OMFG i know i am wrong and i know i blame it on me..but me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex and i am scared she might get pregnant! And her mom told her she will disown her if she get pregnant and I KNOW my parents will hate me to death.
I am really scared..i know i am wrong but i am hella scared. What should i do?????????????
I know my parents will never forgive me. and the bad thing is i am only 17.
please reply only if you can help not with insults and BS..thanks!!
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2007-12-30 10:32:49 · 35 answers · asked by angel312 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First find out if she is pregnant.
Second, parents always say they will disown their kids,
and come to find out, they will be more supportive than
you think.
I have been there, freaked out, but i was so relieved that I wasn't pregnant.
Hope everything turns out ok, and please update with what happend.
take care
happy new year
2007-12-30 10:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
First of all you need to find out if she is pregnant. Just because you had unprotected sex doesn't mean you will get pregnant but it puts the risk at a high. Try to calm down and see if that's indeed what happend. And if not than it would be wise to use protection. I'm not going to put you down because we all make mistakes especially in the heat of the moment. I know its scary to think of but you are just going to have to try and relax and wait and see. There are clinics that your girlfriend can go to and get brith control for free and she can go and get them without her parents. I would suggest that you do something like that as well as the use of condoms that way there is back up. How long has it been since the unprotected sex? Give it a few weeks and if she is late you can go to the closest planned parent hood where she can get tested for free and they can also council you on your options and the next steps to take. There are many different organizations that can give you free help and counseling. If she is pregnant these counseling can help you with your families as well. Good luck to you I hope all works out the way you hope for.
2007-12-30 10:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 11:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point there are only a few options and they will depend on your belief there is always the morning after pill.
Also is she on birth control.
I would honestly say you should use condoms or something if you do not want to have a child. you control your future and your destiny with the choices you make just make the right ones and you will be safe and happy.
Good Luck and its just a wait and see game at this point but If she is nervous and is ok with the morning after pill have her call her doctor and get it. if the doctor does not give it out you can always try a free clinic or a planned parenthood clinic for it. and be careful in the future
Hope that helped!
2007-12-30 10:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by mojitosmellie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was within the last 3 days you can get a morning after pill, if it was like a month ago, you are screwed. There is nothing you can do, just be there for each other and see what happens. The morning after pill will work within 72 hours of unprotected sex, for your sake i hope it is not too late. Good Luck
2007-12-30 10:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um...well it's a tough situation. Suspend your fright first until you find out if she really is pregnant or not. If she's not, nothing to worry about but making sure you carry protection everywhere you go and even then to think before having sex as they are only 99% effective.
If she is pregnant, there are tonnes of foster parents who are infertile and just dying to have a baby. So, it might be best to give it to one of them. Just be sure that it would be what you really want to do. Such decisions are long lasting.
2007-12-30 10:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by kim s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your almost an adult, i wouldn't be to worried about it, it was your decision and if she is so what? your parents say that they will never forgive you and blah blah blah but they will always love you and be there for you. But just don't leave your girlfriend because your scared of it. Face your fears, talk to your parents about it and just say that it was a stupid mistake that i can't take back, but you really care for her and everything. Before you tell your parents get a pregnancy test done.
2007-12-30 10:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Cyara C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
calm down there is no reason to get all freaked out over something that might not happen. just be more careful from now on and hope for the best. you can worry if she gets pregnant, and if that is the case im sure your parents and her's will help however they can.
2007-12-30 10:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww sorry sweetie.... well if it has been less then 3 days since yall had sex you can take her to your local pharmecy...cvs,safeway, riteaid whatever and pay for her to take the emergency contraception pill aka plan b aka the morning after pill if its been more than 3 days just tell her to watch out for symptons of pregnancy... if she is pregnant thatn there is a pill you can take in the early stages of pregnancy that will get rid of the baby....if you wait to lat your only option will be abortion or to have a kid good luck..and tell her to get on birth control hun
2007-12-30 10:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tatiana M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are pregancy test you can buy from the drug store
or you could probably go to planned parenthood or to
a dr. make it plain you would want the results to be confidential and you would not want your parents to know.
if they refuse buy the pregnancy test at the drug store,
thats the least costly route to go.
i don,tt know the law on abortion in your state, but with
the views of both of your parents see if it could be done
if she is pregnant without either of your parents finding out.
i wish both of you the best of luck. God Bless.
2007-12-30 10:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long ago did this happen? As much as it sucks to say this- the morning afterpill will be ur best bet if you guys haven't waited too long. You are too young to be having kids and if you are having unprotected sex, you guys better be thinking of the consequences!!!
2007-12-30 10:36:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋