity to get to know him. I even invited him to drop by my office or call and we could have lunch. After all that, I think he still thinks I was just being professional and friendly. Is that a bad thing?

2007-12-30 02:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by Dimples 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel sorry for the lady she knows nothing about this man. first off he was a hitter to all his ex's and he pulled out my hair and i had to wear wigs for 6 months. he is a alcoholic abuser. now my question is this lady knows nothing about him at all. the only way i know her number is because he called me once from the cell phone he gave to her to use. he don't even like her twins. and he owes like 45,000 to me and his ex wife. is it fair to know and not tell when her life could be in danger? even if she don't believe at least she has the option to deside for what she wants? his first wife no one ever seen only heard about. i am friends with wife number 2.....he beat on her too. my beating was not as bad only the one time hair pulling. but, what if she get killed i think i owe it to tell her and let her deside. is this a good idea or not? and give me some advise on how to do it. i know i have to wait tell he is at work cause i never know if he is setting there. thanks

2007-12-30 02:05:01 · 29 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

...any good questions to start a conversation or keep a conversation going?

what about questions to get to know someone better?

Thanks!

2007-12-30 02:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by oboesinger89 3 in Singles & Dating

its a short black dress with a belt and if i go through with it what should i waer underneath shorts? any ideas coments suggestions please will it help me attract the ladies? lol

2007-12-30 01:58:45 · 16 answers · asked by paul265116 1 in Singles & Dating

okay im in love with this girl and she is in love with me. she has a boy though but she cheats on him all the time with me cause she tells me she wants me too. She still wants him though and tells me she cant let go of him because she has tried alot of times and always takes him back. They've been together for 2 years and i just started hanging with her 3 months ago. I always get hurt though because she still does sexual stuff with him and her mom doesnt want me to be around her anymore, so she is usually with him everyday and i only get to chill with her like two or 3 times a week but the boyfriend is always there so i cannot hold her or anything. Idk if i should let go and move on, because if i told her i found another girl she wouldnt even be my friend anymore. So idk what to do. I am in pretty deep and its a hard situation because i do get hurt alot. If you could give me some advice on how to make her mine or what i should do that would be most appreciated. Thanks

2007-12-30 01:52:06 · 25 answers · asked by Jack P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 01:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is all in my head, she is all i can think about. I want her back so badly its becoming too much to bear not knowing if she would have me ever again. But what keeps me going is I believe she still holds a small flame for me, but I can't be sure- she has given me a few signs since we've been apart. I have even talked to her and sent emails saying how I feel- and she has not told me to stop saying those things as I have asked her to do if there is nothing there to grasp.
Guys i am not playing, i am unravelling i love her so very much and I tell her in these mails-
We have been apart for 3 months and during this time there were a few things that happened that caused me to hang on because she had let me hold her and even kiss her passionately once - so i consulted God, he wont answer. What do I do?
For 5 days now, she has flooded my thoughts and its the hardest thing Ive had to endure in my life I believe.
We had over 3 years together, i want her back! Im dying to have her

2007-12-30 01:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by Diadem 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf are not Indians and not living in India, but we want to get married there under the special marriage act. As I understood one of us has to live in India 30 days before we can apply for getting married. Is it possible to hire an agent or lawyer to do the paperwork for us? So that we can just go and get married asap and get the certificate of marriage. What are the possible options to get it done asap but still end up having a legally valid marriage certificate.

2007-12-30 01:46:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a chinese girl !and I'm dating with my boyfriend now!and he's been asking me to do sex with him recently !but I am still a virgin! I am 20 now!I am confused !cos differ in America,chinese people always regard it as very important .and I am afried of being regreatful later on in life! now that I don't even know if he really loves me or he just want to sleep with me because it is my frist time!can any body help me ??

2007-12-30 01:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by Yiling 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend, he's taken and his girlfriend is my bestfriends cousin. he confess that he love me. he was so sweet so i fall inlove with him too. what will i do now? i dont wanna lose him but he's aready taken.

2007-12-30 01:40:36 · 24 answers · asked by kit 1 in Singles & Dating

I always heard that if a guy likes you he will call you alot. But, I don't think that's the case, at least not in my experience. Guys, please explain.

2007-12-30 01:40:31 · 17 answers · asked by Dimples 2 in Singles & Dating

and runs off to live in another State, with her "true love" from catholic high school?

2007-12-30 01:39:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi...
I got into USA in 2006. I have a green card expaire date Feb 2009 with in that time I have to change my states to permente resident. But my marriage is v abousive in my husbend called copes 4 time during 2007. saying I am creazy in June they put me in mentel hospital with in two days they let me go giving the the report she is normal and in a v abouse marriage. on 12/26/07 he called again copes asking them to take me to mental hospital. and becouse of this very behavier he got his first marriage ended. now he is saying that he dont want to give a divorce and even dont want to give green card I dont know what to do... help me please.

2007-12-30 01:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by joti 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you see i'm muslim and i go to a private school.i can't be myself around him.i want to act,sing,dance.my mom is christian and i love her with all my heart.he thinks singing is dead end no security.but my happiest moments are when i sing.i want to tell him i want to go to a performing arts high school.and i told him but he said 'so u don't want to learn ur religion'.i already know my religion and the education is so low in12th grade they're taking wuthering heights by emily bronte.i'm reading that now and i'm in 8th grade.i have an IQ of 125.5 that's high for my age.all i want to do is be myself and i can't and the only way i can is to sing.i'm at lost for words.

2007-12-30 01:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by songbird12 2 in Family

My hubby had spinal surgery last week. He should have been out of the hospital but there were minor complications and unexpected pain. I have been struggling with how to handle this situation... His mom has taken over. First she's been introducing me as his "girlfriend" to the doctors and physical therapists... So they have been giving her all his post op info. Its as if I am not there and invisible. His brother had to tell one of them to talk to ME at which point MOM huffed off. Then she completely screwed up his contact info, using hers as his address and even went so far as to discuss payments and insurance with them!! Because of her "mistake" I may end up with the entire hospital bill not being covered... now we all know in order to leave the hospital you have to show some independence, even just getting up alone... well... I walked in yesterday and she was FEEDING him... like a baby!!! She left me alone with him for a little while and he was a totally different...

2007-12-30 01:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend mom wants to move to Atlanta and after me and her daughter been together for two years she invited me to come along but i need her to put me in school and take me to the doctor and she needs to get gaurdianship and we only have two weeks until the big move. Will a notorized letter work because i will be an adult in two years and at the age of 16 i can decide who and where i want to live

2007-12-30 01:33:40 · 6 answers · asked by da confused 1 1 in Family

is it possible to do a dna test with my brother and i and find out if we share the same father?

2007-12-30 01:32:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am in a very bad marriage so bad that i am thinking of getting a divorce, he is a pig, and he treats me badly, lies a lot, i think he is cheating on me.if i do get divorced i would like to leave the country we are in and go and be with my family abroad , my question is with regards to the kids (2x, 8 and a 2year old)how easily would i be given custody and be allowed to leave the country, what must i prove to the courts that will give me custody.
thanks

2007-12-30 01:30:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont have a horrible body i have medium length sort of wavy brown/black hair and im a punk who loves black and having fun

2007-12-30 01:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and he keeps promising we will get married but we never have. He says he wants to marry me, and can give no reason not too. He is such a prcratinator and don't feel he ever will, which discourages me. Can anyone help me and tell me why?

2007-12-30 01:26:54 · 17 answers · asked by luckygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be known for helping the old and the young in my city. Because NO ONE ELSE will!

2007-12-30 01:25:38 · 6 answers · asked by Bailey 6 in Friends

I know it sounds crazy but for me I would say yes ^__^ .
I have always felt ugly, unwanted and stepped over. It was like no matter what I do I would feel less in comparison with other cool and handsome guys weather at school or college. until I realized that me being ugly actually gives me a constant motivation to work on myself and become the best and the most successful person that I can ever be. yes, I do spend lots of time in my house but I use it well, for ex. studying more hours, study investing and busieness, drawing and modeling in 3d max, finding a new hobby .....and I won't attract girls for the wrong reasons :)
what do you guys think?

2007-12-30 01:21:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so this guy I know is my co-worker. I'm new at work and just known him for about a month. He's a very friendly outgoing, humoros and generous type of guy. he's also very hard-working. He's sexy too!

He is nice to me and always pays attention to me. he's always be there for me when I need help. we are just like good friends. we talk about anyting and everything under the Sun. we are so much alike, ou personalities are so alike.

I can't deny that there is a strong sexual attraction between us. We flirt a lot but very carefully.
The other night, we went out for some drinks, talked about life and stuff. We ended up having a passionate kiss in the car and a little foreplay. we are so attracted to each other but we both agreed that we were not ready to jump into a relationship, basically just a fling.

After that night, we both act as if nothing happened. when working, we both are very professional and we work just as hard w/o involving what happened that night.

Last night, we went out again with all the co-workers. We went to party, even though we both were so crazy to hold and kiss each other but we stayed and played it cool. Deep down, I know he was very attracted to me and so was I. When I went to the washroom, he would accompany me and wait for me. I could feel that he really liked me.

On the way sending me home, again we had a very passionate and hot kiss in the car. He told me that he liked me. I said I liked him too. When we reached a very hot stage, when we were about to make out, he told me to make it next time. He’d want to make love with me BIG time but Not now. I was so curious why he would do that. I thought that we wanted to fulfill each other fantasies that we agreed on but why would he make me wait. I kinda think he’s playing me and when I asked him, he said he liked me and would want to take it slow. He said he wanted to make him remember me and want him even more.

I tested him and I asked him if he was trying to make me fall in love and just fooled me. he said no, he knows me well that I’m not kinda girl that will fall in love easily!

I don’t understand what he’s up to. If it’s just sex then just sex. Why to make it complicated? But there’s one thing I’m sure of is he’s very attracted to me.
Guys, what do you think he’s up to?

P.s you’re probably going to say he has a gf, ok even if he has, he can do me anytime, I know him. But I don’t know why all this stupid game that he’s playing??

2007-12-30 01:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce