Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

This may sound like just another teenager vs parent thing, but it really does drive me insane! It seems like my mom just jumps down my throat at any given opportunity! It's like she's looking for a fight =\. And after we fight she always tries to make me feel worse and more angry afterwards by bringing up the subject out of no where. I'm seriously fed up with it, but I'm not sure what I can do, I've put up with it for long enough, I've even tried ignoring her, but I can't avoid her forever. Any ideas?

2007-12-30 05:16:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she wont answer the phone should i leave a message or wait tell she answers the phone. read my last question to see whats up with me calling her ok. thanks

2007-12-30 05:13:46 · 9 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont actually go out lots.. in fact I never go out but thats kind of what scares me...Im scared that I missed my whole youth. What Im wondering is if 22 is too old to start to go out and have fun?

2007-12-30 05:09:47 · 33 answers · asked by Cera Lily 1 in Singles & Dating

im 20 and im 15 stone, i want your honest opinion

2007-12-30 05:03:45 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the myths that you've heard about reguarding dating and relationships.

2007-12-30 05:02:35 · 3 answers · asked by Adeptus Astartes 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for 2 1/2 years we have just recently gotten back together after being seperated for 8 months the reason we seperated is my step daughters mother i felt like he always put her before me becacuse he didnt want to fight with her and have her take his privelages with his daughter away. this woman hates me and would do and say anything to ruin our marriage she even said about a year ago that he was cheating on me with her (he denies it) thats been almost a year ago he seems to have chaned hes putting me first in his life and seems to be doing everything he can to work on our marriage i love him and want our marriage to work i also have a hard time with my step daughter who is only 3 i know she is only an innocent child but being around her only reminds me of what her mother did and all he hard hard times i have had becacuse of her mother. how do i deal with this

2007-12-30 05:02:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well.... I am in HS. And I like this girl. This girl figures me to be her best friend type of person. Whatever. So... shes then like, "can i tell you a secret, I like your best friend." . So, my best friend knew the whole time that I liked her. Once he found out he was like "I dont want to go out with her... blah blah blah.. we bros, i cant do that to you". 3 weeks later, they go out. Now, i still like her and I am unsure what to do.

Any tips?

2007-12-30 05:01:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I have been inseperable since we started primary school, have never fallen out, have loads of memories together, see each other everyday and love each other to peices. However, I have been accepted to uni two hours away from where we live and last night she text me to tell me she has been crying her eyes out because she won't be able to cope without me by her side everyday :( What do I do??

2007-12-30 05:00:56 · 21 answers · asked by Rhona D 1 in Friends

I'm 17 and my mom is trying to make me be a bridesmaid at my brother's wedding but I don't want to. I mean I don't like the woman he's marrying and I know the feeling is mutual. The only reason I'm being asked to be a bridesmaid is because she doesn't have that many friends. THere is only going to be 3 and only one of those women are her friend. the other one is her cousin. I don't even want to go to the wedding much less be in it. I was thinking of telling my mom that I had other plans that day and couldn't do it. Is that a good idea or should I think of something else? One of my friends say I should do it then make a scene in the middle of the ceremony. I thought that would be funny.

2007-12-30 04:59:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

MY wife has stopped loving me!!

2007-12-30 04:59:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

last night i was talking to my bf on the phone while i was in the tub taking a bubble bath
and i guess he heard the water or something because he asked me what i was doing and i told him i was taking a bubble bath.

then there was a long pause
then i was like what?
then he said nothing it's just that when i think of a woman taking a bubble bath i immedately think of her touching herself
and i said of course i'm touching myself i'm taking a bath
and he laughed and said no like masturbating
and i called him a pervert and hung up

why do guys always have to associate normal things with sex?

2007-12-30 04:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey okay .

i signed up for this thing for actign modeling ect.
Hollywood auditions.com
and so a rep called me asked me for my moms visa number we gave it to him and we gave him all the information i KNOW I ACTED STUPID AND I MADE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE ALIVE.
but he said that i had to fax him all of the other imformation.
but i forgot to fax it to him so i dont know and i havent sent him piks or anything
he said that my first payment was gonna be tomorro dec 31 ,.

but i havent sent him like anything the fax or the piks.
and ive been trying to comunicate with him and the company but their working hours are like from monday to friday . so i cant speak to no one so will that payment go off my moms visa tomorrow! cuz i havent sent him anything i sent him an email saying i couldent sign up for this becuz my sis was extremely sick and she is so we dont have time for this.

so can you guys help me and tell me whats gonna happenn
please serious answers thanks so much !

2007-12-30 04:45:12 · 6 answers · asked by heavennnn <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father was an abuser when I was little. I went to live with my mother when I was 12. I didn't speak to him for 25 years, except for when my grandfather (his dad) past away. I initiated the conversation of course. My father has a habit of holding grudges, rages, and he's still stewing about his and my mother's relationship over 30 years ago. He's currently married to someone who puts up with his crap. But he continues to stew about the past and cannot let it go. I recently reconnected with him, and it went well for a while. Him and my step mother both told me that he can now hear my mother's name, and look at her pictures without getting ragingly mad. So I trusted that. It went alright for a while. Until this Thanksgiving. Some of you may have read my "Thanksgiving blowout" question on this forum. Since Thanksgiving, he is being so juvenile. We talked things out, and we were fine. They forgot to take their gifts home, so I sent it to them. I only put my step mother's name on.......

2007-12-30 04:44:16 · 14 answers · asked by lady_bella 6 in Family

I need lots of opinions! When people ask “how long have you been married”, what should we say? Here is our history:

Dated: for 2 years before marriage
Married: 10/98-9/01
Separated 9/01-08/03. Divorced officially 08/03.
Dating again a year after official divorce.
Moved back in together: 12/05
Remarried: 01/01/07

Husband says we that our anniversary on 01/01/08 should be our 1 year anniversary. It just doesn’t feel right! I tried it out and when I told some people that we have been married for one year, it felt so wrong! Feels like we have been married for at least 5 years! What would you say our “years of marriage” should be? How would you answer the question “how long have you been married?”

P.S. Life is wonderful with hubby this time around, now that we are older! It is for life this time! ;)

2007-12-30 04:42:37 · 11 answers · asked by cammie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 04:40:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Say you were dating someone and it just didn't work out...you know you'll never be right for eachother as boyfriend/girlfriend. You are both very busy and don't really have time right now to start dating again but you still have "needs". You still have a lot of physical chemistry with this person so you want to be "Friends With Benefits"...what are the ground rules? Should we wait a little while after the dating phase to begin the fwb phase or just jump right in? What are some do's and dont's...lol. Thanks!

2007-12-30 04:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by Shera 3 in Singles & Dating

This is just a really random question.My mothers ,mothers ,sisters,hubands ,mother is 110.I just wonderd if anyone knew anyone near that old.

2007-12-30 04:37:50 · 14 answers · asked by Alexandra 1 in Family

i went to a nightclub last night, my regular, and i was chatting all evening to a chap i'd spoken to last time, he touched me up a bit, which really got me going, though i hid it well, he was obviously excited too, he wanted me to go back to his place, i refrained, but i really want to,as i was so worked up. we're kind've mates who really 'click' emotionally and physically. i have a free reign from my hubby to have one night stands and do whatever i wish, as long as i still love him, any thoughts? he's ok with me being an escort.

2007-12-30 04:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by chakra girl 7 in Singles & Dating

I live in England but i heard this Ameican Man talk on yahoo chat yesterday and i was OMG...His voice was sexy as hell....Soooo Hot....any English girls think like me?

2007-12-30 04:34:20 · 14 answers · asked by karen_punto 2 in Singles & Dating

ALL my friends have lost their virginity ( im the oldest at 15, everyone else is 14) Is this common in all schools in the uk or is it just mine? I always thought the average age to lose your virginity would be 17 but i guess its 14 now lol. I know people who lost it even younger. Personaly i am waiting till i find someone i love and im older but im just curious. Any answers would be appreciated. Im in the UK by the way.

2007-12-30 04:34:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So me and a female friend went to a concert a few nights ago and just went as friends..We both had a good time and at the end of the night we were sitting in my car at her house talking and she hugged me said goodnight and got out.. she didnt give me the chance to walk her to the door. I just sat in the car and waited for her to get into the door, it was kinda awkward actually.. Is this strange? or was she was just nervous i was going to kiss her?

2007-12-30 04:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 04:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by syeo87 1 in Singles & Dating

my sincere condolences to benazir bhutto, a woman who is very much undervalued in the context of pakistani politics. what she stood for was a fair and equal society, or what we call democracy - where people have to right to do and say what they like. Ironic then, that the assasinator had the freedom of choice to take mrs. bhuttos life. what this did, was infact portray democracy on its highest level - the freedom to kill. Mrs. Bhuttos martyrdom will only work against the opposition [ as was the case with her fathers untimely death ]. This has backfired completeley on the opposition because her popularity is now more than theres.....

2007-12-30 04:32:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have our problems, like any other couple. But lately we have been arguing all the time! I am getting tired of it and it is effecting how I feel about my husband. I honestly am starting to dream about leaving him. Anything will turn into an argument with us.

I will admit that part of the problem is I resent my husband for alot of things, he has made alot of mistakes and he has hurt me alot. Any advice how to get past all of this? We cannot afford counceling (Medicaid got denied, which was our argument for today, since I am having ababy in 6 weeks and we have no insurance)

2007-12-30 04:32:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 04:32:10 · 7 answers · asked by amber211 2 in Singles & Dating

I been married for 7 years and we have 2 kids, my son is 6 and my daughter is 4.

About 2 years ago the sex stopped, she sleeps in my sons room and I sleep alone, the last time I had sex with her was about 2 months ago....before we had kids we had sex often but now sex life is dead with her, I try to get her in the mood but she is a dead fish. I tell her that I need for her to start acting like a wife and not just a roomate but she just thinks I'm kidding. I can't go on anymore... we had sex 3 days ago and when I was kissing her there was no sparks at all and it felt weird like if I was kissing my sister... I been going out and hanging out with my brother who is single and going to pubs and clubs and I'm alway meeting beautiful women that are interested in me. The other day I made out with this woman at a club and I felt alive again... I don't feel love for my wife anymore... and I love my kids, but we only live once and I'm still young, I'm only 34, should I find my happiness? ?

2007-12-30 04:31:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend was at my house last night and we was snuggled up on the sofa.

I looked on his phone and I saw about 4 or 5 pictures of his ex girlfriend posing.
I asked him about it and stuttering he quikly came out with i told you she wasn't my girlfriend i was only seeing her and My best mate sent me them accidently.

I think he was lieing why would his best mate have pics of his ex anyway ??
Also after his best mate sent the first picture of his ex girlfriend i would of thought he would of stopped accepting the rest and deleted it.

HELP SOME OF MY FRIENDS SAY I SHOULD GET RID SOME DONT XX i hate him so much at the moment

2007-12-30 04:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... and I've never been committed to a serious relationship ever. I mean I never had a girl friend my entire life. I did took my chance on four girls, and none of them ever said yes to me. i was always known for being NOT serious, and I am a very hilarious guy. All saiod I'm fun to be with, but none committed to forever. Should I be concerned with this situation? i'm happy with my life anyway...

2007-12-30 04:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by bananaman 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for the best guy to take care of me? But I do not no what to look for in the guy?PLEASE HELP ME.

2007-12-30 04:29:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was kind of weird. In the summer my friend and I went to this camp in Standish. We went to this teen dance with our new friends and this 13 year old guy named Josh took her to the dance. After like 30 mins. of dancing she was already going behind the building and french kissing him and she was only 10! Is that ok?

2007-12-30 04:29:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends