Damn this girl is good!!!?
check it out..i have a pretty good overall rap with girls..however im put up with my toughest competeition yet..girls help me out..so anyways met this girl in a college sex class of mine and she came up to me and started talking everythings goin good shes laughing good conversation so iet her number and she hands me paper for me to write her number on..everythings cool right so i call her seein if she wants to hangout and i get message machine leave a short and sweet message..dont hear back so i wait a few weeks and remember her talling me her b day was on dec 24th so on the 24th call and get her message machine again juss leave a short happy b day message thats all...havent heard back from still she said she worked 2 jobs, she went back home for the holidays, and the holidays people are crazy so i take that into consideration but if a guy called u to wish u happy b day wouldnt u call back or no? i dont care juss wonderin
2007-12-30 10:44:25 · 34 answers · asked by maverick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably just didnt really like you but didnt want to hurt your feelings....let it go never call her again.
2007-12-30 10:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by boxleaves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not know the situation very well, from my point of view it seems like one of either three things:
She gave you the wrong number on purpose
She gave the wrong number by mistake
She is ignoring you
Either way, avoid seeming desperate and just leave it... if she hasn't been home yet to hear your messages it certainly would creep her out if you have left heaps of increasingly desperate sounding messages.... if she is ignoring you, you are in danger of becoming a pest... if she gave you the wrong numer you are just plain bugging some stranger.
2007-12-30 10:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Fiona F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwwwwwww
You really liked her...
But you have to be careful with Karma....
I bet you've done the same thing....if she's doing it to you....
To some other girl.....who you didn't even give the time of day...
And you know what I'm talking about....lol...
Because it's all about scoring for guys....See what happens when you REALLY like someone...and they don't give you the time of day?
She probably has more guys after her than you can even fathom.
Don't be a guy anymore.....be a man. And then you'll see REAL women...like her, returning your phone call.
What I'm saying is...that your..."Rap"....lost his mojo to a real serious woman....think about it.
Because when a....Woman....really likes you. Trust me...she has time...no matter what...to call back. Now I don't think she got a good impression from you.
All she got....
Was...
Rap.
Lucy
2007-12-30 10:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Photographer, USN Wife & Mother. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since all of this seems to be happening at this holiday season perhaps she isn't in a position to know you left messages on her machine. Give it a couple of weeks until college classes start again and you know she is there. If she is interested after hearing your messages she'll let you know.
2007-12-30 10:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by singlegal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call back, but i personally lose interest in someone kinda quickly, so if i were you i'd try again with someone else. but if you really like her, its what you do not what you say. a picture's worth a million words...etc. send her flowers, a happy holiday card [make sure you get the right holiday] talk to her again in class.
hope this helps! =]
2007-12-30 10:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Dungeon Master Level 4.
2007-12-30 10:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a very nice thing of remembering and calling her to wish her a happy birthday. If she doesn't have good reasons, it would be inconsiderate of her not to call back to say thank you. No need to dwell on this, you did a good thing.
2007-12-30 11:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by littlephoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is this girl good?!?!
Did the voice mail message even have her name in it?
Are you sure she didn't give you a fake number or one of those radio station numbers where guys leave messages and then they play them on the radio and laugh at them?
Doesn't sound good to me. . .
2007-12-30 10:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by LovesToCook 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she got your message and never returned your call- then she is a jerk and not worth your time. I would wait until school starts up again to decide this. She really may just be REALLY BUSY!
2007-12-30 10:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if she's away... the 24 th of december is christmas eve... and maybe she cant call her machine to check...
maybe you wrote the number down wring? im not sure... but i would call back (had i got the message)
2007-12-30 10:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by Em(mett)(ily) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would probably think it was sweet, but don't count on a call back just because you wished her HB. Sounds like she's one very busy chic.
2007-12-30 10:49:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋