i have this friend, he's taken and his girlfriend is my bestfriends cousin. he confess that he love me. he was so sweet so i fall inlove with him too. what will i do now? i dont wanna lose him but he's aready taken.
2007-12-30 01:40:36 · 24 answers · asked by kit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's taken and has confessed to loving you.....RUN because he will be with you and confess the same "love" to another......THEN how would yo feel?
like your best friends cousin.
2007-12-30 01:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this guy doing to you? Why would he say he loves you if he has a girlfriend? Isn't that unfaithfull? It is highly possible that he'd be unfaithfull to you too even he does actually break up with his current girlfriend.
I don't think this guy's worth your time. You'd be lot happier with a man who doesn't have a girlfriend or wife.
It doesn't mean he won't cheat but it's better than holding on to a man who you don't even know you can have.
2007-12-30 01:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite a predicament. Since he is not married, all is fair in love ,and war, so he is really not taken. HOWEVER, he could be playing games with you and lying about his feelings. So you have two choices; see where it leads, if you decide to pursue this (but be prepared for the consequences); or cut the bait line and move on. Personally, I would move on. There are to many unknown variables with this guy if you decide to act on your feelings for him.
2007-12-30 01:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by corsettesandkimonos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.... He's already taken so therefore it is impossible for ryou to lose him as he is not yours to lose.
Just settle for being his friend if you can be sure thats all it will be~ a FRIENDSHIP. Otherwise probably better that you back off for a while. You wouldn't want to go messing around spending karma dollars.
2007-12-30 01:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by busymum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taken move on,because it will cause problems.It will be like u are getting in the middle of them.Think about it if it was u do u want someone to do it to u and if he loves u he will dump the other girl for u.just wait and see.
2007-12-30 01:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by prettygirl32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Imagine if the roles were reversed and you were already with this guy and your best friend's cousin was asking that question to us? Would you like someone interfering in your relationship? I don't think so, so just let it go for now till he comes to you.
2007-12-30 01:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Taken?... I guess you already know the answer.
By the way, common knowledge that many men will say anything to get sex. Be smart. Find someone who is free.
2007-12-30 01:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by UrbanFarmer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can not say he loves you and be with someone Else. He's not being real. The best thing to do is to get over him even though it may be hard.
2007-12-30 01:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rask09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he say he love you but is attached so dont fall too deep. Unless he and his gf break up else you should not go out with him!!! if he say is very hard to break up with his gf then you might as well dump this guy, he not worth your time!!!
2007-12-30 01:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by tsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he'd break up with his girlfriend and go out with you. He's probably just a jerk that wants to get in your pants.
2007-12-30 01:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋