Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

YOU'RE STANDING IN A CHECKOUT LINE ,SAY,AT PENNEYS,,9-10 PEOPLE BEING PATIENT,THEN SOME GUY WITH NY accent COMES UP SORTA IN BACK OF THE CASHIER AND ASK HER A QUESTION,,THEN SAYS WELL CAN YOU GO AHEAD AND CHECK ME OUT??? (I know what I did but I'd love to hear some other peoples thoughts-keep in mind I'm 6'3" 210 and LOUD) ???

2007-12-30 09:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends is a girl and we've known each other for a long time. Our relationship is purely platonic. However, my parents have started joking that we should start dating. It's annoying.

2007-12-30 09:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Someone told me recently that every parent loves their kid.

I disagreed. Because I have seen parents just have their kids for their own ego sakes, and only notice their existence when it flatters themselves to.

Is it true that all parents love their kids?

My bio dad walked out, hated me, and left, when I was young.

Now, no direction from him, nothing just a big empty void left inside.

How can anyone say that EVERY parent whether father or mother, LOVES their kids?

Is not that a lie?

2007-12-30 09:29:18 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have nothing.He controls everything.If I left I would leave with nothing.I have a car now but I know he would take it from me since it is his through the bank.He would make everything impossible for me.I believe he wouldn't pay child support at least he says he will work and not use his social so I cannot get the support I deserve.I know he would be given a job without his social too.People will help him accomplish that.I would leave without anything.I don't have anywhere to go.I have a poor family which cannot financially help me.I have two kids that will be in need.If I were to go back to my mom's she lives in a little town out in the country where there is no transit system and the one taxi that is there will break the bank.I feel so lost.When I met him I was independant.I had my own car, a good job etc.Since I have had the kids I have had to work around his schedule,relocate,drop my dreams so he could accomplish his.My credit is messed up now.Please no negative comments.

2007-12-30 09:28:18 · 40 answers · asked by tiffany a 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 14 months old and i returned to work about a month and a half ago. Do you think it is right to work or is a mums place still at home? i do enjoy work but i miss out on so much stuff that i took for granted.. is it really worth it? im confused... need some feed back c

2007-12-30 09:26:51 · 14 answers · asked by Dimples 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have neices/nephews that was done wrong by their mother [negeleted,abused]as babies they were left for long periods of time to fend for themselves now the mom has join church and seem to have her life togather now the children that has grown up[30's and 40's] still will not let her forget how she did them even after she ask for forgiveness do you think they should forgive and move on with their lives?

2007-12-30 09:25:07 · 2 answers · asked by mishoney 4 in Family

I'm bisexual i will admit. I have a boyfriend now. But i like a girl and she likes me and she been wanting to ask me out. And i was wondering if its cheating on my boyfriend if i go out with her and still be with my boy i love.

2007-12-30 09:23:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 09:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Singles & Dating

Either gained alot of weight or lost their cuteness. Does the person still love you. Did you still love them. Did you pretend you where still interested when you werent.

2007-12-30 09:20:19 · 24 answers · asked by dpepperdrinker 5 in Singles & Dating

how do u know if a girl is a virgen or not??

2007-12-30 09:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well not too long ago a guy asked me out. I'd been crushing on him for a few weeks so I said yes. Little did I know that my best friend liked him too. I remembered her telling me she did but I thought that after he rejected her she would get over him. So, I said yes and I really like him but my friend is mad at me and is never really talking to me much anymore. So what should I do?

2007-12-30 09:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by Emilie R 1 in Singles & Dating

so i met this girl when looking for dance partners. we've been doing the class for about 4 weeks now and she's let me know she wants more but i'm not into her. i like a different type of girl romantically(she's about 2 stone underweight and that doesn't do it for me).

my question: is it cool to just say, "well, i'm not really interested in a relationship but i DO want to keep doing the dance-class." or should i just start thinking about another dance partner already?

2007-12-30 09:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by Ƶƴsɖ 1 in Singles & Dating

how do people feel about couples that bring their kids to functions? we have 2 sets of friends who don't have kids, and they ask us to do things, but we always have our kids because we can't afford babysitters all the time. we don't take them to adult parties, but to everything else. do they hate this?

2007-12-30 09:14:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive got a questions about seeing an older guy
do people think an age gap is a big deal?? (im 21 and hes 32)
please let me know!!!!!! xXx

2007-12-30 09:10:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend and everything, but im thinking about our future together....i mean not to mention the fact that he is white and I am black, but I want to follow through with my dreams of being a doctor and I want to know am I being stupid by being with him or loving him? Will I be able to have a successful career as a doctor if we got married? Please give me some answers because Im lost....im 21 years old...we've been together for a year

2007-12-30 09:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by kuyah86 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 09:09:59 · 41 answers · asked by ♡ 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a female friend, who wanted to get even with her bf. So she slept with this guy. She doesn't like him, but she is very physcially attracted to him. I said he must have a big member, She said yes. She loves her bf, but can't get this dude of of her head. Can a mans size affected this much, or is it more to his. She despises him so much. I told her no contact with this guy, or seek help. suggestions

2007-12-30 09:09:49 · 12 answers · asked by napolee_nj 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok people, what's your opinion? 21 year old girl walking down the street in Italy with her mum. Car stops man gets out introduces himself and tells the mum her daughter could be a model. Gives his card. How does it go from here?
My guess: He spoke to the mum to make himself seem genuine. Girl phones him has 'interview' he tells her he has many connections but she needs a portfolio and he has a friend who will do one cheap. Takes a 1000 euros off her.
Then keeps her on a promise all the time trying to get into her knickers. When no jobs come up after months of promises, she gets so deserate she will take anything.

Am I right here or is this man genuine? Have I got it all wrong, is this the way many modelling careers start? What do you think happens next, after he gives the card to the girl, how do you picture the scenario? I would love to know.

2007-12-30 09:09:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think my boyfriend has self-esteem problems or something... First off he is chinese and he wears his sunglasses everywhere like at the mall or even at night sometimes I dont know if he thinks it looks cool or what? ok second I am very out going and he is more shy. when we go some where he always just stands in the corner some where while I usually sit on the furniture and talk to people and people see how strange he is being and i even offer for him to come sit with us!I have noticed this behavior before but now that we live together I see how strange he is but I love him I just want to know what is going on with him?

2007-12-30 09:08:44 · 7 answers · asked by Mychele h 2 in Singles & Dating

So my best friend just had a baby boy and the thing isn't circumcised. I know that her husband is circumcised because we get together twice a week while my friend is at bible study and believe me he is definately circumcised.

So their baby is and it's only more than obvious my best friend must of gotten pregnant by an uncircumcised guy so she had to of cheated on her husband. I feel I should tell him that she is out tramping around rather than going to bible study as she said...or maybe even tramping around at bible study who knows. But I really think he should know she's trying to pass off this kid off on him and it's not right.

2007-12-30 09:04:40 · 20 answers · asked by Jane 6 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy once we were introduced
he found me on facebook
wrote on my wall
got my sn
starts obsessivly talking to me
starts calling me NON STOP
calls me baby(he ruined that word for me btw)
tells my bff he likes me
i told him i wana be friends
he DOESNT GET IT
i dont pick of his phone calls half the time
and im kinda rude when he calls


PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2007-12-30 09:01:31 · 21 answers · asked by lova 1 in Singles & Dating

also, how long had you known your spouse before marrying?
thx

2007-12-30 09:01:30 · 27 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 08:57:16 · 13 answers · asked by f_short_m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a private savings , checking, and credit card because my husband has stolen from me in the past and present to buy himself toys and race car parts. I think he is addicted to his cars. I heard you can get addicted to anything. He denys it. He has easily bought things on the internet with my credit card (his cards are maxed out). Somehow he learned my pin number (my bank card) I think from watching me. He was able to pull money from my ATM. He thought I WOULDN'T NOTICE. The worst of it is that now I JUST FOUND OUT THAT HE HAS STOLEN MY IDENTITY AND HAS ORDERED CREDIT CARDS IN MY NAME. He said to me yesterday that I shouldn't woryy because he has been making payments but I called and he never made one single payment. Thank god I ALREADY BAUGHT A HOUSE. He swears that he doesn't need anything else for his car and I have nothing else to worry about. He has said this over the past ten years. We have three small children. I am afraid he is a thief? Do I LEAVE? The kids love him. Is

2007-12-30 08:56:30 · 16 answers · asked by snj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Another example of why beauty is on the eye of the beholder.

2007-12-30 08:54:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my friends are going to look for cute girls to ask out and flirt with. any suggetsions

2007-12-30 08:47:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as he expecting me 2 pay for all of the wedding just because he was married before and it didnt work out so he thinks that he should nt have 2 pay for any of this wedding 2 me i think we should split it 50/50 so what do u think advice please ?

2007-12-30 08:45:05 · 40 answers · asked by in love and its great 5 in Weddings

I am 14 years old and in the 8th grade. I know I am young, but i am not naive. I know about saftey, and protections, etc. My parents have not yet given me the sex talk and they don't seem like theyre going to any time soon. Should I tell them about being asked or keep it to myself? (the boy is in the same grade and is same age and I know him well. were not dating, so its just for fun.) and if not "all the way" then how far?

2007-12-30 08:44:59 · 85 answers · asked by ifeelinfinite♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

This year is a leap year an i know that on a leep year us women are ment to ask our fella to marry us. But how would you ask him?? would you buy him an engagement ring or yourself one ect

2007-12-30 08:39:12 · 21 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Weddings

ok... me && my boy friend want to have sex... but sometimes when we are about to do it... he stops everything... but now he's all ready to do it && i've never been with a virgin before..

WHAT DO I DO??

2007-12-30 08:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating