2007-12-30 01:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marriage is an experience of its kind. You can have all the experience and knowledge about alto of things but marriage is a working project. And by that I mean 1st u date the person which gives u some ideas of what marriage to this person would be like but after u get married and you guys are living together on your own is when u really learn about each other. From their cute habits to their most annoying habits but that is where your experience comes in. And if doesn't work with the 1st marriage u take that experience to you next relationship
2007-12-30 14:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by gemini07071 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience does count. But the experience you have with a first spouse does not help with the second one. I am a better husband to my wife every year as compared to the year before. Thats because I have 19 years of experience, Not 1 year of experience 19 times.
2007-12-30 12:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are born only once. Like that marriage is not a job or anything which you can change. Of course in marriage you will get more experience about affections , relationships. and happiness.
2007-12-30 09:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experience always counts in everywhere as lons as it an honest experience. In my opinion, any maraige breaks because of two reasons - one dishonesty and second expectation form each other. Be honest and have no expectation will solve evryone's problem in the world. One should expect anything from anyone only when he/she is 100% sure that he/she can fulfil others expectation. Now you know the key to the honest experience and I can gaurantee you that it will count every.
2007-12-30 10:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by imgudakesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because every marriage, every relationship is different. What worked for one marriage might be poison to another. Two people forging a relationship together need to make it work for themselves. Trying to pattern a life or a relationship off of someone else's never works.
2007-12-30 12:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with you on that point.
The experiences I have acquired over a lifetime, including those from my first marriage, have taught me all kinds of valuable lessons. I think it is my experience that provides me with the tools to work so hard on this marriage.
2007-12-30 10:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by judy y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says that it don't count in marriage? I think that one learns from their own mistakes and from their partners mistakes. Therefore from this learning, they can go into another relationship with knowledge of knowing what not to do and change things about themselves that were previosly a bad trait. so, it does count the way I look at it.
2007-12-30 10:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because in marriage you learn your experience of it day by day and that is what makes a marriage.
2007-12-30 09:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a learning experience for both spouses. Yes experience counts....however, is it the right experience, or is is based on false pretenses, ideaologies, friends discussions etc. Gee with more info we can go on and on......
2007-12-30 09:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most women think if you've been divorced once you'll be more likely to get a divorce again, but maybe it was just bad luck the first time.
Divorced twice or three times or more? Forget him, he obviously didn't learn from the first mistake and can't be counted on to stick around if things get tough.
2007-12-30 09:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋