Well not too long ago a guy asked me out. I'd been crushing on him for a few weeks so I said yes. Little did I know that my best friend liked him too. I remembered her telling me she did but I thought that after he rejected her she would get over him. So, I said yes and I really like him but my friend is mad at me and is never really talking to me much anymore. So what should I do?
2007-12-30 09:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by Emilie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a tough one. well he isnt interested in her so she needs to get over that and allow the two of you to see if theres something special between you. good luck
2007-12-30 09:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by myourchisin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should have been a friend in the 1st place. You broke the cardinal rule when it comes to friends. NEVER mess with your BEST friend's crush, current or ex. If you knew she like him you shouldn't have went there. Especially, if you didn't talk to her about it before. And the whole little did I know thing...right after you said that you said, I remembered her telling me that she did... so you just contradicted yourself. I would say dump the chump (he must be a chump if he rejected your best friend) and keep the friend!
2007-12-30 09:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by ericka0407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has no right to say she is mad.
Firstly, this guy had his eye on you, not her, she needs to understand that it isn't your fault he prefered you.
Secondly, you cannot help your feelings for someone, and the fact that you have the same taste as she does, shouldn't come in the way of your friendship.
Thirdly, she specifically said she would get over him, and that gives you the leeway to go for him.
If your friend is mad at you over this guy, feel free to tell her what i've said, and add that she is willing to sacrifice a friendship because she had a "crush" on a guy?
2007-12-30 09:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talk to your friend to make things better with her you can have a boyfriend but friends are forever my best friend moved away but once in a while she would call me it feels the same as having a friend not talk to you so tlk to her tell her how you acshuly feel about her not talking to you N all the stuff that you want to tell her couse oneday you'll get spilt apart N never see each other again i think thats all i ahve to say well good luck i hope i gave u some good edvice the only reason that she is allowed to mad at you if your sending all you time with ur bf N not her
2007-12-30 09:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should apologize to your friend and tell her everything you feel.
let her know how you feel about the guy. if she cares she won't want yall to break up. just make sure yall are not mad at each other.
let her know ur sorry and wish there was a guy for her.
cuz i know if u just broke up with him and yall are young yall would both be jealous if he had a new girlfriend
think: you can always have your best friend. this guy is just another boyfriend.
best of luck
2007-12-30 09:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try and explain things out to her and how if things were the other way round. But do bare in mind how you would feel if it had been the other way round
Make sure that you and this guy are not around her together to often because it will be like your rubbing it in her face, but give her a little time she should come around.
2007-12-30 09:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by BlondeyBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend is mad at you for going out with a guy that you like that already rejected her, shes not a very good friend. i understand what she must be going through but she should get over herself. good friends stick with each other through thick and thin. let her prove to you what kind of a friend she is.
2007-12-30 09:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by ohemgeeizmeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend shouldnt be so selfish, there is plenty of guys out there, and she should be happy for you. BEST FRIENDS shouldnt do that.... its not like you took her ex boy or something thats when that is wrong just explain to her that you are happy and wish that she would be happy for you and understand its just a guy its not like its winning the lottery... just explain to her that you miss her and you want to continue your friendship because of you going out with this guy that shouldnt come in the way of you two....
2007-12-30 09:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Wing-Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not reading what you wrote under the question but just from the main question " I really really hope that you didnt start bliking him after she already told you how in LOVE she is with him. RThat would be mean. But if she says shes okay and then i guess" That sounds like something youd have to talk with her about. Maybe you just shouldnt brag about your date with her. Plus if you liked him first then you got him.
2007-12-30 09:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then that friend isnt a true one cuz after rejection and shes still mad then i say forget her if shes gonna let guy that doesnt even want her come between you??? then... find a new friend cuz that friendshop was never strong in the first place ya know?
2007-12-30 09:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by lovepeaceopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! It's a free enter-prizing market place out there, if he chooses you then go with it,and as for your friend if she's a real friend she'll be back to talk to you even about this new guy.
2007-12-30 09:22:47 · answer #11 · answered by TEC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋