Either gained alot of weight or lost their cuteness. Does the person still love you. Did you still love them. Did you pretend you where still interested when you werent.
2007-12-30 09:20:19 · 24 answers · asked by dpepperdrinker 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks fade with age.
2007-12-30 09:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have gained and lost weight due to depression while dating this guy I loved, I even became slightly pale but was still cute. Relationships can affect someone in both positive and negative ways. If you are happy then it will show just like sadness will. When I grew tired of dealing with all the sudden changes happening to me dealing with him, I cut him loose and took care of myself. I am no longer pale and my weight has stopped see-sawing I am very comfortable with myself.
2007-12-30 09:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by Survivor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have put on weight on my stomach recently, i was skinny all my life. I do not have much spare cash at the minute as iv moved into a new house so i can not afford to go to the hairdressers or buy new clothes. It gets me down but i know i will not be like this forever and i have other things to be grateful for. Thankfully my boyfriend doesn't seem to mind my weight gain. Other people including his mother and brother asked if i was pregnant!!
2007-12-30 09:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by fi fi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I try to leave relationships at that point. One guy had me feeling so insecure that I brought 200 worth of makeup every month....and dyed my hair various shades of browns, blacks and dark reds. He was cheating on me....and I didnt know it at the time. Later I learned I was feeling insecure because he was not satisfied with having one woman. I loved him madly and was hoping to keep his interest. Another time I met a man with no makeup and my hair not done at all. He asked me for my number.Thats a great man you see! So if the person loves you for you, it doesn't always matter what you look like. Look at all the older couples who had a few kids. HOT did you say? Most likely not. THat is love I tell ya! It is everywhere....just look around.
2007-12-30 09:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Xetra Dax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've gained a lot of weight in the last year with my boyfriend.
Some of it is because I am not as active as I used to be, we tend to sit around and watch tv and eat out a lot.
I think that's the why - he still finds me attractive I believe, however I hate myself. So I'm trying to work on it.
I think if the person you are with is with you because of WHO you are and not how you look, then you should be ok :)
2007-12-30 09:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know my ex was too much into diet (im a girl, hes a guy) so he remained hot and sexy, to be honest i think i mightve gained weight a bit but not too much and i think i look the best when im in a relationship cause then i never let myself to relax and forget to do something as basic as shaving my legs for example cause no matter what u plan to do in the morning u migth end up in bed with ur bf and u dont want him to know that u didnt shave so that keeps me tuned
2007-12-30 09:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 4 years together for 7. over the past 2 years i have gained weight that im finally starting to lose. i am very insecure about this and my husband says im not big now i was just too skinny before. how sweet!
2007-12-30 09:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by myourchisin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been together more than 3 years...
Yeah my boyfriend gained 50 lbs, but I still find him sexy and attractive and his eyes and smile never change.
I think I gained 4 lbs, it's not our looks that are the problem in our relationship, it's HIS family member(s)...not immediate family either.
2007-12-30 09:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Applelicous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a baby and gained weight. Yes, he does still love me. But, some problems rise... but its MY fault because now I have confidence isues. I used to be stick-thin and I could eat anything and as much as I wanted. NOT the case now.
2007-12-30 09:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married over 21 years and i assure you neither of us look the same as we did when we first met. Do I love him less? NO! I love him more today than ever before. Love runs much, much deeper than superficial attractions. We age together, and there is beauty in that.
2007-12-30 09:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me.. i started dating this guy when i was 16... and around 19/20.. became miserable and within a couple months gained about 20 pounds.. he didn't want the relationship to be over, but we both knew it had been for awhile. i eventually moved to vegas for school, and he still wanted to hold on to us. finally, after 5 years of this relationship, i called him from vegas and ended it completely. i had never felt more relieved in my life... and i lost about 30 pounds afterwards by eating healthy and exercising :) and not to mention.. am with the guy of my dreams, with our first baby on the way =)
2007-12-30 09:24:49 · answer #11 · answered by dylans going2b a big brother! :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋