Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

I guess in my life there is no such thing as a true friend ok heres my story i have different (so called friends) in my life and something always has to go down I feel wierd because I give my attention to when my friend(s) need me but when something happens to me its like they dont care after I have helped them My current best friend came out of the closet and after he did that he changed sooo much we hardly talk and when I do call him he either tells me that he is busy or he is heading out somewhere and when I log on a couple minutes later he's on msypace ignoring my christmas comments and telling people that he is not my friend I talked to my mom about and she told me that im better off by myself. at my school there is different clicks and all my friends fall into a catagory and im just me i dont label myself people at school call me names like art freak or a nerd or bad things i ignore but deep down inside im sad what should i do?

2007-12-30 10:39:54 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ A pirates life for me ♥ 2 in Friends

i found out my ex cheated on me and know he is dating one of my friends.i still love him but he doesn't love me.i got back together w/ him a few weeks ago and his friend liked me and told me he wants to brake up.i found out 2 weeks ago that his friend lied and i don't know if me and him are still together.he is w/ this girl but i am not sure.

2007-12-30 10:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by xox_Smiley_xox 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted a questions earlier today and I got 2 responses 1 from someone incredibly young. This is a mature issue and I need some good advice! My friendship of 20+ years with my BFF from High School has really hit the skids over the last couple of years. My friend is completely wrapped up in her lil mid western life and I honestly don't recognize her anymore! She is completely enveloped in her 3rd marriage and I only hear from her when she sends me yet... another mass email with her newest baby pics in it. The last one I got yesterday had 53 pics of her new baby. Her mass xmas letter went immediatly in to the relived details of her birthing the latest edition.

Last year I got married and didn't get a call, card nothing. I sent her a cd with pics on it showing the event.. nothing.

Do you formally email and say ciao? I don't want to maintain this? Or just let it die off???

2007-12-30 10:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by BeeBee 3 in Friends

2007-12-30 10:36:25 · 9 answers · asked by Williew 7 in Singles & Dating

Agree or disagree?? Why??

2007-12-30 10:36:16 · 42 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

Let me tell you what is going on so you know my dilemma. I was giving grandmother once a week to visit with her grandson at our home. However, grandmother is a very sensitive person and always takes everything I say in the most negative way that she can. The last time she didn't like something I said, she threw a big "temper tantrum" over the phone to my husband and accused me of making her feel like she wasn't welcome at our home and robbing her of her grandparenthood. I was only being a good mother and telling her that I didn't agree with her view on parenting in a certain area of my child's life. I feel like I have a right as a parent to have "my way" with my son. Furthermore, I don't appreciate being accused of things that I haven't done just because she didn't get her way and we have different beliefs and views on parenting. I have always treated her kindly when she visits. My husband has no idea what is going on because he is hardly ever there when she does visit.

2007-12-30 10:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by ProudMommy26 2 in Family

2007-12-30 10:35:08 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I was just talking to my friend. We are just friends, but we make out whenever we go to the movies, just for like a full minute. Ok, so sometimes we rate eachother, I was just talking to him on AIM. I was like you were a 8.5, and he was like only, you were a 2. JK, JK, and then said he didnt rate it really. It was good.
Last time he said it was like a 12, and I said it was a 9.5. Tonight, he put his hand between my legs, and like jabbed up, the farthest hes went. I asked why he stoped kissing, and he said becaues he wanted to see what was happening. IDK what to think, I mean, I have no real claim on him, but I still want to do stuff. I said next time I want to see how long he can go, and he said.kk, I said and how far, and he said, I had my hand between your legs, how far do u want to go.

I know he thinks im a goodie-goodie, but what else. WHAT DO YOU THINK HE THINKS< AND WHAT DO YOU THINK< AM I A GOODIE< GOODie, i wouldnt go see the R movie....

2007-12-30 10:35:04 · 6 answers · asked by Mal777 6 in Singles & Dating

OMFG i know i am wrong and i know i blame it on me..but me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex and i am scared she might get pregnant! And her mom told her she will disown her if she get pregnant and I KNOW my parents will hate me to death.
I am really scared..i know i am wrong but i am hella scared. What should i do?????????????

I know my parents will never forgive me. and the bad thing is i am only 17.

please reply only if you can help not with insults and BS..thanks!!


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2007-12-30 10:32:49 · 35 answers · asked by angel312 1 in Friends

many may argue about having more than one wife ,but as i noticed wherever you go there are women more than men .
add to that there are lots of prostitutes every where that rises the questuion why they don't have a husbands (the most acceptable way of life)
finally he(the man) is capable of having up to four wifes. bearing in mind lots (not all) of those have one wife tend to do adutry.
so folk what do you think about having more than one wife ?
(for ladies only : we are just discussing this topic, no hard feelings)

2007-12-30 10:31:29 · 17 answers · asked by friendly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 10:30:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:29:30 · 23 answers · asked by Famous_Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bro fight all the time (it's not normally physical just shouting etc), it's more than just a little sibling rivalry, my friends don't fight half as much as he fights with me. Is this normal. One time he yelled at me cause I was ''breathing to loud''.

2007-12-30 10:28:18 · 33 answers · asked by Ciara 6 in Friends

That does'nt end with man

2007-12-30 10:26:38 · 11 answers · asked by Matty V 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:23:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:20:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am in a situation where I made some mistakes in my marraige of 7 years. We have one child together, and the past 2 years I've felt all sorts of things that I won't go into here, but fell out of "passion" if not love, with my husband (although he's a good provider). He caught me in an affair and was secretly monitoring my email over 3 weeks before he confronted me. In that time he had all sorts of raunchy pics and emails that I had sent to 2 different men online that I was interested in. He was livid obviously and shared them with his side of the family because they didn't believe him when he told them what I was doing.

Anyway, I have straightened up now and want to try to make things work, but his family looks at me like I'm a horrible person now. Will I have to live under this dark cloud of guilt my whole life while I try to make it up to him? I'm not a bad person, I was just going through a weird period in my life.

2007-12-30 10:20:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so of course i like him more than ever.
hes a really great guy, but i odnt want to just be friends with him.

he 'doesnt think we're right' but 'really cares about me'
ITS REALLY CONFUSING! make up your mind, you know!

so i was thinking of explaining this in person when we get back to school. because i have to see him every day... and it hurts quite bad. i was thinking about going up to him and kissing him... but maybe im just going insane.

am i? do i give up? i dont want him not in my life...
comments, miracle solutions, smacking me via internet?
bring it, please.

2007-12-30 10:17:46 · 25 answers · asked by borrabutts 4 in Singles & Dating

it's not like you are going to see her again

2007-12-30 10:17:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-30 10:16:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you decided to sleep with your girlfriend only to find out that she stuffed her bra and was very flat? Lol, serious answers please.

2007-12-30 10:15:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We used to really like each other, and I still do. But I never see you and when I do we never really talk, is it cuz we're both shy or because you just don't feel like that any more! We had alot of fun at my birthday a few years ago and we would always talk and hang out in your room when there was a party a going on downstairs with 30 other people! Both our mom's have been trying to get us together FOR YEARS, and I think we're both in denail!

Guys, I just wanna know what you think, and if you were him, what would you do??!

2007-12-30 10:14:17 · 12 answers · asked by PEACE OUT 2 in Singles & Dating

On my last question for a handy man, I had a few upset women taking offense to it.......well ladies, just chill out.......I am very happy if you know a few things.....and am glad to hear if you have somthing to teach me......but honestly.....if you need a handyman .........and are freezing in your house......do you want to be bothered by a bunch of women that know nothing about what your saying???? NOT me.
I was asking the what is wrong with my heater, thermal coupler or thermostat.......answers from both genders is wonderful.....but if you don't know what your talking about.....just move on and don't waste my time.......simple as that......

Just looking for an answer........not drama........
Thanks to all that can help me
I am freezing

2007-12-30 10:13:28 · 1 answers · asked by Candlelights 2 in Singles & Dating

I have heard that guys are supposed to make the first move, and it's bad for you to make the first move/ ask him out first. I've also heard that guys are really shy and like it when a girl makes the first move. Which one is true?

2007-12-30 10:10:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi

My fiance and I are having a small wedding for close family and close friends. His mother has decided she wants to invite her brother-in-law (her deceased sister's husband) and her niece and nephew. I've never met them and my fiance doesn't know them very well: he hasn't seen them for a year. The BIL now has a new partner. The nephew and niece have partners too.

Given, we are NOT inviting a lot of OUR own close friends, how do we avoid inviting the girlfriends/boyfriends of these not very close relatives.

Thanks.

2007-12-30 10:09:41 · 15 answers · asked by Ellie 2 in Weddings

Okay guys. I have heard that guys love women who have big boobs, a nice butt, who look like playmates, who are really pretty, who are skinny, and who look like strippers. Is this true??? If not, what do you look for in a girl? Be honest and respectful. Thanks.

2007-12-30 10:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by Love 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by misskris 3 in Singles & Dating

I come from a very wealthy family and am accostumed to receiving lavish gifts for special occasions. My fiance's family is also well-off, and they know the lifestyle that I am used to. This year for Christmas, his family only gave a bag that retails for a little over $700(Louis Vuitton Antigua Cabas MM.) My family and I, however, spent over $3,000 on his family. I feel cheated. Should I ask my fiance to buy me more gifts to make up for his family's lack of consideration, or just spend less on them next year?

2007-12-30 10:06:37 · 101 answers · asked by Liz Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Jake is my close friend and he's having a New Year's party. My mom doesn't want to pick me up after 12:00, so I asked her if it was okay that I could just spend the night. My other friends, Samantha, Becca, Andrew, and Ashley are staying over too. We're all just friends, so why is it so bad that I stay at his house? The girls are all sleeping in one room while the boys sleep in another! We're twelve and thirteen year olds and the only thing we have on our minds is playing Rock Band and hanging out! How do I convince my mom of that?

2007-12-30 10:05:17 · 8 answers · asked by addiebelle 2 in Family

my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 4 1/2 monthes, i mean days, and he really wants to get a room with me no more explanation, should i do it im 16 and pretty experienced and ive already been pregnant once wat should i do

2007-12-30 10:04:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating