Family & Relationships - 30 December 2007

Im 14 and havn't had a girlfriend. In Ireland (i dont know about other countries) they call it ''meeting''. I havnt ''met'' anyone. But most ppl my age i know have ''met'', and id say several times. I get worried when ppl in conversations, and they might ask me...I like girls and i am too shy to ask and dont wanna ruin friendships either. Also, i am a bit "big". But that doesnt stop me hanging out, ect. But i am self consious. So wat do i do?

2007-12-30 11:18:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im friends with this person, but not great friends. I want to do something diffrent then hanging out with who i usually hang out with on New Years. How do I ask this person online if they want to hang out on New Years?

2007-12-30 11:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime i get ready to go out my boyfriend thinks i look good but i think i look like crap! why is this??
i hate it

2007-12-30 11:15:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my early fifties and met this guy online that seemed great. We have emailed each other several times....however in the latest emails he makes sexual innundos that I am uncomfortable with.....and to top it off he sent me a pic of himself shirtless.....not my style at all.....what should I do? He is from Europe and is coming to town in a few weeks. I am no longer interested in meeting him....and stupid me already made plans with him......help!!!!

2007-12-30 11:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by Diana P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 11:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my definition is when time freezing and nothing in the world matters except you and the person you are with and the feelings that you both have for each other what is yours?? it could be anything

2007-12-30 11:14:24 · 11 answers · asked by Cyntia 3 in Singles & Dating

What attracts you to me? I'm a natural blonde, 5'4", 15, pretty, smart, love smiling, love people, love to have fun and is very outgoing! The only thing is I can't get a guy so do you know how I could? If you have any ideas im me at blackwhiteatw!! It would be greatly appreciated and thanks a bunch!! : )

2007-12-30 11:14:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 11:12:38 · 12 answers · asked by candace 1 in Singles & Dating

we had sex four times yesterday and i still wanted more. i am only 20 and like sex alot. but i thought that guys were supposed to want it more than girls. i dont know how to tell my boyfriend of 8 months that he isnt enough for me??

2007-12-30 11:09:19 · 4 answers · asked by jamery 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother and I don't have a very good realationship. He's almost 16, and I'm a little younger. He doesn't talk to me anymore, and when he talks to my parents/family, he's all angry, and he sometimes yells. He drinks, not much, just beer when my parents have it, but maybe that could be affecting it? It started when he was twelve. We used to be somewhat close (not much, but still better than now), and now it's like I'm his enemy or something. He's never had a girlfriend, and I don't remember the last time he had a friend over or got a phone call. I worry about him, even though he clearly couldn't care less about me. I know that this isn't normal and I worry that it might be pshychological. Is this just a phase he's going through? Does it have something to do with me? And more importantly, will it get better?

2007-12-30 11:06:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm stumped as to what to get for my five bridesmaids. I don't want to get them something like gift cards, they too feel impersonal to me (my groom doesn't know what to get for his groomsmen, either, so any ideas for gifts for them would be great, too!) Thanks!

2007-12-30 11:04:32 · 14 answers · asked by Casablancas 2 in Weddings

I knew 3 years into the live-in relationship when my father died in a car accident one night and I forgot to leave gas money for my husband (my then boyfriend)..I take his check for the week to pay the bills and gives him what he needs (money for food, gas, spending, etc). He went through a jar of change, went to the gas station (with dimes, nickles, and pennies), pumped up and surprised me at my mom's house (which was over an hr away) because he wanted to be there to support me..What a sweetheart..That's my story.

Please share yours. The best and sweetest one gets the points

2007-12-30 11:03:24 · 10 answers · asked by baebeecakes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz i've kissed a lot of guys and i really haven't felt "the spark"..
maybe i just haven't found the right boy to kiss?

2007-12-30 11:02:50 · 2 answers · asked by <3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 11:01:00 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very real person. I like to say how things are. Some opinion some facts. The problem is I end up fighting with people. Arguements, disagreements, whatever you want to call it. We battle. I notice that a lot of people are not like me. They bullshit. And it seems like
#1. I can't handle their bullshit
#2. I like to talk about it and others turn off as if nothing happened.
#3. Can't handle that either.

So what's a chic to do? I really don't want to argue (and iI'm good at it) but I really don't want to bullshit either.

2007-12-30 10:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like me stayin home and being depressed, or goin out and partying. in whatever you are doin hope you have a safe and happy new year.

2007-12-30 10:57:06 · 5 answers · asked by jalyn 2 in Singles & Dating

all the things you want a girl to tell you wat they want to do to you

2007-12-30 10:55:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K so if you were going out with a girl that was a little over weight (say a sizi16) would you go have sex with her?

2007-12-30 10:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by i'm all urz 2 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago I ran into some money when my parents died. I lent my brother-in-law over $100,000 for his business and he lost the lot.What I am cranky about is that I found out later while his business was in trouble he was leasing a jaguar, having holidays on Stradbroke Island and buying expensive presents for his kids. When he know he couldn't pay me he asked me to buy his house for $630,000 and he would take off what he owed me - his house sold for $540,000. He also offered me some of his investment properties at inflated prices.
Now two and half years down the track,my wife's family have decided that I am the evil one because I won't forgive him and he's the poor business entrepreneur who had a bit of bad luck, but will pay me back some day.
I have accepted that he will never pay me back and probably never intended to. I suggested that my wife's brothers (two of whom are extremely well off) should share the debt with me but my wife said that was a silly suggestion.

2007-12-30 10:53:47 · 3 answers · asked by Mark L 3 in Family

If u were wonderingim from england and im going to america when im 16 to go to high school there so i was wondering r people goin to make fun of me thanks!!!

2007-12-30 10:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:51:20 · 2 answers · asked by Valentina 1 in Singles & Dating

Nobody can deny that this is true. Everyone knows that most (note that i said MOST, not ALL) people would rather talk to a pretty looking person rather than an ugly person. It's almost like they're less of a person if they're not attractive. And it seems like pretty girls can get away with much more. I was paying for something at a store and i was short three dollars and the guy let me buy it anyway. and then there was this fat girl behind me who was just buying a pack of gum and she realized she forgot her wallet and the guy wouldnt let her have it. i felt so bad and i wanted to give her money for it but i didnt have any...then i gave the guy a really dirty look and he let the girl have it. but it's just like...what's wrong with people today?? is all anyone cares about looks??

2007-12-30 10:51:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-30 10:49:37 · 37 answers · asked by renae2007_1986 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think about it?

2007-12-30 10:48:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know wat to practice wit to become a exellent kisser.

2007-12-30 10:48:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for the first timeDoes that mean what i want it to mean, ie she is up for the romance i hinted at might happen between us in my previous text to her

2007-12-30 10:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew D 3 in Singles & Dating

Damn this girl is good!!!?
check it out..i have a pretty good overall rap with girls..however im put up with my toughest competeition yet..girls help me out..so anyways met this girl in a college sex class of mine and she came up to me and started talking everythings goin good shes laughing good conversation so iet her number and she hands me paper for me to write her number on..everythings cool right so i call her seein if she wants to hangout and i get message machine leave a short and sweet message..dont hear back so i wait a few weeks and remember her talling me her b day was on dec 24th so on the 24th call and get her message machine again juss leave a short happy b day message thats all...havent heard back from still she said she worked 2 jobs, she went back home for the holidays, and the holidays people are crazy so i take that into consideration but if a guy called u to wish u happy b day wouldnt u call back or no? i dont care juss wonderin

2007-12-30 10:44:25 · 34 answers · asked by maverick 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been REALLY depressed lately..eversince my mother's brother came here from China in March and eversince, she did not care for me much and you can say she always "sacrifices" me to make him happy. It's not even human like and he does nothing to help us and no values at all. He's a disgrace to the human nature and my mom is always speaking up for him, even if he's wrong and she doesn't care about my feelings anymore. It's happened SO many times over the last 9 months, at this point, I really cannot take it anymore and I have a few choices..kill myself, runaway or just keep being depressed and to think of talking to her, it doesn't work because she's always going to be like this and it's given my very low self-esteem. What should I do? I cannot keep breaking down and taking my anger out of stuff and she screams and beats me when I do.

2007-12-30 10:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by sharaont 6 in Family

alright well am thinking about loosing my virgnity to this guy who is 15 am 14 my freinds dont agree and they HATE him with a passion only bc he asks me to send pics so i do and he shows his freinds so they realy dont like him and he has fingered me already and ate me out and so thats another reson why they hate him and am realy getting tired of hearing my freinds tell me to leave him and i cant bc i care so much about him but i dont wanna loose my freinds plez help!

2007-12-30 10:41:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating