Okay, so this guy I know is my co-worker. I'm new at work and just known him for about a month. He's a very friendly outgoing, humoros and generous type of guy. he's also very hard-working. He's sexy too!
He is nice to me and always pays attention to me. he's always be there for me when I need help. we are just like good friends. we talk about anyting and everything under the Sun. we are so much alike, ou personalities are so alike.
I can't deny that there is a strong sexual attraction between us. We flirt a lot but very carefully.
The other night, we went out for some drinks, talked about life and stuff. We ended up having a passionate kiss in the car and a little foreplay. we are so attracted to each other but we both agreed that we were not ready to jump into a relationship, basically just a fling.
After that night, we both act as if nothing happened. when working, we both are very professional and we work just as hard w/o involving what happened that night.
Last night, we went out again with all the co-workers. We went to party, even though we both were so crazy to hold and kiss each other but we stayed and played it cool. Deep down, I know he was very attracted to me and so was I. When I went to the washroom, he would accompany me and wait for me. I could feel that he really liked me.
On the way sending me home, again we had a very passionate and hot kiss in the car. He told me that he liked me. I said I liked him too. When we reached a very hot stage, when we were about to make out, he told me to make it next time. He’d want to make love with me BIG time but Not now. I was so curious why he would do that. I thought that we wanted to fulfill each other fantasies that we agreed on but why would he make me wait. I kinda think he’s playing me and when I asked him, he said he liked me and would want to take it slow. He said he wanted to make him remember me and want him even more.
I tested him and I asked him if he was trying to make me fall in love and just fooled me. he said no, he knows me well that I’m not kinda girl that will fall in love easily!
I don’t understand what he’s up to. If it’s just sex then just sex. Why to make it complicated? But there’s one thing I’m sure of is he’s very attracted to me.
Guys, what do you think he’s up to?
P.s you’re probably going to say he has a gf, ok even if he has, he can do me anytime, I know him. But I don’t know why all this stupid game that he’s playing??
2007-12-30 01:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cannot speak for your coworker but...If I really like a lady and see some potential for something long term I like to take things slow. I figure we have the rest of our lives and the 1st time is one you'll always remember. On the other hand, if a lady is hot and I don't see anything long term...I'd love to dive right in get down and dirty immediately. He may really like you and he's NOT playing you...he told you what he's up to. Good luck.
2007-12-30 01:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 21:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said "even if he has a wife or girlfriend he can do you any time". He knows you're easy ... so he can have you whenever he wants. You need to get some self respect. If he's involved...you don't even care if you're interfering. Why all his stupid game playing???? Because he knows your not overly intelligent. For all you know you may be breaking up a family and you don't give a rats @zs because you just want what you want. You're like a kid that can't get their own way.
2007-12-30 01:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK here is azz hole again answering questions...
Some guys are good guys, and they do not want to rush things BECAUSE you girls think every guy is just after the Cat.
Dang - he just might like you. I doubt he has a g/f or wife - because if he wanted to cheat he would just do it and not take his time with you.
He is doing it right to capture your little heart, and PS - I think it just might be working if you asked a question here.
Bye Bye
2007-12-30 01:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by azz hole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you so much why not go on a date. I think he has wife or gf. what ever happens you have to work at the same place
2007-12-30 01:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KUDOS TO RICK!!!!!! and CARRIE - Your answer was way too long and wayyyyy too boring!
GROW UP, GROW UP, GROW UP! Stop being a whore and be a mature woman. Do NOT mess around with anybody you work with. You are screwing up right there. Just stop it. Stop thinking with that thing between your legs and start thinking with your mind. You are immature and a fool and if you get hurt, you asked for it. How dare you even say "he can do me anytime" if he has a girlfriend. I hope somebody does that to you sometime. I hope you fall in love, and your man sleeps with other women! I am going to pray for that. Just remember, what goes around comes around. You have no self respect and are a little sleeze.
2007-12-31 01:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time your at a coworker social gathering initiate some pda's and note his/others reaction. Then you will know.
2007-12-30 01:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by triminman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really likes you more than he is willing to admit to either one of you....wants to take things slow....If he has a gf or wife....you will know in time....things will not be adding up....
2007-12-30 01:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he doesn't want to rush things so fast, sounds like he wants to base your relationship on more than sex.
2007-12-30 01:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I lost interest in ur question after the first paragraph.
2007-12-30 05:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋